Selfish S@&

When You Realize It Was Never About You

When you realize someone didn’t want you — they wanted what you give. Episode 11 explores the moment clarity replaces confusion, and why taking your attention back is the most honest thing you can do. From the Dating With Me memoir, now a podcast.

The Night My Apartment Caught Fire

The date was flat — until it wasn’t. The candle fell, the pillow caught fire, and we kept going anyway. What followed was three months of intensity and nothing real. A moment explored more deeply in Dating With Me.

He Was With Me… And Someone Else

He said it was the healthiest relationship he had — then left without saying goodbye. Months later, I found out I wasn’t the only one. This episode is a real moment about deception, silence, and the truth you only see later.

Stop making them the star

Sometimes the hardest realization in dating is understanding that someone was never as invested as you believed. This episode explores the moment you stop rearranging your life around someone who was always the star of their own story. A moment explored more deeply in Dating With Me.

Selfish S@&

reveals more about a person than words do. This episode explores one-sided intimacy, why many women stay silent about selfish partners, and what changes when women stop treating their pleasure as optional.