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The Weekly Money Habit That Changes Everything

Most people work hard and still feel broke. The problem is not income. It is the lack of a clear money system. In this episode, Lisa Drennon shares how “dating your money” each week can transform your finances, eliminate debt, and build true wealth. She also explains why financial literacy must start with children through her book LionPhin’s Money Adventure: Discover The Magic Of Saving, Spending, & Sharing EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS * Why most entrepreneurs make money but still feel broke * The concept of “dating your money” every week * Why paying yourself first must be non-negotiable * The Save, Spend, Share framework for kids and adults * How Lisa paid off $100,000 in debt in six months * The money mindset blocks that keep entrepreneurs stuck * Why financial systems matter more than hustle * How mompreneurs can separate business and personal finances KEY TAKEAWAYS * Wealth starts with clarity about where your money goes * Your income needs a map and a system * Paying yourself first changes everything * Financial education should begin in childhood THANK YOU FOR TUNING INTO THIS WEEK’S EPISODE OF IDATEMONEY!® 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about] today. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa]today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

"I CAN'T AFFORD THAT."

Have you ever been on a sales call, felt completely aligned with the person or program, and then the moment the price was revealed, your stomach tightened, and the words came out automatically: “I can’t afford it.” It’s one of the most common phrases people say when faced with investing in themselves. But what if that statement isn’t actually about money at all? In this episode, Lisa Drennon unpacks a powerful realization she had after four recent sales calls where every potential client said the exact same thing: they couldn’t afford the investment. But instead of taking that statement at face value, Lisa began asking a deeper question. What if “I can’t afford it” is actually a protective response from the nervous system rather than a true reflection of someone’s financial situation? When we’re faced with a big decision, especially one involving money, our brain and body can react with fear, stress, and uncertainty. That response can make us shut down opportunities that might actually help us grow. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the three hidden lies behind the phrase “I can’t afford it” and explains why people often find ways to pay for things when the need feels urgent, aligned, or certain. You’ll learn why the real objection is rarely money — it’s usually a lack of certainty, discomfort around making the decision, or a nervous system that feels overwhelmed by the possibility of change. Lisa also shares the powerful lesson she learned from these sales conversations: when people don’t fully acknowledge the pain of their current situation, they often can’t see the true value of the solution in front of them. If you’re a divorced or single mompreneur who feels like money keeps slipping through your fingers no matter how hard you work, Lisa also shares how her 90-day Wealth Accelerator program [https://calendly.com/lisa-drennon/laser-money-coaching-session]helps women install a simple financial system that reduces stress, builds savings, and creates real financial confidence. Explore whether this program is a good fit for you: Wealth Accelerator [https://calendly.com/lisa-drennon/laser-money-coaching-session] Because true financial freedom isn’t about how much money you make, It’s about understanding how to make your money work for you. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/plans], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

STOP AVOIDING YOUR MONEY PAIN

What if the reason you’re stuck financially isn’t about math but about avoidance? In this episode, Lisa shares a powerful personal story about hip pain and how it revealed a deeper truth about the way we treat money. If you’ve been avoiding your bank account, living on credit cards, or feeling anxious every time you think about your finances, this episode will help you lean in instead of pulling away. ---------------------------------------- ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:09 – The Theragun Story: Avoiding the Pain Hip pain revealed a powerful lesson about control, discomfort, and healing. 01:00 – The Money Parallel Why we avoid looking at our finances when they feel overwhelming, and how that avoidance keeps us stuck. 02:00 – The Credit Card Cycle Living on credit, not knowing your numbers, and playing the “where did my money go?” game. 02:18 – The Smell of Money & Money Awareness Challenge How weekly reset calls and daily “cash flow quickies” help you rebuild your relationship with money. 04:13 – Step 1: Daily Money Gratitude Why gratitude shifts you from fear to awareness. 05:00 – Step 2: Create a Money Map Track income, expenses, debt, assets, and net worth. Why knowing your numbers turns fear into neutral data. 06:44 – Step 3: Pay Yourself First Stop saving “what’s left.” Build your emergency fund and create intentional money buckets. 07:30 – Money Buckets & High-Yield Savings Using designated accounts to reduce emotional spending. 08:30 – Rewrite Your Money Story How your past beliefs shape your current financial reality and how to change them. 09:05 – The Psychology of Wealth Why mindset, not income, determines whether you keep money. Worthiness, healing, and breaking the debt cycle. 09:50 – Final Message: Lean In On the other side of financial discomfort is peace, clarity, overflow, and true wealth. ---------------------------------------- KEY TAKEAWAYS * Avoidance keeps you stuck financially. * Gratitude reduces money anxiety. * Clarity creates confidence. * Paying yourself first builds safety and stability. * Wealth is mindset + math. * You are capable, and deserving of financial peace. ---------------------------------------- Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 ⚠️ Results Disclaimer: Results and examples shared in this video are based on specific experiences and are for educational purposes only. Achieving similar outcomes requires time, effort, and consistency. Individual results will vary depending on your niche, dedication, and external factors. This content does not constitute professional, financial, or legal advice.

How to Build a $10,000 Emergency Fund Fast, Even If You Feel Broke

HOW TO BUILD A $10,000 EMERGENCY FUND FAST, EVEN IF YOU FEEL BROKE You do not feel anxious about money because of your income. You feel anxious because you do not have a buffer. In this episode, I show you how to find your first $1,000 in seven days and start your $10,000 emergency fund sprint without spreadsheets, shame, or overwhelm. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN: * Why saving six months of expenses feels paralyzing * The real reason you still feel broke, even on a solid income * How to calculate your true “needs only” monthly number * Why $1,000 changes your nervous system fast * The 7 Day Money Awareness Challenge that routinely uncovers $500 or more * How to redirect money without feeling restricted * Where to open a high yield emergency fund account * How to stop feeling guilty when you use your emergency savings KEY STEPS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1. Open your Money Map [https://idatemoney.com/money-map]and calculate needs only expenses 2. Start with $1,000 in seven days 3. Open a high yield savings account 4. Complete the 7 Day Money Awareness Challenge 5. Redirect, do not restrict 6. Build toward $10,000 with weekly clarity Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Lisa] today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

The Biggest Retirement Mistake People Make During Market Dips

Every time the market gets shaky, the same fear rears its head. Should I sell everything? Should I stop investing? In this episode, Lisa breaks down why retirement anxiety is not an investment problem. It’s a structural problem. And how to calm your nervous system so you can make confident money decisions, even when headlines feel loud. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • Why fear, not ignorance, drives most investing decisions • How constant exposure to panic-based narratives fuels money anxiety • Why structure matters more than market timing • How to give your money a job so your brain can relax • What volatility means at different life stages • Why emotional safety is critical to retirement success • How automated investing builds long-term wealth without stress • The simplest ways to start or strengthen retirement savings today Key Takeaway Markets reward discipline and time. Not emotional reactions. When your money has structure, you stop panicking and start trusting yourself. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2], you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. [https://www.skool.com/the-smell-of-money/about?ref=96c634a120914b7b90466c17b957e4f2] Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO [https://onboarding.novo.co/signup?referral_code=LisaDrennon&first_name=Li] today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily