How to Release Anxiety from Your Body: Somatic Shaking + Grounding Techniques (Part 2)

How to Release Anxiety from Your Body: Somatic Shaking + Grounding Techniques (Part 2)

Episode Summary Sometimes anxiety doesn’t feel quiet; it feels electric. Buzzy. Like you can’t sit still. In Part 2 of our somatic movement series on Cope Well, we cover three body-based techniques specifically designed for high-activation states: full-body shaking, the butterfly hug, and orienting. These are rooted in trauma-informed therapy and somatic experiencing, and they work by helping your nervous system discharge stress the way it was built to. Key Insights * Animals shake after stress, and so can you. * The butterfly hug uses bilateral stimulation. Alternating taps across the chest (left, right, left, right) mimic the bilateral stimulation used in EMDR therapy. This cross-body movement helps the brain integrate emotion and signals wholeness and safety. * Orienting tells your brain you’re safe. * Match the tool to the activation level. Episode 1 tools (sway, press, shrug) work well for mild-to-moderate stress. Episode 2 tools are better when anxiety feels urgent, physical, or hard to sit with. What You’ll Learn * Why your body shakes after stress and how to use that response intentionally * What bilateral stimulation is and how it helps regulate emotion * How visual orienting calms the threat-detection system in your brain * 3 active somatic techniques for high-anxiety moments This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe [https://ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

Somatic Movement for Anxiety Relief: Breathwork + Body-Based Coping Tools (Part 1)

Episode Summary Somatic movement is a great complement to breathwork and assists to create safety in the body. In this episode of the Cope Well Podcast, I share what somatic movement is, why it works from a nervous system perspective, and walk through three simple grounding movements you can use right after your next breathwork practice - no mat, no flexibility required. Key Insights * Somatic = body-based. Somatic movement practices work by sending signals directly to your nervous system through physical sensation - not through thought or willpower. * Stress lives in the body. Anxiety and stress create physical tension that doesn’t always resolve on its own. Intentional movement helps complete what researchers call the “stress cycle.” * You don’t need to feel it to benefit. These movements work even when anxiety feels subtle. Think of them as maintenance, not just crisis tools. * The three movements in this episode: * Shoulder Shrugs & Drops: mirrors the body’s bracing response and consciously releases it, signaling safety to the nervous system * Spinal Sway: gentle side-to-side movement activates the spine’s direct communication line between brain and body * Foot Press & Release: grounding through the feet activates your sense of orientation and physical safety * Pair it with breathwork. Starting with slow breathing (try 4-count inhale, 6-count exhale) primes your nervous system to receive the benefits of somatic movement more fully. What You’ll Learn * What “somatic” means and why it matters for anxiety and stress * How the nervous system responds to intentional physical movement * 3 beginner-friendly somatic movements for grounding and regulation * How to build a breathwork + movement regulation practice Listen Next: Part 2 Somatic Tools for High-Activation States (shake, self-hold, orient) This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe [https://ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

Mindfulness as Connection to Your Highest Self: Breathwork For Healing Part 2

In Part 2 of this series on Cope Well: Mindful Behavior Therapy Tools for Increased Calm and Happiness, we move from the why of breathwork into the how. Mindfulness isn’t just a stress management trend. It’s your pathway back to your highest self, the version of you that is calm, clear, and deeply connected to God and purpose. When you combine intentional breathing with present-moment awareness, you’re not just managing anxiety. You’re stepping into transformation. In this episode you’ll learn: * How mindfulness connects you to your highest self and to God * Why breathwork and mindfulness are two sides of the same healing practice * The breathing technique I recommend to my new clients * How regulation skills can be learned at any stage of life New to the series? Start with Episode 1 to build the foundation before this practice. CTA: Ready to keep going? Join our Skool community, Mental Health Coping Tools [https://www.skool.com/calm-and-happy-skills-for-kids-2727] - a space built for people who are serious about healing, growth, and living with more calm and intention. Inside you’ll find mindfulness practices, breathwork tools, and a supportive community walking the same path. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe [https://ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

Breathwork for Healing

In this episode I share why breathwork is the foundation of emotional healing and nervous system regulation, as well as the divine connection it holds. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected… this is where we start. Your breath isn’t just biology. It’s sacred. Ancient wisdom has always known what science now confirms: intentional breathing is one of the most powerful tools we have for calming the mind, regulating the body, and reconnecting with God. In this episode you’ll learn: * Why breath is the first tool taught to my new clients * How shallow breathing keeps your nervous system stuck in fight-or-flight * The spiritual significance of breath as our connection to God and our highest self * Why mindfulness and breathwork are inseparable on the healing journey Want to go deeper? Join my free community, Mental Health Coping Tools [https://www.skool.com/calm-and-happy-skills-for-kids-2727], on Skool: your go-to space for mindfulness practices, breathwork tools, and real support for your healing journey. I’d love to see you there. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe [https://ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding: A Simple Mindfulness Practice for Managing Emotions

Mindfulness isn’t about feeling calm - it’s about creating space between what you feel and what you do. In this minisode, we break down exactly what mindfulness is, why your feelings don’t have to drive your reactions, and a simple 3-step practice you can start today: Pause. Name it. Breathe. 🎓 Ready to go deeper? My Mindfulness & Emotional Regulation Audio Course is inside the Cope Well Skool community - learn at your own pace alongside caregivers and parents who get it. 🔗Mental Health Coping Tools [https://www.skool.com/calm-and-happy-skills-for-kids-2727] Skool Community Keywords: mindfulness for beginners, emotional regulation, mindfulness for parents, special needs caregiver mental health, cope well podcast, behavior therapy skills, how to start mindfulness, breathing techniques for anxiety, mindfulness practice, Skool community mental health, responding vs reacting, caregiver burnout tools This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe [https://ashleydeluccia.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]