122: Email Marketing Automation That Feels Personal

122: Email Marketing Automation That Feels Personal

If you've been avoiding email marketing automation because it feels cold or robotic, this episode will change how you think about it completely.  Done right, automation doesn't replace your voice — it makes sure your message reaches the right person at exactly the right moment. Most content creators avoid automation because they're afraid of losing their voice — but the real problem isn't automation itself, it's lazy automation. This episode will show you a better way. Here are 4 things you'll discover in this episode: ✅4 simple automations every content creator should have running right now ✅How the right automated emails feel more personal than a broadcast ever could ✅How your business should keep serving people even when life gets in the way ✅3 questions to answer before you build any automation sequence Ready to let email marketing automation work for your business — without losing your personal touch? Grab the free consulting call and workshop details & links below. Resources for You: * Stop Sending the Same Email to Everyone: An Email Marketing System That Works — July 7th Workshop (members only) * Free 15-minute consulting call [https://tidycal.com/howtohomeschoolmychild/call%C2%A0] — to see if the July 7th workshop is a good fit for you * Family Biz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind%C2%A0%C2%A0] * Homeschool Blogger University [http://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu%C2%A0] Show Notes: Automation isn't about saving time, it's about serving people better. Automation is not cold when it's done right and when it's done well. It can actually make your communication more thoughtful, more timely, and more personal. Automation creates better relationships because people hear from you in a way that matches where they are in the buyer's journey. I'm Kerry Beck with Family EBiz, where we help families start and scale online businesses, so they can find freedom in their life to do what they're called to do. Today, we are talking about automation and freeing up some of that time you have, so that you're not sending individual emails about all of that. A lot of times, I think content creators think that if I put it on automation, it's going to sound like spam, robotic, or it's going to lose my voice and my touch. But really, bad automation is lazy. Good automation is intentional and responsive. SENDING THE RIGHT EMAILS TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE I mentioned this last time, but I use AWeber as my email service provider. When you get into what they call a workflow, or an automation, you can actually send people down different channels. You can have a little tree branch. If they said yes, or they clicked, here's the email they get. If they haven't clicked anything, here's the email that they get. They can get different tags that could start another automation as well. We're going to be talking all about that tomorrow in our workshop, but the goal is not more emails — it's the right emails for the right people. LEAD WITH PURPOSE: THE PATAGONIA LESSON I don't know if I'm going to say this guy's name right, but Yvon Chouinard built Patagonia. Most of you have heard of this company. He built it around a clear purpose and a long-term relationship with customers, not a transaction mindset. A lot of you are thinking, I just need to make some sales. That is a transaction. You need to build your business, I personally think, with a relationship mindset. He believed in doing the right thing and still making money to pay the bills. He wanted less harm to the environment, and he gives away 1% of sales. In 2018, he said they are in business to save our home planet. Why are you in business? He has a clear message, and I would encourage you to think through that this week. His story is a reminder that when the mission is clear, systems can serve your people without being manipulative. AUTOMATION FEELS MORE PERSONAL WHEN YOU DO IT RIGHT I know sometimes automation can feel more personal if you do it the right way. Manual emailing, or what I call a broadcast, means sometimes you don't do it till you remember to do it. I actually, a week ago from when I'm recording this, forgot to send the email out about that weekly podcast, because it wasn't scheduled. Automations can avoid those kinds of problems. Automation lets you respond to a behavior, to a click, to a sign-up, to a purchase, or to a period of silence. That means the right person gets the right message at the right time, and that feels like you care more about your audience instead of just sending a random blast to everyone. So what are some simple automations that you could set up? A welcome sequence — a lot of you that I've talked to already have welcome sequences. This helps a new subscriber know who you are and what to expect. The follow-up after a click. This responds to interest. They were interested, they're a warm audience, so let's follow up with them. A re-engagement sequence. This checks in with people when they fall quiet. Or a buyer sequence — this helps customers feel seen after their purchase. Those are just four types of simple automations you can use to build relationships with the people on your list. I would challenge you to pick one of those automations for this week. I want you to write three