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Ep 5- Learning to Trust Your Intuition | Joan Advent

LEARNING TO TRUST YOUR INTUITION | JOAN ADVENT What if purpose isn’t something you force yourself to figure out… but something you slowly uncover by learning to trust the quiet voice inside you? In this deeply reflective episode of Conquering FUDDD through Mental Fitness, Pennie Wilson sits down with Joan Advent for a powerful conversation about intuition, purpose, self-trust, and navigating the messy middle of becoming. Joan shares her journey through psychotherapy, spiritual leadership, women’s wisdom work, conscious money exploration, and the nonlinear path of learning to trust herself through uncertainty, self-doubt, and cultural conditioning. Together, they explore: • Why intuition often feels difficult to trust • The difference between inner guidance and fear • How self-doubt disconnects us from our purpose • The role of community and emotional safety in growth • Why many people betray themselves to stay safe • The connection between self-worth, alignment, and abundance • How life’s “zig-zag” path often reveals purpose over time • What it means to reconnect with your own inner wisdom This episode is for anyone who: * feels stuck between who they’ve been and who they’re becoming * struggles to trust themselves under pressure * feels disconnected from their purpose * wants to learn how to follow intuition with greater confidence and peace Because sometimes the messy middle isn’t proof that you’re lost… Maybe it’s where you finally learn how to listen to your intuition. ---------------------------------------- CONNECT WITH JOAN ADVENT Website: https://joanadvent.com [https://joanadvent.com] Podcast: Crone Codes You can also find Joan on: • Instagram • Facebook • YouTube (Search: Joan Advent) ---------------------------------------- EXPLORE THE KOKORO MENTAL FITNESS ECOSYSTEM https://kokorocreators.com/quiz [https://kokorocreators.com/quiz] ---------------------------------------- 🎙️ Subscribe to Conquering FUDDD through Mental Fitness for grounded conversations on emotional resilience, self-leadership, intuition, and calm under pressure. To Your Victory, Pennie Wilson 💞

Ep-4 You Can’t Hate Yourself Into Peace | Bobby Shelton

YOU CAN’T HATE YOURSELF INTO PEACE | BOBBY SHELTON ON BURNOUT, SELF-LEADERSHIP, AND FINDING HOPE AGAIN What happens when the version of success that looks strong externally is quietly exhausting you internally? In this episode of Conquering FUDDD through Mental Fitness, Pennie Wilson sits down with self-leadership expert, author, and podcast host Bobby Shelton for a deeply honest conversation about burnout, identity, self-worth, and rebuilding hope from the inside out. Bobby shares his personal journey from: • military service and achievement • hidden depression and negative self-talk • gaining and losing 180 pounds • chasing identity through accomplishment • emotional collapse and burnout …to discovering what true self-leadership actually means. Together, Pennie and Bobby explore: • why motivation fails under pressure • the emotional cost of performing for approval • the difference between “Easy Hard” and “Hard Hard” • learning to stop outsourcing your identity • rebuilding self-trust one small step at a time • why hope is something we choose One of the most powerful moments in the episode comes when Bobby shares the moment he sat on a couch unable to stand up until he could finally give himself permission to like himself again. This conversation is grounded, emotionally honest, and deeply resonant for high-capacity adults who feel exhausted trying to hold everything together. If you’ve ever: • struggled with burnout • felt disconnected from yourself • carried silent pressure behind achievement • wondered why success still feels heavy • battled negative self-talk or hopelessness …this episode is for you. Connect with Bobby Shelton: https://easyhardvshardhard.com/ [https://easyhardvshardhard.com/] Listen to Bobby’s podcast: The Self-Leadership Lab 🎙️ Subscribe to Conquering FUDDD through Mental Fitness for grounded conversations on emotional resilience, self-leadership, and learning how to stay connected to yourself under pressure. Take the 3-Minute Kokoro Mental Fitness Quiz: https://kokorocreators.com/quiz [https://kokorocreators.com/quiz]

