B*TCH, YOU CAN

EP 41 - You can’t hate yourself into becoming her

19 min · 11 jun 2026
aflevering EP 41 - You can’t hate yourself into becoming her artwork

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This episode is a powerful conversation around self worth, discipline, healing and the way we speak to ourselves while trying to change our lives. So many women are trying to build confidence, health, success, or happiness but from a place of shame. (eventually, that catches up with you, trust me) In this episode, we explore ✨Why self punishment is often disguised as self improvement ✨The nervous system impact of shame based motivation ✨Why all or nothing cycles keep repeating ✨The shift from punishment to self respect ✨Building the life, body, and mindset you want from love not hate You don’t need to destroy yourself to become your next level, you deserve to feel good while becoming her. Healing Girl Homework 'Would I speak to someone I love the way I speak to myself?' The relationship you build with yourself matters more than the outcome🖤

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aflevering EP 42 - What if you're not actually stuck artwork

EP 42 - What if you're not actually stuck

What if you’re not stuck? What if the thing keeping you where you are isn’t a lack of confidence, motivation, or clarity… What if it’s the truth you’ve been avoiding? In this episode, we’re diving into the uncomfortable reality that many of us already know what we want, what needs to change, or what decision needs to be made. The problem isn’t that we don’t know, the problem is that admitting it means we’d have to do something about it. We explore ✨The difference between being confused and being conflicted ✨Why 'I don’t know' is often a form of self protection ✨How avoiding the truth keeps us feeling stuck ✨The hidden cost of staying in misalignment ✨Why the hardest decisions are usually the ones we’ve already made in our hearts Because sometimes you’re not waiting for clarity, you’re waiting for permission and maybe this episode is it. Healing Girl Homework 'If fear wasn’t involved, what would I do next?' Don’t overthink it, don't justify it, just answer it. You might already know more than you think🖤

18 jun 202619 min
aflevering EP 41 - You can’t hate yourself into becoming her artwork

EP 41 - You can’t hate yourself into becoming her

This episode is a powerful conversation around self worth, discipline, healing and the way we speak to ourselves while trying to change our lives. So many women are trying to build confidence, health, success, or happiness but from a place of shame. (eventually, that catches up with you, trust me) In this episode, we explore ✨Why self punishment is often disguised as self improvement ✨The nervous system impact of shame based motivation ✨Why all or nothing cycles keep repeating ✨The shift from punishment to self respect ✨Building the life, body, and mindset you want from love not hate You don’t need to destroy yourself to become your next level, you deserve to feel good while becoming her. Healing Girl Homework 'Would I speak to someone I love the way I speak to myself?' The relationship you build with yourself matters more than the outcome🖤

11 jun 202619 min
aflevering EP 40 - Why I disappeared (and why I’m glad I did) artwork

EP 40 - Why I disappeared (and why I’m glad I did)

After six weeks away from the podcast… ye b*tch is backkkkkkk. Ngl sis, I needed the break more than I realised. In this episode, I open up about ✨Burnout and why I hit a wall ✨Losing my grandad and being forced to slow down ✨Taking time away from constantly producing ✨Why this break changed my perspective completely ✨Outgrowing old identities and stepping into a new chapter ✨Learning that rest doesn’t make you fall behind This episode is about evolution, alignment, and giving yourself permission to change because sometimes the bravest thing you can do is stop. Healing Girl Homework: Ask yourself 'What part of my life have I outgrown… but I’m scared to admit it?' Rest didn’t ruin me, it brought me back to life🖤

4 jun 202623 min
aflevering EP 38 - Everything happens for a reason, but not everything is yours to keep artwork

EP 38 - Everything happens for a reason, but not everything is yours to keep

NOTHING IN LIFE IS RANDOM. The people you meet, the opportunities that show up, even the things that don’t work out the way you expected. It all carries meaning but this episode isn’t just about trusting the signs, it’s about learning how to interpret them. Just because something shows up in your life doesn’t mean it’s yours to keep. In this episode, we explore ✨Why life often feels random when there’s actually a deeper pattern ✨How to find meaning in both alignment and misalignment ✨The difference between something being a sign vs a lesson ✨Why 'everything happens for a reason' can sometimes keep you stuck This episode was inspired by a message I pulled around balance, harmony, and fair play, what it really means to choose what is right for you, rather than blindly accepting what shows up because not everything that enters your life is meant for you. Some things are just there to show you something. Healing Girl Homework 'Is this aligned for me… or is this here to teach me something?' Trust the signs yes but trust yourself more🖤

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