bullets: what triggers it, who gets it, and what the goal of it is. Do you have a goal, or are you just making up a bunch of automations, follow-ups, and sequences? You don't need to build a whole system all over again. You just need to know what the system should do, and once you have an understanding, you can serve your people better. AUTOMATION KEEPS YOUR BUSINESS RUNNING THROUGH LIFE'S INTERRUPTIONS Now, I do know that life gets in the way, and we have life interruptions, but they should not cancel your business. They may interrupt your consistency, but you should have automations in place so your business continues to run. A few of them that I think of: it's summertime, people going on vacation. When I go to speak at a conference, my business doesn't shut down because I'm out of town. This coming week, from when I'm recording this, I'm going to help my mom with her surgery. I will be gone, and who even knows what kind of internet I'm going to have. She was just telling me, "Mom, Kerry, we've got this new fiber thing, but it's supposed to be slow." Anyway. Life does have interruptions, but your business should not stop just because you have an interruption. Automation keeps serving people even when you're launching, when you're traveling, when you're homeschooling, or simply having a hard week. That steadiness matters, because that way people grow to know you, to like you, and to trust you. I'm going to go back to Barbara Corcoran's story, and we talked about it in the last episode. If you didn't hear it, it's a phenomenal story — go back and listen to last week's episode. Her long-term success came from discipline and repeated habits. She did not just get one big break, but she spent time getting to know and build relationships with people. Time and networking. A lot of people think networking is just going somewhere and passing out a bunch of cards, and you're going to get business. No, networking is work. It takes work to build relationships. It's not net-sitting, it's not net-eating, it is net-working. And so the lesson we can learn from Barbara Corcoran is repeatable systems create repeatable service. You're continuing to serve them because you have a system in place. Consistency is a form of care. GET CLARITY, THEN BOOK YOUR FREE CONSULTING CALL I want you to think about this: whoever we were just talking about, whichever automation — who is the person that's getting it? Like, "this email is for new subscribers who've downloaded my free guide but haven't joined the next step yet." That's who's in this sequence. You need to know specifically who is in the sequence. We'll talk all about that tomorrow. I'm going to give you details and everything. In fact, I still have a few free consulting calls available today, and even in the morning before I go live and teach the class at 1 o'clock. See, when you have clarity, your people are not going to be confused. You're able to serve them, and everything follows because you have made some decisions and have clarity about what this system is all about. You quit speaking to everyone the same way, all at once. If you're always sending an email to all your active subscribers, you need to rethink that, and start to segment, and start to put some things on automation. The goal is not to send more emails. The goal is to send the right emails to the right people, and automation is just a way that you can do that and scale the emails that you are sending. So, if you're still on the fence thinking about coming to the July 7th workshop, sign up for a consulting call [https://tidycal.com/howtohomeschoolmychild/call%C2%A0], and we will do it really quickly. I will be watching for those every hour, and I would love to meet with you. I'm Kerry Beck with Family Ebiz. We'll talk to you next time.

121: Email Follow Up: The Step Most Creators Skip

Getting someone to opt in feels like a win — but if your email follow up stops there, you're leaving the relationship (and the sale) on the table. This episode breaks down exactly what needs to happen after the click to turn interested subscribers into buyers who trust you. Bloggers, podcasters, and online business owners who have an email list, but aren't seeing consistent sales will find this episode especially practical. Once you understand the buyer's journey your subscribers are on, email follow up stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like relationship-building. Here are 5 things you'll discover in this episode: ✅Why the opt-in are just the handshake — not the sale ✅What the gap between interest and income is costing you ✅How to use segmentation as a relationship tool, not just a tech feature ✅3 emails every lead magnet needs after someone says yes ✅Why some buyers take months to say yes — and how follow up keeps them warm Ready to stop losing subscribers after the opt-in and start building relationships that lead to sales? Grab the free 15-minute consulting call and workshop details mentioned in this episode — links are in the show notes! Resources for You: * Stop Sending the Same Email to Everyone: An Email Marketing System That Works — July 7th Workshop (members only) * Free 15-minute consulting call [https://tidycal.com/howtohomeschoolmychild/call%C2%A0] — to see if the July 7th workshop is a good fit for you * Family Biz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind%C2%A0%C2%A0] * Homeschool Blogger University [http://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu%C2%A0] Show Notes: A Click Is Not a Conversion — It's the Beginning of a Relationship A click is not a conversion. A click is the beginning of a relationship. The money really is in the follow-up. And for many solopreneurs, content creators, bloggers, and podcasters, the question is not how do I get more clicks. The question is — what happens after someone says yes once? The Freebie Is Not the Finish Line Many online business owners treat the freebie like the finish line. Oh, I got some more people to sign up for my freebie. But that is really just a handshake. The opt-in only tells you someone is interested. It does not mean they are ready to buy, ready to trust you, or even remember why they signed up. If you stop communicating right after the opt-in, you leave the relationship undeveloped. And you are not going to make any sales. What is your follow-up system in your business? Do you even have one? Barbara Corcoran Didn't Wait for Perfect Conditions Barbara Corcoran from Shark Tank made straight D's in high school. She was labeled as a dunce. She had 20 jobs by the time she was 23 years old. She quit her waitressing job and borrowed $1,000 to start the Corcoran Group — now known as one of the largest and best-known real estate brokerages in the business. How did she do that? By staying visible, persistent, and relationship-focused instead of waiting for perfect conditions. Some of you are waiting for just the right time. Waiting until your course is perfect. She was building relationships when things weren't going perfectly. Her story is a reminder that growth comes from repeated follow-up, not a single event. Some of my Raising Leaders students joined after a year or two — or more. Some things take time for people to get to the point of saying yes. The timing has to be right. The first yes matters, but it's the follow-up that turns interest into income. Let me say that again. It is follow-up that turns interest into income. The Gap Between Interest and Income There is often a huge gap between someone joining your list and someone trusting you enough to buy. That gap is where creators lose people. They assume one email is enough. They send the same email to everyone all the time. Your job is not just to attract attention. Your job is to keep shaping the relationship after the click. Do you understand the journey your people are going through to buy from you? How does someone go from downloading a lead magnet to two years later becoming a student in your course? Understanding your buyer's journey is everything. What to Do This Week Choose one freebie or one lead magnet and write out the next three emails that you wish existed. After someone opts in, what are the next three emails you will send? Maybe a welcome. Maybe pointing to their pain. Maybe an invitation to a next step. You don't need to create the full system today. You just need to name the next three touches so the relationship does not go cold. Segmentation Is a Relationship Tool, Not Just a Tech Tool Not every subscriber is in the same place. Some are warm, some are cold, some are browsing, some are not ready yet, and some are hot as can be. The creators who get the strongest engagement are speaking different messages to different people on their list. They are not sending identical messages to everyone all the time. This is where email list segmentation becomes a relationship tool, not just a tech tool. For me, the people who click links in my emails are hotter — so I can send them a different email than the people who haven't opened anything in a week or two. In AWeber, you can actually set up a flowchart — if someone clicks, they get this message. If someone doesn't click, they get that message. Elizabeth Gilbert's memoir Eat, Pray, Love became a massive success because it spoke to a very specific person in a very specific emotional season — women in uncertainty, women trying to reinvent themselves, women longing for meaning. It resonated because it was not a one-size-fits-all. Are you treating your list like a one-size-fits-all? Different people need different words after the click. Consistent Follow-Up Builds Trust Over Time Follow-up is simply saying — I'm still here. I still understand your problem. You matter even if you didn't buy today. Consistency builds credibility over time, especially for people who are watching quietly before they act. They are thinking it all through. And those are often your best buyers. Add one line to your next email that invites them to the next step. Something like — if this is the season you're in, reply with the word followup and I'll send you the next resource. Put it in the PS — that gets read a lot. The point is to move one small step beyond the click. Not overhaul your entire funnel. Just one step. The money really is in the email follow-up. People buy when they feel known and remembered. If you want better results, you need a better post-click experience — not just more traffic. I'm offering free 15-minute consulting calls [https://tidycal.com/howtohomeschoolmychild/call] to see if my email marketing workshop on July 7th is a good fit for you. We're going to be talking about email follow-up systems, segmentation, automations, and the buyer's journey — all the things that turn clicks into sales. The link to sign up for a call is in the show notes.

120: The Email List Segmentation Mistake Costing You Sales

If your emails feel like they're going nowhere, email list segmentation might be the one thing standing between you and real results Sending the same email to everyone on your list could be the exact reason your open rates are low and sales are flat — and email list segmentation is the fix most creators skip. Bloggers, podcasters, and online business owners who've been frustrated with their email results will find this especially useful. Once you understand who's actually on your list, communication gets easier, engagement goes up, and sales follow naturally. Here are things you'll discover in this episode: ✅The 4 types of subscribers hiding inside your list right now ✅Why generic emails get ignored — even by people who like you ✅Are you making this email mistake…and how to fix it ✅A simple 1st step to identify your key audience segments (no tech required) ✅Why most creators never implement this — and the real reason you stay stuck Ready to stop sending one-size-fits-all emails and start getting real results? Resources for You * Stop Sending the Same Email to Everyone: An Email Marketing System That Works — July 7th Workshop (members only) * Free 15-minute consulting call [https://tidycal.com/howtohomeschoolmychild/call%C2%A0] — to see if the July 7th workshop is a good fit for you * Family Biz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind%C2%A0%C2%A0] * Homeschool Blogger University [http://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu%C2%A0] Show Notes: The One Email Mistake That's Costing You Sales Have you ever sent an email to your list and thought — why is nobody opening this? Why is no one clicking? Why isn't this converting? Raising my hand, I've had those thoughts. What if your email isn't the problem? What if you're sending the right email to the wrong people? Different people need different conversations. Let me say that again. Different people need different conversations. Your List Is Not One Audience Most creators see one email list, one audience, and one message. But the reality is, inside your email list, there is a variety of people. You have brand new subscribers who are still learning who you are. You have regular readers who consume everything you publish. You have buyers who already trust you. You have people who click. And you have people who haven't opened an email in months. They are not the same people. And yet most of us — content creators, bloggers, podcasters, online businesses — talk to each of them exactly the same way. Should all of those groups get the same type of communication? Probably not. Maybe your list isn't ignoring you. Maybe you're just talking to everyone the same way. What ConvertKit and AWeber Understood When ConvertKit built their platform, they built it around the idea that creators needed to build deeper relationships with their audience. They added subscriber organization and segmentation tools because creators serve different groups of people. They said — we know your business is personal. It's how you support your family, share your expertise, and serve your community. AWeber does the same thing. On AWeber, I am so thankful they give me tools to send one email to this group and a different email to that group. I have a homeschool business and a Family eBiz business — two different lists. But within each one, I have all different groups of people, because they're different kinds of people with different needs. Four Groups That Need Different Conversations Here are just four groups that exist inside most email lists — and each one needs to be approached differently. A new subscriber is still learning who you are. They don't know you yet. Do they like you or trust you? You've got to address that. A buyer who's purchased from you in the past already trusts you — you don't have to rebuild the know, like, and trust factor from scratch. A dormant subscriber may not even remember who you are, so you need to approach them completely differently. And a regular reader who consumes everything you publish — they need a different conversation too. Those are just four. There can be many more depending on your niche and your offers. Relevance drives engagement. Generic messaging just gets ignored. Even if they open it, they're thinking — this isn't for me. And that's why people unsubscribe — not usually because you've emailed too much, but because the content feels irrelevant, it doesn't match where they are, it doesn't solve their current problem. I had a woman reach out a couple of weeks ago — she was new to my list, had bought two or three products, and was getting messages from all of them. She told me she was overwhelmed. But she did not want to get off my list. She said — these are things that can help me, but I'm overwhelmed by the emails. That was great feedback. She was a recent buyer getting relevant content — it was just a lot. She didn't unsubscribe. People unsubscribe when the content feels irrelevant, not when it's relevant. The Skimm Got This Right The Skimm grew by understanding exactly who their audience was and speaking directly to their needs. They are dedicated to succinctly giving women the information they need to make confident decisions in their lives. Their success came from relevant communication, not