Ep-3 The Story Isn't The Truth | Pennie Wilson

In this deeply personal episode of Conquering FUDDD through Mental Fitness, Pennie Wilson shares a real-life experience of emotional overwhelm, self-criticism, and the hidden internal pressure many high-capacity adults silently carry. After being emotionally triggered by unexpected news, Pennie walks listeners through the Mental Fitness process she used to move from shame, fear, and emotional flooding back into clarity, self-trust, and grounded alignment. This episode explores how unprocessed emotions build internally, why overwhelm often spills onto the people we love most, and how the “clouds” of fear and self-doubt can distort the way we see ourselves. Most importantly, it reveals how learning to intentionally focus on what you desire instead of what you fear can help you stay calm under pressure and reconnect to who you truly are, even in the middle of stress, fear, and overwhelm. This conversation includes one brief explicit word during a vulnerable storytelling moment. It’s shared in emotional context and not used aggressively, but we wanted to give listeners a quick heads up in case you’re listening with children nearby or prefer cleaner language. IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE: • emotional overwhelm and nervous system pressure • self-criticism and shame spirals • why emotions are not actually the problem • the “clouds vs. sun” Mental Fitness metaphor • fear of judgment, criticism, and not feeling enough • how childhood beliefs continue shaping adult reactions • learning to filter thoughts instead of believing all of them • emotional regulation and self-awareness • rebuilding self-trust under pressure • practical questions to process emotional triggers CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Welcome to Conquering FUDDD Through Mental Fitness 02:12 – The emotional trigger that started the spiral 03:00 – How overwhelm built throughout the day 04:00 – Realizing emotions were not the true problem 07:01 – Sitting by the Kokoro Tree 08:50 – Clouds vs. Sun: Fear vs. Desire 09:43 – How people push through pressure without realizing it 12:49 – The story is not the truth 14:00 – Mental Fitness and intentional focus 16:11 – Questions to process emotional triggers 19:09 – Choosing what you focus on 22:26 – When pain becomes a catalyst for growth 24:48 – Why most adults were never trained for calmness 26:13 – Final encouragement and reflection KEY TAKEAWAYS • Emotions themselves are not the problem. Suppressing them creates overwhelm. • Self-criticism often comes from old fear patterns and shame-based beliefs, not present truth. • Emotional triggers can reveal deeper fears ready to be seen and released. • Mental Fitness is the practice of intentionally focusing on what you desire instead of staying trapped in fear. • You do not have to believe every thought that appears under pressure. • Calm under pressure is trainable. 🎧 If you want to go deeper, listen to this guided Mental Fitness meditation "You Don’t Have to Believe Every Thought | Learn to Filter Self-Criticism" https://youtu.be/OUAiHSxPCXk [https://youtu.be/OUAiHSxPCXk] 🎯 Take the 3-Minute Kokoro Mental Fitness Quiz: https://kokorocreators.com/quiz [https://kokorocreators.com/quiz] 🎙️ Subscribe for weekly conversations on emotional regulation, self-trust, and Mental Fitness in the messy middle of life. #MentalFitness #EmotionalRegulation #SelfTrust #CalmUnderPressure #SelfCriticism #PersonalGrowth #KokoroCreators #MentalWellness #ConqueringFUDDD

Ep-2 When the Strong One Breaks | Ben Miller

(This conversation includes one brief explicit word during a vulnerable storytelling moment. It’s shared in emotional context and not used aggressively, but we wanted to give listeners a quick heads up in case you’re listening with children nearby or prefer cleaner language.) Some of the people who look the strongest on the outside are carrying the heaviest pressure internally. In this deeply honest episode of Conquering FUDDD Through Mental Fitness, former military resilience trainer Ben Miller shares what happened when the identity he built his life around suddenly collapsed. After 24 years in the military, retirement, divorce, loss of purpose, anxiety, and emotional burnout forced Ben into one of the darkest seasons of his life. What followed was not a story about perfection or “thinking positive.” It became a journey of self-compassion, inner child healing, emotional resilience, and learning how to come back to himself. This conversation explores what happens when the roles, titles, and external anchors we depend on fall away… and how healing begins when we learn to build self-trust from the inside out. In this episode, we explore: • identity and self-worth beyond performance • military transition and emotional loss • divorce, grief, and rebuilding after life collapse • hidden anxiety behind strength and stoicism • survival patterns and nervous system overwhelm • inner child healing and self-compassion • vulnerability as strength • emotional resilience and Mental Fitness • learning to trust yourself again • calm under pressure and rebuilding from within If you’ve ever felt strong for everyone else while quietly falling apart inside… this conversation will resonate deeply. Conquering FUDDD Through Mental Fitness is a podcast for high-capacity adults, parents, teachers, leaders, entrepreneurs, and self-aware individuals learning how to build calm, clarity, emotional resilience, and self-trust that holds under pressure. Connect with Ben: https://www.instagram.com/paraboarder/ [https://www.instagram.com/paraboarder/] Take the Kokoro Mental Fitness Quiz: https://kokorocreators.com/quiz [https://kokorocreators.com/quiz] #MentalFitness #EmotionalResilience #SelfWorth #InnerChildHealing #DivorceHealing #IdentityLoss #CalmUnderPressure #Mindset #SelfLeadership #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #KokoroCreators

Ep-1 Intro,Why We Stay Stuck in the Messy Middle | Pennie Wilson

You know what to do… so why can’t you make yourself do it when it matters most? If you’re a parent, teacher, or leader working to create meaningful cultural shifts, you’ve likely felt the frustration of the messy middle where progress is slow, pressure is high, and old patterns take over. In this first episode, Pennie Wilson shares the real reason we get stuck, not from lack of knowledge, but from what happens internally when Fear, Uncertainty, Doubt, Dread, and Discouragement show up under pressure. Through her personal story and simple, grounded tools, you’ll begin to see what it actually takes to stay connected to what you want to create, even when it’s hard, messy, and not working yet. This is where real change begins.