Abstinent vs. Celibate: What’s the Difference & Why It Matters

Life After Divorce, Disappointment & Detours

“God, I didn’t think it would look like this…” Have you ever said that? When life takes a turn you didn’t expect, and you’re left holding pieces of a plan that no longer exists. In this raw and real Keepin’ It Kingdom Convo, Jess Marie sits down with LaKeisha, a recently divorced mother of seven, to talk about what it looks like to rebuild your life with God… not apart from Him. This isn’t about “finding yourself.” It’s about discovering the woman God always intended you to become.

When God Strips Everything: Finances, Friends & Familiarity

What do you do when obedience to God doesn’t make sense — and costs you everything? In this raw and faith-filled episode of Keepin’ It Kingdom Convos, Jess Marie and Dejáh talk about what it really looks like to trust God in uncomfortable seasons. We open up about how walking with Christ required us to surrender things we once held tightly — from finances to sororities — and even friendships. This episode explores what comes with letting go of people you love when God says it’s time, especially when they don’t understand your obedience. If you’re in a place where it feels like God is stripping things away and asking for blind trust — while you feel alone, unseen, or misunderstood — this conversation is for you.

Why Friendship Breakups Hurt Just as Much as Romantic Ones

Not all breakups are romantic. In this honest, faith-filled conversation, Jess and her sister in Christ Jessica open up about the heartbreak of friendship breakups, especially between women of God. From prayer and accountability to spiritual discernment and boundaries, this video unpacks what it means to walk through friendship fallout while staying rooted in Christ. Whether you're healing from a friendship loss, struggling with trust, or navigating what godly sisterhood looks like, this is for you.

Purity Starts in the Mind: It’s More Than Just Sex

Purity isn’t just about abstaining from sex, it’s a heart posture and a daily mindset. In this faith‑filled conversation, Jess and Dejah dive deep into what true purity looks like: guarding your thoughts, renewing your mind, and allowing the Holy Spirit to transform your heart from the inside out.

Abstinent vs. Celibate: What’s the Difference & Why It Matters

There’s a big difference between abstinence (refraining from sexual activity for a season or purpose) and celibacy (a lifelong gift of singleness devoted wholly to God). In this candid discussion, Jess and Dejah explore: Definitions & Spiritual Context Abstinence, How God’s Refining Process Works Slow purging of habits, Practical Wisdom for Every Season, Recognize soul‑ties, and spiritual consequences of casual relationships.