generic. They chose a tight niche and spoke specifically to the people inside it. Do you know who your audience is? And do you have subsets of that audience you need to speak to differently? I took a Facebook ads seminar a few weeks ago, and they suggested having different sales pages — one for your cold audience, one for your webinar audience, and one for your warm audience. I didn't have time to implement it at that moment, but it's something I'm planning for the next time I launch Raising Leaders. My cold audience coming from Facebook ads or affiliate lead magnets needs me to build that know, like, and trust from scratch. My webinar audience and my warm audience — I don't have to give them as much background. I can dive straight into how it will help them. Different people need different conversations. Why Most Creators Never Do This Most creators know they should organize their lists better. But they never do it. Not because they're lazy, but because they're alone. They spend hours watching tutorials, hours researching, hours trying to piece together advice from different sources — and then they never implement. They get stuck in decision fatigue. Sometimes a five-minute conversation saves five hours of frustration. I can get on a Zoom call for five minutes with someone who's a peer and solve a problem I'd otherwise spend hours researching. Community matters for solopreneurs. One of my mastermind members, Chris, was pivoting her business and realized her list didn't include all of her target audience. It took a couple of mastermind meetings and some research to get there. She's like — okay, I'm going to focus on the people that are my target audience and talk specifically to those people. Group coaching often reveals audiences you didn't even realize existed. A lot of members say — just talking it out in our meetings has been totally helpful. What to Do This Week Think about your list. What groups are inside it? I don't want you to build anything yet. I don't want you to create tags or segments. Just write down up to five main groups you think exist inside your list. Do you even know who they are? Do you need to go back and look at what types of emails people have been opening or responding to? Start there. Five groups. Write them down. Once you understand who those audiences are, communication becomes much more effective and much easier. We're going to be talking about this exact topic — email list segmentation, tagging, automations, building a buyer's journey — in our Family eBiz Mastermind and Homeschool Blogger University training on July 7th. We'll demonstrate how to build relationships with your buyers, what the buyer's journey looks like as people come in, and we'll have Q&A at the end. You do have to be a current Family eBiz Mastermind member or HBU member to attend. Family eBiz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind] focuses on growing and scaling a business. Homeschool Blogger University [https://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu] is built for homeschool content creators and bloggers to scale their business. And next week — we're going to talk about what happens when someone clicks, and what some of you are doing wrong after those clicks.

119: Stop Blaming Your List Size - Email List Marketing Fix

If your email list marketing feels like shouting into the void, the problem probably isn't your subscriber count — and this video shows you exactly what to fix. Most content creators assume more subscribers = more sales. But what if your next customer is already on your list — and just hasn't heard from you lately? In this episode, we break down the real reason email list marketing stalls, and what you can do about it starting this week. If you're a solopreneur, homeschool content creator, or online business owner whose email doesn’t convert to buyers,, this one's for you. You'll walk away with a simple mindset shift and a quick action step that could change your results faster than any new lead magnet. Here are 5 things you'll discover in this episode:   ✅Why your existing subscribers are more valuable than you're treating them ✅The silent killer of email engagement — and how to reverse it ✅What 2 businesses did to build deep loyalty through consistent email ✅The audit you can do in under 10 minutes to see where things went wrong ✅The real reason most solopreneurs stall — and how to get unstuck Ready to stop chasing new subscribers and start serving the ones you already have? Resources for You •Family Biz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind] — strategy and business growth community •Homeschool Blogger University [https://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu] — for homeschool content creators Show Notes: Your Next Sale Is Already on Your List Most content creators think — if I could get more subscribers, I'd have more sales. If I had 5,000 subscribers instead of 500, everything would change. But what if your next sale is already on your list? What if your problem isn't the size of your list? What if your problem is communication? The issue isn't list size. It's communication. Sound Familiar? You're probably in this situation. You're creating content consistently. You're posting on social media, publishing blogs, recording podcasts, building lead magnets. But