Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

"I'm Not Racist, But My Group Chat Is"

Regan and Chesko dive into the disturbing world of men's private group chats after young Republicans' racist messages leaked online. They discuss why so many guys are suddenly admitting their own group chats would look "pretty bad" if exposed, and what that reveals about toxic masculinity in isolated spaces. The hosts break down a cringe-worthy clip from the Whatever podcast where a guest confidently shares his sexist and racist views about female pilots and mechanics, sparking a larger conversation about microaggressions, performative allyship, and the obsession with being seen as "good" rather than actually doing good. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper [https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper]

The Episode Where Chesko Becomes a Crypto Bro

This week, Chesko and Regan tackle what happens when a comedian calls someone out on stage. Was it funny or did it cross a line? Along the way, expect plenty of tangents (so many tangents), from fake radio show phone calls to crypto confessions, and more. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper [https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper]

Last Minute Cruise, Long Term Consequences

Chesko and Regan dissect a viral story about a husband who claims his dad spontaneously gave him three cruise tickets on his birthday, leaving his wife to handle their four kids and her job while he jets off to Mexico for five days. They debate whether the "surprise" cruise was actually planned in advance, discuss the logistics of last-minute cruise bookings, and explore broader relationship red flags including lying, manipulation, and the importance of communication in partnerships. They also touch on narcissistic behavior patterns, the influence of manosphere content on modern relationships, and why respecting your partner's feelings should be non-negotiable (even about seemingly small things). Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper [https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper]

I Bought Flowers Once and Now I Hate Women

Chesko and Regan unpack a comment from a guy who swore off buying flowers for women after one bad experience, exploring why some men treat rejection as proof that "all women are evil." They discuss toxic dating advice, the pressure to perform rather than connect authentically, collective illusions about dating, and why vulnerability is essential for real relationships. They share personal stories about being broke in relationships, misreading romantic signals, and why treating women as individuals (not a monolith) actually leads to finding love. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper [https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper]

Giving Your Girlfriend A Curfew (And Other Red Flags)

In this episode, Chesko and Reagan dive into the problematic world of men who confuse boundaries with control. They break down a viral video of a self-proclaimed "six-foot-five millionaire" who gives his girlfriend a curfew and compares her to his Lamborghini, sparking a larger conversation about financial abuse, manipulation, and how some men use wealth as a weapon in relationships. The hosts also discuss NBA player Michael Porter Jr.'s story of weaponizing a lease agreement against his ex, and explore why these men set up rules designed to be broken so they can justify their controlling behavior. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ [https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/] Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater] https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater [https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater] Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy [http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy] Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ [https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/] Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com [http://www.thespeechprof.com/] TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof [http://www.tiktok.com/@speechprof] Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof [https://www.instagram.com/thespeechprof] Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof [https://www.facebook.com/thespeechprof] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf] Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper [https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper]