When Denial Becomes a Lifestyle

When Denial Becomes a Lifestyle

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/fan_mail/new] What happens when denial is no longer a temporary defense but becomes the way we live? In this episode, we explore the subtle but dangerous ways denial can shape our hearts, relationships, and spiritual lives. Over time, we can begin to create an idealized version of reality—seeing what we wish were true instead of what actually is. While denial may protect us from pain for a season, it can also keep us spiritually stagnant, emotionally disconnected, and unable to experience the freedom God desires for us. Together, we'll examine chronic denial, the patterns we inherit through our families and culture, and the danger of appearing spiritually "fine" while quietly becoming numb on the inside. Most importantly, we'll talk about what it means to take off the clothes of denial and put on the truth—not as an act of shame, but as an invitation into healing, freedom, and deeper intimacy with God. God never calls us to pretend. He calls us to bring our whole selves before Him. When we have the courage to be honest about where we are, we make room for His grace to meet us there. The path to transformation begins with truth. If you've ever felt stuck, disconnected, or like you're simply going through the motions, this episode will encourage you to step out of denial, embrace God's truth, and begin walking in the freedom that comes from living authentically before Him. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/support] Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @love.abundantlycounselingmin Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

Conviction vs. Condemnation Part 2: Running to Jesus

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/fan_mail/new] In this second part of our conversation on conviction versus condemnation, I walk through the powerful journey of the sinful woman and the Pharisee. I unpack how the sinful woman moved from the trap of self-condemnation—those lies like “I’m not good enough” or “no one loves me”—toward conviction, choosing to fight through those negative thoughts and, instead, press into Jesus' love. I contrast her journey with the Pharisee’s self-righteousness and speak about how we often fear others’ judgments. But through it all, nothing can separate us from God’s love. This episode is a reminder that His love is constant, and His grace invites us closer, no matter what our thoughts or others say. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/support] Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @love.abundantlycounselingmin Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

Conviction vs. Condemnation: Drawing Near to God Instead of Running Away

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/fan_mail/new] Have you ever made a mistake and found yourself overwhelmed by guilt, shame, or self-judgment? Have you ever felt like your failures disqualified you from God's love? In this episode, we explore the critical difference between conviction and condemnation and how each impacts our relationship with God. While condemnation leads us into shame, self-rejection, and distance from God, conviction from the Holy Spirit invites us into repentance, healing, and deeper intimacy with Him. Through the stories of Peter and Judas, we'll examine two very different responses to failure. Both men betrayed Jesus, yet one allowed shame to pull him away while the other experienced restoration through God's grace. What made the difference? Join me as we discuss how self-condemnation can become a roadblock to experiencing God's love and why God's heart is always to draw us closer, not push us away. If you've struggled with guilt, shame, perfectionism, or feeling unworthy of God's love, this episode will encourage you to embrace His compassion, receive His grace, and walk in the freedom that comes through true repentance. God is not waiting to condemn you—He is inviting you closer. Tune in and discover how conviction leads to transformation while condemnation keeps us trapped in shame. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/support] Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @love.abundantlycounselingmin Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

Denial and Our Image of God

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/fan_mail/new] In this episode, we explore how denial can impact the way we see God and receive His love. Many of us unknowingly carry beliefs about God that were shaped by our experiences with earthly authority figures, especially our fathers. If our fathers were absent, critical, emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or difficult to trust, we may unconsciously project those same characteristics onto God. As a result, we can begin to see God through the lens of our wounds rather than through the truth of His Word. We may believe He is disappointed in us, angry with us, impossible to please, or waiting to punish us for our mistakes. These distorted beliefs can create distance in our relationship with Him and hinder our ability to experience true intimacy. In this episode, I also discuss how shame can cause us to misconstrue God’s love. When we are carrying guilt, shame, or feelings of unworthiness, we often assume that God sees us the same way we see ourselves. Instead of running toward His love, we run away from it. We hide, withdraw, and avoid His presence because we believe our failures have disqualified us from being fully loved by Him. But the truth is that God’s love does not diminish because of our struggles. His love is what draws us out of hiding. Just as God pursued Adam and Eve in the garden after they sinned, He continues to pursue us today. He is not looking for reasons to reject us; He is inviting us into healing, restoration, and deeper intimacy with Him. My prayer is that this episode helps you identify any distorted beliefs you may have about God, confront the shame that has kept you distant from Him, and discover the freedom that comes from being fully known and fully loved. True intimacy with God begins when we stop running from His love and allow ourselves to receive it. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/support] Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @love.abundantlycounselingmin Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.

How Our Behavior Affects Others

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/fan_mail/new] In this episode, we continue our discussion on denial by exploring one of its most damaging effects: how it blinds us to the impact our behavior has on others. When we live in denial, we can become so accustomed to our attitudes, habits, and ways of thinking that we simply dismiss them as, "That's just who I am." But what if the very behaviors we've accepted as normal are hurting the people around us and hindering our relationship with God? We also examine the role pride plays in keeping us from seeing the truth. Pride can convince us that we don't need to change, while denial keeps us from recognizing the consequences of our actions. Yet God calls us to a life of transformation, not stagnation. In this episode, I challenge listeners to ask an important question: Who am I following? The world offers one path, while God's Word offers another. Every day, our choices reveal whose voice we are listening to and whose example we are following. If our goal is to become more like Jesus, we must be willing to honestly examine our lives, acknowledge behaviors that do not reflect His character, and surrender them to Him. My prayer is that this episode awakens you to areas where denial may be keeping you from growth, encourages you to embrace humility over pride, and inspires you to pursue the transformation that leads to deeper intimacy with God. Becoming more like Jesus begins with being honest about where we are and allowing Him to change us. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2508570/support] Thank you for listening, and please subscribe and share.   Also, subscribe to and share my YouTube Channel.  If you like what you hear, follow us on the following social media platforms: IG- @love.abundantlycounselingmin Tiktok- @loveabundantlycouns.min FB- @Love Abundantly Ministry Patreon-  patreon.com/lovemessages If you want to financially support the ministry, you can CashApp us @loveabm Email us at loveabundantlyministry@gmail.com if you are interested in more information about our Growing Deeper in Intimacy Coaching Program.