Teach Me to Father

Our Little Book Of Secrets

The most requested guest so far is... Barry's wife, Heather! Join Barry and Heather as they dive into their powerful journey from brokenness to healing. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust after divorce, overcoming depression with community, and what legacy for them looks like for empty nesters. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Most Requested Guest 01:06 Unpacking the Impact of Fatherlessness 02:35 Personal Stories and Reflections 04:28 Preventative Measures and Legacy Building 06:44 Heather's Spiritual Journey 07:44 Meeting and Early Interactions 09:16 Developing a Relationship 15:45 Heather's Struggles and Support System 21:26 The Power of Worship and Community 26:45 The Importance of a Faith Community 27:32 Trust and Healing 30:42 Finding Supportive Friends 33:00 Developing a Relationship 36:15 Sabbatical and Growing Closer 39:29 Advice for New Relationships 42:55 Unpacking Emotional Baggage 44:38 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Embraced by God: Pastor Steve Burks Story

Everyone faces their own battles. But with God, a greater story awaits. Steve Burkes exemplifies that. Barry talks to his former college classmate, Pastor Steve Burkes today. Steve is a pastor and politician from Floyd County, Indiana. From overcoming a challenging childhood, being raised by a single mother in poverty to rising as a key influencer and a devoted father, Pastor Burkes' journey is a testament to resilience and faith. Hear firsthand about his formative years, pivotal moments in college, and his unexpected path into ministry and public service. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Pastor and the Politician 00:28 Meet Pastor Steve Burkes 00:52 Reminiscing College Days 02:39 Journey to Southeastern College 03:33 Memorable Moments at Southeastern 07:17 Spiritual Awakening 12:59 Early Life Struggles 24:04 Meeting His Wife 29:04 Early Ministry and Marriage 30:27 Transition to New Albany 32:29 Church Productions and Excellence 33:21 Heaven's Gates, Hell's Flames Ministry 36:46 Becoming the Next Pastor 40:48 Family and Ministry Involvement 44:58 Political Journey and Community Involvement 55:51 Encouragement for Fathers 01:04:36 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Who's Driving Your Car?

Who taught you how to drive a car? Barry shares heartfelt memories of learning to drive with his grandfather and reflects on the parallels between driving and fatherhood. He emphasizes three key characteristics that make the biggest difference. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 My First Driving Lesson 00:51 Lessons From Grandpa 03:48 Lessons From Driver's Ed Teacher 06:04 Reflecting on Driving Lessons 08:29 Fatherhood: The Ultimate Driving Lesson 10:40 The Importance of Spiritual Fathers 12:13 Taking Responsibility and Learning 14:32 Humility and Teachability in Fatherhood 19:08 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Debunking the Masculinity Myth w/ Mark Oleck

In a world often dominated by misleading ideas about masculinity, we tackle the misconceptions of toxic masculinity. Barry and guest Mark Oleck delve into the attributes of biblical manhood, emphasizing servant leadership, emotional honesty, and strength under control. They address the cultural distortions and forgotten virtues that define true masculinity, encouraging men to reclaim their roles as leaders and protectors in a godly manner. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 The Myth of Masculinity 01:18 Guest Introduction: Mark Oleck 02:49 Cultural Perceptions of Masculinity 03:55 Historical Context and Feminism 06:33 The Role of Fathers and Family Dynamics 06:56 The Alpha Male Misconception 16:12 Toxic Masculinity Traits 21:45 The Importance of Biblical Manhood 23:49 Pseudo Confidence and Vices 24:25 The Garden of Eden and Adam's Passivity 26:42 Toxic Masculinity and Cultural Distractions 28:38 Humility and the Role of Pride 30:19 Biblical Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity 33:10 Elements of Biblical Masculinity 41:52 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]

Navigating Life’s Seasons with Wisdom and Resilience

The seasons of life never stop. Today Barry reflects on recent season of depression and identifies practical steps to persist through whatever season you may be in. Barry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that no season—whether good or bad—lasts forever. He offers practical advice on assessing and analyzing our experiences during different seasons, and how to utilize those lessons for personal growth and resilience. Join FatherFuel for more: https://www.fatherseekers.org/fatherfuel FS Facebook [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-facebook] FS Instagram [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-insta] FS YouTube [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-youtube] Ask Barry a question: barry@fatherseekers.org TIMELINE 00:00 Understanding Life's Seasons 00:22 Navigating Through Different Seasons 02:22 The Power of Seasons 04:51 Assessing and Analyzing Seasons 07:00 Learning from Seasons 08:37 Dealing with Difficult Seasons 12:45 How to Grow in Challenging Seasons 20:13 fatherseekers.org -- FatherSeekers helps fatherless fathers become better fathers. Get discussion guides, devotionals, and more at FS Website [https://fatherseekers.captivate.fm/fatherseekers-web]