sales are inconsistent, engagement is low, and emails feel frustrating. Think about these questions. How many people joined your list in the last year — do you even know? How many have heard from you recently, within the last week or two? How many know what you actually sell? Do you even let them know? Most creators spend more time finding new subscribers than serving their existing ones. And I have been taught since the beginning of any marketing training I've ever had — it is easier to sell to a current subscriber who knows and likes and trusts you than to go find new cold ones and build that relationship from scratch. Morning Brew Didn't Win Because of List Size There's a company called Morning Brew. They started as a simple email newsletter created by college students. Instead of obsessing over massive traffic numbers, they focused on delivering a valuable email that readers wanted to open every day. Do your followers want to open your email when it shows up? I just got off a coaching call and she said — I'm missing some emails, but when I see yours I make sure I read it because I want to make sure I'm getting all the information I need from you. Isn't that the kind of subscriber you want? And a buyer that keeps buying? Morning Brew didn't win because they had the biggest list first. They won because people expected and valued the email communication. They knew there would be value in it every time. Relationships create engagement. Engagement creates opportunities for sales. Let me say that again. Relationships create engagement. Engagement creates opportunities for sales. The Hidden Cost of Ignoring Your List If you ignore your existing subscribers, there is a hidden cost. Someone joins your list, they get the freebie, and then — silence. What happens? They forget you. They forget your expertise and they forget your solution. People don't buy from businesses they don't remember. You've probably gotten on a list five years ago and you don't even remember who they are. Maybe because they did not consistently build a relationship with you. Here's what I want you to do this week. Open your email platform and look at the last time you emailed consistently — at least weekly, maybe bi-weekly. I don't want you to fix anything today. I just want you to be aware — when was it and how often were you emailing? Are people opening? Are they clicking? Just look. Why Solopreneurs Stall — It's Not What You Think Here's something I've noticed working with entrepreneurs for years. They don't have a list problem. They know email works. They know relationships matter and consistency matters. But nothing changes. Why? Information overload. Too many opinions coming at you in your inbox, on YouTube, in podcasts. Too many experts. Too many strategies. And you are constantly learning — but rarely implementing. We consume all these things and become paralyzed. We don't move forward. Most solopreneurs don't stall because they don't know enough. They stall because nobody is helping them stay focused on the next right step. Ben Chestnut started Mailchimp as an alternative to the oversized, expensive email software of the early 2000s. He didn't chase every trend in the market. He focused on one thing — helping small businesses communicate with their customers consistently. That's it. That focus built a company that was acquired by Intuit — the company behind QuickBooks — in 2021. His success wasn't about more information and more marketing strategies. It was about consistent communication. Trust Drives Sales — Not List Size Would you rather have 10,000 people who don't really know you or 500 people who trust you? The answer is obvious. Homeschool moms buy from people they trust. Travelers buy from people they trust. Gardeners, quilters — everyone buys from people they trust. Trust is built through communication, not list size. Amy Porterfield told a story about a guy who had 250 people on his list and launched for over $10,000 or $20,000. That is not a big list. Yes, you want to grow your list — but you want to grow it with the right people, not just anyone from bundles or events. Do they convert into buyers? Build relationships with people who will eventually buy from you. Ann Handley has become known for writing emails that feel personal and conversational. She built trust by consistently showing up and communicating like a real person, not a corporation. She writes to one person. People stay connected to people — not corporations, not automated messaging. Sometimes what feels like a traffic problem is actually a communication problem. And sometimes a five-minute conversation can reveal an issue much faster than five hours of research or piecing together three different podcasts and courses. That's why coaching, accountability, and community matter so much. I have two groups that help with accountability, coaching, strategy, and business growth. FamilyEbiz Mastermind [https://familyebiz.com/mastermind] is for strategy and business growth. Homeschool Blogger University [https://homeschoolblogging.com/hbu] is for homeschool content creators putting it all into practice. Links are in the show notes. And stay tuned — next week we're going to talk about one of the biggest mistakes content creators make with their email list marketing. You're going to want to hear it.

