Commitment, Lifting, and Feeling Lost, Dear Guyset

Commitment, Lifting, and Feeling Lost, Dear Guyset

Welcome back to another Dear Guyset episode, where I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, relationships, work, confidence, fitness, and everything in between. I'm no expert, but I am going through all of this alongside you, sharing what I've learned so far and what I continue to learn along the way. Is it weird to want a relationship but not know if you're ready for one? How do you get your boss to notice your work? How do you start lifting when you have no idea what you're doing? In this episode, I answer your questions about commitment, confidence, work, fitness, side hustles, and the uncertainty that comes with being in your 20s. One of my favorite things about these episodes is realizing how many of us are asking the same questions. A lot of the time we think we're the only ones who feel lost, unsure, or confused about what to do next, when in reality almost everyone is wondering the same things. If one guy has a question, chances are a lot of other guys are wondering the exact same thing. That's why I love opening the vault on these conversations and talking about the things we don't always say out loud. Timestamps: 03:18 Is it weird that I want a relationship but don't know if I'm ready to be in one? 08:45 My boss doesn't really notice my work. How do I change that? 13:04 I've been talking to this girl for three weeks. How do I ask where it's going? 17:24 How did you start lifting? 26:08 Is it normal to still have no idea what I'm doing? 29:35 I want to start a side project, but I'm exhausted after work. How do people do both? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

The Intern Survival Guide

Intern season is here. In this episode, I share the advice I wish someone gave me before my first internship, including how to meet people, make yourself known, ask better questions, stand out at work, and create opportunities for yourself. Whether you're starting your first internship or your first full-time job, these are the lessons that helped me build confidence, earn trust, and get the most out of every opportunity. If you're trying to figure out how to stand out professionally without pretending to have everything figured out, this episode is for you. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

What Guys Can Learn From Off Campus

What can guys learn about confidence, vulnerability, relationships, and communication from one of the biggest shows in the world right now? In this episode, I break down the biggest lessons I took away from Off Campus and why I think it might secretly be one of the best guides to dating, relationships, and becoming a better man. Before you skip this because you haven't seen the show, you don't need to have watched a single episode to get something from this conversation. The lessons we're talking about go far beyond Off Campus and apply to dating, friendships, confidence, communication, and life in general. From putting yourself out there and showing genuine confidence to building trust, communicating better, and learning how vulnerability can become a strength, there's a lot more beneath the surface of this story than most people realize. Whether you've watched Off Campus five times or have no idea what it is, this episode is about the bigger lessons hiding inside the things we watch and what they can teach us about becoming better men, friends, and people. For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

10 Things I Learned at 25

Turning 26 made me realize how much can change in a single year. In this episode, I talk about the 10 biggest lessons I learned at 25 about confidence, comparison, relationships, career growth, self-doubt, gratitude, and believing in yourself when you're still figuring life out in your 20s. I talk about developing a growth mindset, putting yourself out there, building confidence through action, handling uncertainty, getting out of your head, and learning how to actually enjoy your life while you're building it. If you've ever felt behind, overwhelmed, anxious about the future, or unsure where your life is going, this episode is for you. Timestamps: 00:18 Turning 26 and reflecting on the past year 06:00 The "4 out of 7 days" mindset 10:00 Why a growth mindset changes everything 12:00 You choose how you handle life 15:50 Increase your surface area 18:15 Nobody is going to do it for you 20:30 Building a network and asking for help 24:50 Living more and getting out of your head 26:30 Making your head a better place to be 27:15 Practicing gratitude every day 29:30 Why you should believe in yourself 31:00 Final thoughts For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!

Pick Up Lines, Age Gaps, and Salary Negotiations, Dear Guyset

In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like everyone else secretly knows what they're doing except you, this episode is for you. Topics: 02:31 What are your thoughts on age gaps in relationships? 11:40 Why do I keep meeting people I hate on dating apps? 16:35 Are there good pickup lines? 20:05 How do you prepare for an interview quickly? 28:05 How much should you be texting when you first start seeing someone? 30:45 How do I negotiate my salary? 38:00 How often should you wash your work shirts? For more Guyset: Watch full episodes on YouTube: @guyset [https://www.youtube.com/@guyset] Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/] Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ [https://guyset.com/] Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything [http://guyset.com/] If You're Going On A Date This Week: listen here [https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7tZKddlTKrqhumgEDIkYuGR393_DAqbE&si=If6wm4iN4sHicIaG] See you guys next Tuesday!