37. Why Exercising to Burn Calories Keeps You Stuck

37. Why Exercising to Burn Calories Keeps You Stuck

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! What if exercising to burn calories is actually keeping you stuck? In this episode of Body Like You, we’re rethinking fat loss, calorie burn, exercise, and mindset. If you’ve ever started a workout plan hoping it would finally make fat loss happen faster, this conversation will help you understand why exercise alone is a terrible way to lose body fat and why chasing calories burned can damage your relationship with your body. You’ll learn why fat loss ultimately depends on energy balance and a calorie deficit, but also why the advice to “eat less and move more” is far too simplistic. We’ll talk about total daily energy expenditure, why exercise only makes up a small percentage of daily calorie burn, and how your metabolism adapts when you increase activity. Most importantly, this episode explores the mindset trap of treating exercise as a transaction: “I worked out, so I earned food,” or “I burned calories, so my body owes me weight loss.” That approach often leads to frustration, body resentment, overexercise, and giving up. You'll hear how to separate exercise from punishment, calorie debt, and body dissatisfaction and begin seeing movement as a way to build strength, vitality, body trust, and positive body image.

36. Thoughts That Encourage Self-Sabotage: It's Not Fair That She Can Eat Whatever She Wants

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! Have you ever looked at someone who seems to eat whatever they want, stay effortlessly thin, and thought, “It’s so unfair”? In this episode, I unpack the painful comparison loop that happens when your body, weight, or relationship with food feels harder than everyone else’s. I also look at what research suggests about people who appear to stay thin without effort, and why the story your brain tells about them may not be the full truth. PMID: 35839758 [https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35839758/]. You’ll learn how to notice body comparison, send compassion to yourself, and move out of resentment and into a more grounded, caring relationship with your body and food. Topics covered: body image, weight loss, yo-yo dieting, food struggles, fatphobia, self-compassion, thin privilege, body comparison, emotional eating, diet mindset, metabolism myths, and compassionate health behavior change.

35. What If You're Too Close to Your Own Patterns With Eating To See What Actually Needs To Change?

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! What if the thing keeping you stuck isn’t a lack of discipline, but the fact that you’re too close to your own patterns to see what actually needs to change? In this episode, I’m talking about the power of coaching, support, and having someone in your corner who can see the path forward when you’re spinning your wheels. I share my own experience of hiring a trainer to help me with strength training, chronic pain, fatigue, recurring injuries, and stalled progress in the gym, and how his plan was not what I wanted, but exactly what I needed. We’ll talk about why behavior change is so hard to do alone, especially when your routines feel safe, your all-or-nothing thinking kicks in, or your fear of change convinces you to keep doing the same thing harder. I also connect this to nutrition coaching, fat loss, clean eating, body image, overexercising, and the frustration of putting in a lot of effort without getting the result you want. This episode is for anyone who has been working hard on their fitness, nutrition, weight loss, or body image goals but keeps running into the same obstacles. A good coach can help you stop wasting years on strategies that aren’t working, give you a clearer plan, and support you through the discomfort of doing the thing you might not want to do but probably need.

34. Thoughts That Encourage Self-Sabotage: I've Worked So Hard, Fat Loss Should Have Happened By Now

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition And I'd love to hear from you! In this episode, we’re unpacking the Heaven’s Reward Fallacy and how it quietly sabotages fat loss, body image, and long-term behavior change. If you’ve ever thought, “I’ve been good all week, so the scale should be down,” or “I worked hard, so I deserve faster results,” this episode will help you understand why that mindset feels so convincing, but leads to frustration, resentment, and quitting. We’ll explore the difference between competitive motives and compassionate motives for fat loss, and why chasing confidence and admiration through body change can make fat loss feel urgent and emotionally exhausting. You’ll learn how unrealistic expectations, diet culture marketing, and the desire to feel accepted can create a painful belief that your body has “robbed” you when results don’t happen quickly enough. This episode also offers a more compassionate path forward: building the emotional capacity, habits, and self-respect needed to care for your body for life. Instead of using fat loss as proof that you are disciplined, lovable, or worthy, you’ll learn how to reconnect with motives rooted in self-compassion and a better relationship with your body.

33. Maycember's Here Again! How to Stop Abandoning Your Body When Life is Crazy.

For 1:1 coaching inquiries, find me: Web: framenutrition.co [http://framenutrition.co] Email: aimee@framenutrition.co [aimee@framenutrition.co] IG: @coachaimee.nutrition In this episode, I’m talking about what happens to your health habits when life gets chaotic, especially during the end-of-school-year madness of Maycember. After a family medical emergency, packed kid schedules, work demands, and a false-alarm crisis pushed my capacity to the edge, I had to lean on a tool I use with clients all the time: The Oxygen Mask List. We’ll unpack why all-or-nothing thinking makes it so easy to stop exercising, abandon balanced eating, and feel like you have to start over every time life gets hard. You’ll learn how to create your own flexible health plan for busy seasons using simple meals, realistic movement, and compassionate body care so you can stay consistent without chasing perfection. This episode is for anyone trying to maintain healthy habits, lose body fat, improve body image, or build consistency when family life, work stress, and overwhelm make everything feel impossible.