Let's talk about my complicated relationship with money

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PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re finally having the money conversation. In this episode, I’m talking about my complicated relationship with money: growing up in Lagos, watching my mom give even when she barely had enough, learning to see money as a blessing instead of a tool, coming to America as an immigrant student, surviving college on basically fumes and prayer, and then suddenly making influencer money that completely changed my brain. We’re getting into the guilt of sending money home, the pressure immigrant kids carry, why boundaries are necessary even when you love your family, and how social media can warp your relationship with money when everyone online looks richer, younger, softer, shinier, and more booked than you. I’m also talking about my first brand deals, going from $150 a month to getting paid thousands for content, learning about savings, taxes, investments, financial responsibility, and why financial freedom is really the soft life. This episode is personal, funny, honest, slightly chaotic because your girl was sick, and also sponsored by SENDWAVE — my first official podcast sponsor, Use my code “ODDITTY” for $10 credit off your first time transfer or click this link https://try.sendwave.com/kjap/qxalfv1s with that being said, Let’s talk about money, PODD FAM. 00:00:00 First Podcast Sponsor 00:04:30 Sendwave Ad Read 00:08:45 Life Update: Sick, Still Recording & Still Yapping 00:15:20 Why We’re Talking About Money 00:19:00 Growing Up in Lagos & My Mom’s Money Philosophy 00:28:35 Money as a Blessing vs. Money as a Tool 00:36:50 Coming to America as an Immigrant Student 00:44:10 College, Class Differences & Feeling Broke Around Rich Kids 00:53:00 My First Brand Deal & Influencer Money Changing My Brain 01:02:30 Learning Financial Responsibility the Hard Way 01:10:45 Sending Money Home, Guilt & Boundaries 01:20:15 Social Media, Black Girl Luxury & Comparing Wealth Online 01:29:40 Rich vs. Wealthy: Financial Freedom Is the Soft Life 01:36:10 Advice Column: Making Money as a Young Adult 01:42:30 Saving Habits, Paychecks & Money Boundaries 01:49:00 Immigrant Guilt, Family Pressure & Enjoying Your Money 01:56:20 Women, Relationships & Separate Money 02:00:10 Comparing Yourself to Rich Women Online 02:06:00 Closing Thoughts LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 YouTube: https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud [https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud] Spotify: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnSpotify [https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnSpotify] Apple Podcasts: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts [https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts] JOIN THE PODD FAM * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amitooloudpod [https://www.instagram.com/amitooloudpod] * Twitter (X): https://x.com/amitooloudpod [https://x.com/amitooloudpod] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amitooloudpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@amitooloudpod] JOIN THE ODD FAM * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty [https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty] * Twitter (X): https://x.com/the_odditty [https://x.com/the_odditty] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_odditty [https://www.tiktok.com/@the_odditty] MORE FROM THE ODDITTY * The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheOdditty/videos [https://www.youtube.com/@TheOdditty/videos] * The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheOddittyDiaries [https://www.youtube.com/@TheOddittyDiaries] HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod #SoloEpisode #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth #Reflection

Let’s Talk Being Gay & African… with Olive Okoro of Queer Motherland | AITL?! EP 65

PODD FAM 💚 Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, our guest is Olive Okoro, better known as @digital.olive, Founder of Queer Motherland, creator, advocate, and community builder. In this special PRIDE MONTH episode, Olive joins the PODD for an honest conversation about being African, queer, and still choosing to belong fully to yourself. You know those conversations you’ll remember for a long time and that would change lives… this is one of them. This conversation explores what it means to exist loudly in a world that often asks queer Africans to shrink and what it actually takes to choose freedom, softness, community, and self-acceptance. Olive Okoro is on Am I Too Loud?! FOLLOW OLIVE AT ⬇️ * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@digitalxolive [https://www.youtube.com/@digitalxolive] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/digital.olive [https://www.instagram.com/digital.olive] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@digital.olive [https://www.tiktok.com/@digital.olive] * Queer Motherland: https://www.queermotherland.org/about-us [https://www.queermotherland.org/about-us] CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back & Happy Pride Month! 00:53 Birthday Plans 05:19 Coming Out & Being Queer as an African Woman 11:58 Meet Olive Okoro: Founder of Queer Motherland 17:26 Colonization, Religion & being gay 17:55 FIFA World Cup 22:48 Using Queer People as Scapegoats in African Politics 24:47 Growing Up Nigerian in America: Olive's Story 27:33 Coming Out to Family 31:39 Fear, Hope & Strength in Being African and Queer 34:10 Religion, Shame & Deconstructing Christianity 36:17 Praying to Be Gay 39:27 Islam, Christianity & Organized Religion 44:25 Radical Imagination & Fighting for a World That Doesn't Exist Yet 44:47 Legalization Across Africa & A Safer World for Queer Africans 48:38 South Africa's Pride Journey & Hope for the Future 50:27 Queer Joy & The Dream of Holding Hands in Public 52:12 Dating as a Queer African: Meeting on Hinge & 11 Days to Girlfriend 54:04 Why Olive Only Dates Out People & The African Dating Pool 56:09 Green Flags: Smart, Kind & Emotionally Regulated Partners 57:24 Lies, Omissions & Emotional Irregularities: The Red Flags 1:00:48 Podd Fam Q&A: How Do I Support My Gay Friend? 1:02:47 I'm Christian & Can't Support Gay People: Our Response 1:08:22 My Parents Love Me But Won't Accept This Part of Me 1:10:40 Culture vs Children: Who Do You Choose? 1:12:49 Dating Someone Who's Not Out: When to Walk Away 1:18:23 Follow Queer Motherland & Final Thoughts LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE If you haven’t already, subscribe to AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty 👇🏽 * YouTube: https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud [https://bit.ly/SubscribeToAmITooLoud] * Spotify: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnSpotify [https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnSpotify] * Apple Podcasts: https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts [https://bit.ly/AmITooLoudOnApplePodcasts] 🌐 STAY TUNED: https://www.amitooloud.com/ [https://www.amitooloud.com/] JOIN THE POD FAM * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amitooloudpod [https://www.instagram.com/amitooloudpod] * Twitter (X): https://x.com/amitooloudpod [https://x.com/amitooloudpod] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@amitooloudpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@amitooloudpod] JOIN THE ODD FAM * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty [https://www.instagram.com/the_odditty] * Twitter (X): https://x.com/the_odditty [https://x.com/the_odditty] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_odditty [https://www.tiktok.com/@the_odditty] MORE FROM THE ODDITTY * The Odditty Tv Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheOdditty/videos [https://www.youtube.com/@TheOdditty/videos] * The Odditty Diaries Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheOddittyDiaries [https://www.youtube.com/@TheOddittyDiaries] HASHTAGS #AmITooLoud #TheOdditty #AmITooLoudSofi #AmITooLoudPod #OliveOkoro #QueerMotherland #QueerAfrican #AfricanAndGay #LGBTQ #Identity #Growth #ChosenFamily #QueerJoy

24 jun 20261 h 21 min

Let's talk about my complicated relationship with money | AITL?! EP 61

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