Deeper Sex - A Sex Positive Podcast Exploring Fantasies And Boundaries

Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise [https://link.fgfunnels.com/widget/form/C5OzLPrT6hOItkCnXsSp] coming up for you! We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom. We believe that sex should not be the driver of arguments and unhappiness for a couple. Nor should it be taboo.  We have witnessed, tried and tested on our own skin how it can be used to heal from trauma, fears, and to grow.  What's coming: We are taking the intimacy and sacred sexuality practices that have completely revolutionised our way of loving, and are putting them into very simple practical terms for you so, that everyone can apply and practice them in their own bedroom. If this is calling you, sign up for our waitlist [https://link.fgfunnels.com/widget/form/C5OzLPrT6hOItkCnXsSp] to join our upcoming workshops. == Meanwhile, don’t miss:   >> Our fav books * “50 Misconceptions Of Sex” by Alexa Vartman [https://amzn.to/4h4G9LF] * “Wild Nights” by David Deida [https://amzn.to/3NqilV9] (this podcast is entirely supported by our listeners, so if you buy through this link we may earn a commission, at no extra cost to you)   >> Catch up on these episodes   13: How To Be Sexually “Open” Even If You’re Monogamous Learn more about what we mean by “Openness” at 360 degrees and how that can 10x the relationship with your partner. Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000668124066] or Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2eGLxbsw8EuBlO4OrbFFgu?si=kAv6irsySoCDp0vsaXZ_3Q].   6: There’s No Shame In “Dirty” Fantasies: How Speaking Them Out Loud Can Transform Your Taboos into Passion Learn about how to share sexual fantasies with your lover, overcoming fear, shame and taboos. Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000656220522]or Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1OI8XLbkX6eB8gUCNvGj82?si=iPH9tg1LRQaazYGDtQZOfw]   5: How Did We Do It?? From Failed-Marriage Misery to Cosmic Sex, Hot-Tub Orgies and Play Parties in a Castle Learn more about the hosts’ conservative backgrounds and how they “fell” into the amazing, sexually liberated world of Consensual Non Monogamy. Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000654640910] or Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/0SnwApH9QHXRkXHtPbXhJX?si=4-URyPcoTZqqv84OCd1m5A] == Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1] == TIME STAMPS 01:54 You Helped Us Grow 03:25 Deeper Sex Content In Season 2 04:16 Sex At the Intersection Between Sexuality, Curiosity, Healing And Personal Growth 05:25 A Surprise For You: Get It Here! [https://link.fgfunnels.com/widget/form/C5OzLPrT6hOItkCnXsSp] 07:52 10 Prompts To Start Deeper Conversations With Your Partner 08:15 Your Reading List to Get Ready For Season 2 == Questions? DM us [https://www.instagram.com/DEEPER.SEX] or email us [deardeeperlovers@gmail.com] == Sign up for our workshops waitlist here [https://link.fgfunnels.com/widget/form/C5OzLPrT6hOItkCnXsSp]

Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation.  They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it!  They talk about their journey of following their hearts and intuition, instead of conforming to what others expected. They highlight how their union is always of the utmost priority, above and beyond anything and anyone else. On a spontaneous trip, they discovered the world of New Tantra and realized that that was “the code” - the language - for how they had been connecting all along. They found themselves into deeper and deeper sexual connections and an incredibly fulfilling sex life that massively influenced their business and their daily life… from miserable to super fun and exciting. The secret to all this? Curiosity and… well, tune into the episode to find out! Whether you’re a man or a woman wondering if there’s more to coupledom, or maybe bored in a sexless marriage, you too can go from an average relationship and a “middle-aged” sex life to an incredible connection with your partner, having mind-blowing, hours-long orgasmic marathons. == To learn more about what we mean by “Openness” at 360 degrees and how that can 10x the relationship with your partner, check out our episode on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000668124066] or on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2eGLxbsw8EuBlO4OrbFFgu?si=kAv6irsySoCDp0vsaXZ_3Q]. And… don’t miss this book on the topic! “Wild Nights” by David Deida [https://amzn.to/3NqilV9]  (this podcast is entirely supported by our listeners, so if you buy through this link we may earn a commission, at no extra cost to you) == To learn more about how you can work with and accept your body image, check out this episode on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000653201223] or on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2kPOjJfoN7ixnZKwqKzYfY?si=FEsziOdeSKqqK1ql99mH3A] == TIME STAMPS 01:18 Meet Adriana, our Human Design Coach 02:26 Download Our Free Guide [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1] 03:02 How Will and Chiara Help Clients Have Better Romantic Relationships 06:22 How The Power of Intuition Got Chiara The Amazing Husband She Has 09:55 Why Intimacy Coaching 14:32 Why We Decided To Explore Ethical Non-Monogamy 18:59 This Could Be Your Community Too 21:29 The Deeper Sex Podcast In The Making 22:42 We Explored The Swinging Community But It Was Not For Us 24:04 From Swinging to New Tantra 25:26 Fantasy vs. Reality 25:50 Are You One Of The People We Can Help? 26:13 Who We Want To Help: Meet Our Friends John And Jane 34:45 Accepting Yourself And Your Body Image 40:43 How To Use Curiosity To Overcome Fear == WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF certified professional Intimacy Coach with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" rather than just "confident", so they can embark on more intimate and sensual adventures.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life. For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE [https://deepersexpodcast.podbean.com/p/about-the-hosts/]. === Do you have a question? DM us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/DEEPER.SEX] ===  >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1]

In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara share their transformative experiences at a festival (OZORA) in Europe, where Chiara’s boobs in particular had many adventures :).  They discuss the concept of Openness, the importance of curiosity, and what it means to feel comfortable in your own body, opening the doors to a profound sense of freedom and connection. They highlight the contrast between people who are “open” and willing to share (their stories and themselves), vs. those who are more reserved, as a way to learn how to overcome fears, setting boundaries, and building trust in relationships.  The whole conversation is an amazing metaphor for how life can be lived. As all our episodes, this one too is filled with personal anecdotes and insights into how openness can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. !! Don’t miss our book recommendation at the end !! === Our fav summer reading: “Wild Nights” by David Deida [https://amzn.to/3NqilV9]  (this podcast is entirely supported by our listeners, so if you buy through this link we may earn a commission, at no extra cost to you - thank you in advance for your support!) === Want to watch the video we mentioned? Request it here [https://ig.me/m/deeper.sex]  === TIME STAMPS 01:36 We Are On A Mission To Help People Open Up 03:08 OZORA: Our Psytrance Festival Experience in Europe 03:55 Lesson #1: Openness + Nakedness = Freedom 07:19 Lesson #2: The Purity Of Being Naked 08:59 Goodbye Boobs! 09:29 Feeling Comfortable vs. Feeling Confident 10:27 It's Not About You, It's About Them 11:43 A Triangle Of Love And Bodies In A Fairy Tale 13:43 Dancing Topless On Your Shoulders 15:12 Naked Does Not Equal P0rnographic 16:20 Fun Fact: Unexpected Car Mayhem And How Will Kept His Cool 20:19 5,000 Heart Stickers To Spread Love 21:45 You Gotta Overcome The Fear To Love 22:41 Our Fav Summer Reading: Wild Nights === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF certified professional Intimacy Coach with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" rather than just "confident", so they can embark on more intimate and sensual adventures.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life. For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE [https://deepersexpodcast.podbean.com/p/about-the-hosts/]. === Do you have a question? DM us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/DEEPER.SEX] ===  >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1] === Join us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/DeeperSex] for exclusive content!