118: Selling With Confidence When It Feels Awkward

Struggling to talk about your offer without feeling pushy? This episode reframes selling with confidence as one of the most helpful things you can do for your audience. Most online business owners believe in what they sell — they just can't bring themselves to say it out loud. This episode walks through why avoiding your offer actually hurts the people you're trying to help, what the difference is between pressure and invitation, and how to talk about your product in a way that feels natural and genuinely serves your audience. If making an offer feels pushy or uncomfortable, you're not alone — but avoiding it is hurting your audience more than you know. Selling with confidence isn't about pressure; it's about leading people to a solution they actually need. Online business owners, content creators, and solopreneurs who know they have something valuable to offer but freeze up every time it's time to actually sell it — this one is going to shift something for you. Why avoiding your offer is actually hurting the people you want to help ✅The difference between pushy promotion and a simple, genuine invitation ✅What people are really buying — and it's not your PDF or your course ✅ONE sentence to write down today that clarifies your offer's transformation ✅How teaching & selling can peacefully coexist in your content Stop keeping your solution a secret. Grab the free Business Marketing Roadmap below and start planning offers you're proud to share. Resources for You * Business Marketing Roadmap [https://familyebiz.com/roadmap] (Free Download) * Scrappy List Building Checklist [https://familyebiz.com/scrappy] (Free Download)  Show Notes: Most Digital Creators Are Not Afraid of Creating — They're Afraid of Selling Most online businesses and digital creators are not afraid of creating. They are afraid of selling. And because of that fear, people never hear about the solution that they desperately need. Your audience does not hear about that solution. Today we're talking about how to make selling natural and not awkward. Why Selling Feels So Uncomfortable I know for a fact many of you listening find it awkward to offer your product or sell something. You believe in your product, but you hesitate to mention it. You worry — I'm going to sound too pushy. I'm bothering people by sending them an email about something that could help their life. Or you're afraid of rejection. The reality is — avoiding your offer helps no one. If you avoid telling people about your offer, you're not helping anyone. You have a hobby business. And you're sort of being selfish because you're keeping it back and not letting them know how your offer could help them. Why do so many of you feel uncomfortable? You're afraid of judgment. You're afraid of rejection. You're afraid people will unsubscribe. Well, if they unsubscribe, they weren't the right people for you anyway. Most creators connect selling with pressure instead of connecting selling with service. I totally believe that selling is tied to service. If you're a good salesperson, you are listening to what their problem is and then trying to help them find the best solution. Oprah and the Power of Serving Through Selling Oprah Winfrey did this phenomenally. She built trust by deeply understanding her audience's transformation — what do they need to have a better life? And she was constantly and consistently offering recommended resources to them. Resources she believed would help them. If you don't believe your product can help someone, then don't sell it. Go do something else. But when you believe something helps people, sharing it becomes leadership. You become a leader and an authority in that field. Pushiness vs. Service — What's the Real Difference? Pushiness is pressure. It is manipulation. If you want to help and serve someone and give them a real answer to their problem, that is an invitation. That is service. That is clarity. And that is leadership. There's a difference between promotion and invitation. Follow the invitation route. When you do, selling becomes helping people move forward. That's what you want to be about. Bob Ross freely taught painting techniques on his PBS show The Joy of Painting — from 1983 to 1994 — while also building products and educational resources. Teaching and selling can peacefully coexist and build a business. You just have to understand the balance and show people the transformation they're going to have. What People Are Actually Buying People buy confidence, clarity, solutions, and momentum. They're not buying a PDF or a printable. They are buying outcomes. That transformation — that's what you are serving them with. Dale Carnegie transformed communication training. He made it one of the most enduring educational businesses in history because he focused not on the six-week program, but on the transformation — the change people would have once they went through his course and felt confident speaking in public. Once you can get one, two, or three students who say — yes, this changed the way I homeschooled, yes, this changed the way I work out, yes, this changed the way I cook — then you begin to serve others by offering them resources that really do help them. Two Things to Do This Week First, add one invitation to your next email or piece of content. Something as simple as — if you want help implementing this, here's how I can help. That's it. That is not pressure. That is guidance. That is you walking alongside them in their journey. Second, write down this sentence and fill it in — my product helps people blank. What is one real transformation people get from buying your product? That could be a $20 ebook or a $200 course. Use that sentence in future promotions. For me — Raising Leaders, Not Followers helps moms stop the overwhelm in homeschooling because they simplify and have clarity about what to do each and every day. That's it. That's how simple it can be. Selling is not selfish. If your product truly helps people, hiding it helps no one. Your audience cannot buy a solution they've never heard about. If this helped you, would you please share it with one person? And grab a copy of my free Business Marketing Roadmap [https://familyebiz.com/roadmap] in the show notes — it will help you plan your offers and your sales so you can start making consistent revenue. My Scrappy List Building Checklist [https://familyebiz.com/scrappy] is also available there if you want to grow your list at the same time.