The Things I Don't Share Online

The Things I Don't Share Online

Episode 57- Show Notes: Host Gwen Kelly, a stage three astrocytoma brain cancer survivor diagnosed at 19, explains she created Combating Cancer to offer a safe, honest space for those affected by cancer. She shares why she stopped drinking six months ago: alcohol didn't create her fears but uncovered lingering trauma, triggering spirals about mortality, recurrence, survivor's guilt, and anxious thoughts about her future with her fiancé, Jake, despite knowing he loves her. She also reflects on the grand mal seizure that led to her tumor diagnosis, her ongoing seizure medication's warning not to drink, and the risk of losing her independence if another seizure occurred. Gwen concludes that drinking was delaying needed self-conversations about fear and grief, emphasizing that survivorship doesn't automatically equal emotional healing and urging listeners to notice coping mechanisms that help them avoid healing. Discussed in this episode: * Welcome to Combating Cancer * Why This Episode Matters * Alcohol Uncovers Fear * Trauma and Relationship Anxiety * What I Was Really Afraid Of * Seizure History and Risk * Survivorship and Delayed Trauma * Healing Without Running * Final Takeaways and Goodbye More from Gwen: Get in touch with our team for sponsorship inquiries or guest host submissions: gkelly@assethr.com [gkelly@assethr.com] Follow and join the community: Website: https://www.combatingcancer.org [https://www.combatingcancer.org] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer [https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn [https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn]

Be Where Your Feet Are

Episode 56- Show Notes: Host Gwen Kelly, diagnosed with stage three astrocytoma at 19, welcomes Bron Watson from Australia to Combating Cancer to discuss creating a safe, honest space for people affected by cancer. Bron, a nurse, educator, and business mentor with five sons, shares her breast cancer diagnosis in 2017 that led to a rapid full mastectomy and later her 2023 diagnosis of incurable multiple myeloma discovered through routine bloodwork. She describes the trauma of waiting for confirmation, the fear of prognosis, and choosing to become an active participant in care. Bron introduces her "Serenity Project," centered on the Serenity Prayer and the idea "Be Where Your Feet Are," focusing on the next moment or "next play," naming emotions, controlling controllables, limiting unhelpful voices, and avoiding blame and shame. She notes periods of remission, embraces travel, and encourages presence, advocacy, and day-by-day coping. Discussed in this episode: * Welcome to Combating Cancer * Meet Bron Watson * Bron's Life Before Cancer * Breast Cancer Then Myeloma * The Waiting and Fear Spiral * Rejecting the Terminal Script * Serenity Project and Present Moment * Next Play Mindset * Feel the Feels and Control Controllables * Vulnerability and Family Truths * Remission Update and Living Now * Advice for New Diagnoses * Wrap Up and Goodbye More from Bron: Website: https://www.bronwatson.com.au/the-serenity-project [https://www.bronwatson.com.au/the-serenity-project] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme/ [https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/ [https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BronWatson/videos [https://www.youtube.com/@BronWatson/videos] More from Gwen: Get in touch with our team for sponsorship inquiries or guest host submissions: gkelly@assethr.com [gkelly@assethr.com] Follow and join the community: Website: https://www.combatingcancer.org [https://www.combatingcancer.org] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer [https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn [https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn]

