IN IT with Jordan Harper and Ashley Buckler

Being Present When Your Inner World Is Loud: What Anxiety Actually Is, Why You Can't Think Your Way Out of It, and What to Do Instead

41 min · 30 jun 2026
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You've read the books. You've done the work. You know better, and you still can't shake it. This episode is our season one finale, and it's one of the most honest conversations we've had this season. Ashley takes us through her therapy journey and we discuss:  * Anxiety that lives in the body, not just the mind  * Why "safety is felt, not learned" and what that actually means for the way you've been trying to think your way out of hard feelings  * Our nervous systems on overdrive * Feelings as facts vs. feelings as feelings * Identity claims we make from a single moment of frustration * Why worry is just a false sense of control * The train you don't have to get on You are not alone and this is just the beginning. Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jordanharper_np/]Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ashleybuckler_/]Follow In It podcast on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/in.it.podcast?igsh=YTlheG1jYmY2ajk1] Wobbles the Worry Monster by Wendi Meise [https://www.amazon.com/Wobbles-Monster-Managing-Building-Confidence/dp/B0GNZDYG1M] Raising Worry Free Girls by Sissy Goff [https://go.shopmy.us/p-50571313] Jesus Calling by Sarah Young [https://go.shopmy.us/p-67043476]

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Being Present When Your Inner World Is Loud: What Anxiety Actually Is, Why You Can't Think Your Way Out of It, and What to Do Instead

You've read the books. You've done the work. You know better, and you still can't shake it. This episode is our season one finale, and it's one of the most honest conversations we've had this season. Ashley takes us through her therapy journey and we discuss:  * Anxiety that lives in the body, not just the mind  * Why "safety is felt, not learned" and what that actually means for the way you've been trying to think your way out of hard feelings  * Our nervous systems on overdrive * Feelings as facts vs. feelings as feelings * Identity claims we make from a single moment of frustration * Why worry is just a false sense of control * The train you don't have to get on You are not alone and this is just the beginning. Follow Jordan Harper on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jordanharper_np/]Follow Ashley Buckler on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ashleybuckler_/]Follow In It podcast on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/in.it.podcast?igsh=YTlheG1jYmY2ajk1] Wobbles the Worry Monster by Wendi Meise [https://www.amazon.com/Wobbles-Monster-Managing-Building-Confidence/dp/B0GNZDYG1M] Raising Worry Free Girls by Sissy Goff [https://go.shopmy.us/p-50571313] Jesus Calling by Sarah Young [https://go.shopmy.us/p-67043476]

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