The Word “No” — What DO You Want Instead?

Too Many Cooks: Why Consistency is the Secret to Dog Training Success

Is your dog getting mixed messages from different family members? In this episode, we're talking about one of the biggest reasons dogs struggle to learn new behaviours: inconsistency. From using different cues for the same behaviour to changing equipment from one walk to the next, we'll explore how mixed messages can slow your dog's progress and create confusion. We'll also dive into the concept of the opposition reflex — the natural tendency for dogs to push against pressure. This can become particularly noticeable when different family members handle the dog differently, especially if one person allows pulling while another tries to stop it. If you want a dog that understands what's expected of them, the whole family needs to be speaking the same language.

The Jump-Sit Cycle: Why Your Dog Keeps Jumping Up

One of the most common training mistakes I see isn't a lack of training—it's accidentally rewarding the very behaviour people are trying to stop. Picture the scene. Your dog jumps up at you. You tell them to sit. They sit. You reward them. Sounds reasonable, doesn't it? The problem is that your dog doesn't necessarily see it the same way. What many dogs see is: Jump up → Sit down → Get rewarded The jumping up becomes part of the chain that leads to the reward. So next time they want a reward, attention, or interaction, what do they do? They jump up again. After all, that's how the sequence starts. This is what I call the Jump-Sit Cycle. Owners often think they're rewarding the sit because that's the behaviour happening immediately before the reward. But from the dog's perspective, the entire sequence may be linked together. Imagine if every time you wanted a biscuit, you had to touch the wall first. Before long, touching the wall would become part of the process of earning the biscuit. Dogs are no different. The answer isn't to stop rewarding sits. The answer is to stop making the sit happen after the unwanted behaviour. Instead, look for opportunities to reward before the jump occurs. Approach your dog when all four paws are on the floor and reward that. Ask visitors to only interact when the dog remains grounded. Reward calm approaches. Reward standing politely. Reward the behaviours you actually want to see repeated. If your dog does jump up, avoid turning it into a training exercise where jumping is the first step and sitting is the second. Simply remove attention, reset the situation, and wait for the behaviour you'd like before rewarding. Remember, dogs learn in sequences. The question isn't just "What am I rewarding?" It's "What behaviour does my dog think earned the reward?" Understanding that difference can completely change your training results. Helen x

Why I sometimes put dogs on a lead indoors 👀

Visitors arriving can send some dogs into complete overdrive — jumping, barking, spinning, grabbing toys, or racing around the house. In this episode, we talk about why using a lead indoors can be an incredibly helpful management tool, how it prevents unwanted behaviours being rehearsed, and why calmer greetings help dogs succeed long term.

Wait vs Stay — Are They Different?

Do you use “wait” and “stay” interchangeably? Many owners do — but they can actually mean very different things. In this episode, we break down how to use each cue effectively, why release cues matter, and how clear communication helps your dog succeed.Use code Founder at checkout to get 25% off your subscription for the duration of your subscription Insider Club | Guns and Noses [https://www.gunsnnoses.co.uk/guns-noses-insider-club]

The Word “No” — What DO You Want Instead?

“No” is one of the most overused words in dog training — but does your dog actually know what it means? In this episode, we explore why simply saying “no” often isn’t enough, and how teaching your dog what TO do instead creates clearer communication, faster learning, and better behaviour overall.Use code Founder at checkout for 25% off your monthly subscriptionInsider Club | Guns and Noses [https://www.gunsnnoses.co.uk/guns-noses-insider-club]