In this episode of Deeper Sex, we delve into the importance of communication in enhancing sexual relationships. Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on initiating open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with partners. As always we want to emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using various methods like scheduled talks, emails, and listening to shared content. We also discuss overcoming fears and the transformative power that honest and empathetic communication can bring to relationships. This is super useful, don't skip this episode! === Do you have a question? Follow and DM Us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/DEEPER.SEX]! === Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1] === 02:37 Who we are and why we are telling you this 04:05 What you will learn today 04:45 This is for you if... 08:20 Deconditioning 09:52 Who has this fantasy?! 13:00 Tip 1: Let it flow 14:31 Tip 2: Don't blame 16:10 Creating a safe space to talk with your partner 18:07 It's sexy to shamelessly ask for what you need  19:14 Tip 3: Choose the "right" time for a conversation 20:23 Tip 4: Listen to content together 21:36 Ever talked about your partner's cervix?! 24:52 Tip 5: "Please can you help me to understand..." 26:48 Tip 6: Show that you're listening 28:21 Tip 7: Have an "exploratory" vs. a "decision-oriented" conversation 29:36 Tip 8: Write sexy emails to each other 34:37 Sexy time or no sexy time? 36:47 When in doubt, say what's on your mind! === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life. For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE [https://deepersexpodcast.podbean.com/p/about-the-hosts/]. === NEW!! Join us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/DeeperSex] for exclusive content!  ===  >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1]

In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara answer some of the most common questions they get form clients and listeners about improving their sex life and intimacy.  We go from dealing with lack of sexual desire to the risks of opening a relationship, tackling jealousy, trust, male/female dynamics, same sex and group play. All the answers provided are based on real life personal experiences as well as patterns observed when coaching clients.  Do you have a question too? DM us on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/DEEPER.SEX]! Or Book A Call With Us [https://calendly.com/deeperlovers/personalsession] === >> Mentioned Link to episode 02:  Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000651750223] or Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1bW9zp7wOvPRARo6zf5kNR?si=dtiFJzqdRh2mlwsYj5ACnA] to learn how exploring sex with others has strengthened our relationship   >> Mentioned Link to episode 10: Listen on Apple [https://podcasts.apple.com/ae/podcast/deeper-sex-a-sex-positive-podcast-exploring/id1740071492?i=1000662362042] or Listen on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1HcQmC0JiCaRXCxQUUMfpz?si=qgz0pdoMRW6BflAXdam77A] to learn more about Chiara’s first and only experience as a Unicorn ===  >> FREE BONUS CONTENT: Download our free guide “10 phrases to help you start deeper conversations with your partner” [https://bit.ly/3TpUuc1] === 01:42 Let's Answer Your Questions Live: Relationship Dynamics 02:54 Q1. My Partner Does Not Feel Like Having Sex With Me: Should I Open My Relationship? 04:06 The Risks of Opening a Relationship 05:53 You Gotta Build Trust and Communication 07:54 How To Explore Non-Monogamy Safely 09:18 Q2. How Do I Know If My Partner Is Into Kink? 12:47 Q3. I am So Jealous! How Do I Deal With Jealousy?  16:56 "Can I Kiss Him...?" - Play This Game 25:23 How To Navigate Relationship Insecurities 26:36 Embracing Jealousy Can Keep You Safe 27:48 Your Body Knows and We Have All The Answers Inside 28:53 The Importance of Respect and Boundaries in Non-Monogamy... and in Monogamy Too! 30:41 How To Communicate Clearly and Gain/Give Trust in Relationships 33:51 Q4. Am I Bi-Curious? 40:35 Q5. How Can A Man Have Sex When Another Man is Present?  42:22 Let's Explore Male Energy and Group Play Dynamics 45:25 Sexual Conditioning: What It Is (Not) Doing For You 46:41 Open Conversations Lead To Heavenly Bliss 47:31 Get In Touch === WHO IS WILL Will is a psychologist,  journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.   WHO IS CHIARA Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.   WHO IS ALLIE Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life. For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE [https://deepersexpodcast.podbean.com/p/about-the-hosts/]. === NEW!! Join us on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/DeeperSex] for exclusive content!