Unmasking the Impact of Cancer: Identity and Anticipatory Grief

Episode 55- Show Notes: Host Gwen Kelly introduces Combating Cancer and shares her stage three astrocytoma diagnosis at 19, explaining the podcast's goal of creating a safe, honest space for anyone affected by cancer. Building on a prior episode about anticipatory grief, she describes grieving not only the fear of death but the fear of losing her identity and being seen only as "the girl with brain cancer." Gwen discusses how hair loss and changes to appearance affected her self-image, how she used hair techniques and makeup as emotional armor and a way to regain control, and how exhausting it was to manage others' discomfort, staring, pity, and gossip about her medical information. She reflects on survivorship and ongoing trauma despite clean scans, urges listeners to grieve their old selves without shame, and asks supporters to treat patients as whole people and keep diagnoses private. Discussed in this episode: * Welcome to Combating Cancer * Anticipatory Grief and Identity * Hair Loss and Hyperawareness * Mirrors, Photos, and Healing Myths * Control Through Hair and Makeup * Cancer as Gossip and Exposure * Normalcy Survivorship and Community * Advice for Patients and Supporters * Privacy Healing and Closing More from Gwen: Get in touch with our team for sponsorship inquiries or guest host submissions: gkelly@assethr.com [gkelly@assethr.com] Follow and join the community: Website: https://www.combatingcancer.org [https://www.combatingcancer.org] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer [https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn [https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn]

Losing a Parent Young: The Grief No One Talks About

Episode 54- Show Notes: Host Gwen Kelly, a stage III astrocytoma brain cancer survivor, welcomes 22-year-old Megan McCoy, whom she met on TikTok, to discuss how cancer affected her family. Megan shares that her mother was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer when Megan was 16 during COVID after a missed mammogram, later developing spine and liver metastases, and died in January 2023; Megan describes anticipatory grief during her freshman year of college, fears about milestones her mom would miss, and the anger that led her to try cancer research before pursuing nursing. She explains how working in a cancer hospital deepened her empathy for patients, highlights the importance of treating patients as people, and emphasizes the vital role of community support from family, friends, school, and her soccer team, including celebrating her brother's birthday the day after their mom died. Megan recommends resources like Pittsburgh's The Caring Place and advises preventive scans, self-advocacy, living fully, and telling loved ones you love them! Discussed in this episode: * Welcome to Combating Cancer * Meet Megan via TikTok * Megan's Story and Career Path * Empathy in Oncology Care * Hearing the Diagnosis at 16 * Anticipatory Grief Explained * Anger and Channeling Grief * Grief Resources and Support Groups * The Village That Carried Her * Family Dynamics and Guilt * Advice for Teens Facing Cancer * Final Thanks and Goodbye More from Gwen: Get in touch with our team for sponsorship inquiries or guest host submissions: gkelly@assethr.com [gkelly@assethr.com] Follow and join the community: Website: https://www.combatingcancer.org [https://www.combatingcancer.org] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer [https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn [https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn]

When Cancer Changes Your Circle

Episode 53- Show Notes: Host Gwen Kelly welcomes listeners to Combating Cancer, sharing her background of being diagnosed with stage three astrocytoma brain cancer at 19 and her goal of creating a safe, honest community for anyone impacted by cancer. She announces her scans came back great again, but describes how scan-day anxiety returned after a long hospital wait and multiple failed IV attempts, leaving her emotionally drained despite good results. The experience leads into the episode's main theme: how cancer and other major hardships change relationships, especially when people you expected to show up don't, which can feel like a deep betrayal. Gwen reflects on learning that some people aren't emotionally equipped to handle illness, while others unexpectedly step in with consistent support, including a rekindled high school friendship. She encourages listeners to grieve absences without overlooking those who do show up and invites anyone feeling alone to lean on this community. Discussed in this episode: * Welcome to Combating Cancer * Clean Scan Update * Scan Day Spiral * IV Struggles and Breakdown * When People Disappear * Why Some Can't Show Up * Focus on Who Stayed * Unexpected Support * Let People Love You * Final Thanks and Goodbye More from Gwen: Get in touch with our team for sponsorship inquiries or guest host submissions: gkelly@assethr.com [gkelly@assethr.com] Follow and join the community: Website: https://www.combatingcancer.org [https://www.combatingcancer.org] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer [https://www.youtube.com/@CombatingCancer] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/ [https://www.linkedin.com/company/combating-cancer/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr [https://www.facebook.com/share/1BwfwuJT81/?mibextid=wwXIfr] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn [https://www.instagram.com/combatingcancer_?igsh=azNjM3RlcmJwcWxn]