Being a Man in Today's World with Steve Abbott

Being a Man in Today's World with Larry DeMarco

The "Leading in a Mosaic World" podcast, hosted by Susan Popoola, explores the realities of modern life through conversations with diverse voices and experiences. This episode forms part of a special series exploring the question: “What does it mean to be a man in today’s world?” through conversations with men from different backgrounds, professions, and cultures. The series contributes to the wider mission of creating Gender Harmony in a Mosaic World, a world where men are able to fully be themselves, live fulfilled lives, and add value to others. Today’s guest is Larry DeMarco, an attorney with more than three decades of experience advocating for injured workers and protecting their rights. He is the founder of the Law Centre, which provides free and low-cost resources for self-represented litigants in child custody cases, and serves as Executive Manager of the International Council for Men and Boys, a non-governmental organisation dedicated to promoting the wellbeing of men and boys while advancing gender equality through informed dialogue, research, and advocacy. In this episode, Larry reflects on the realities facing men and boys in today's society, drawing on his legal experience and advocacy work to examine issues surrounding fatherhood, family, mental health, and gender equality. He explores the impact of societal expectations, broken homes, and father absence on children and families, while challenging common assumptions about privilege and highlighting the importance of recognising the unique challenges faced by men and boys. The conversation also explores emotional wellbeing, domestic abuse, public perceptions, and the role of advocacy in creating more balanced and constructive conversations around gender. Larry shares insights into the work of the International Council for Men and Boys, the importance of supporting men's mental health, and practical ways society can foster greater understanding, empathy, and collaboration between men and women. You can connect with Larry DeMarco on linkedin [https://www.linkedin.com/in/g-lawrence-demarco-llm-0431a82] and learn more about the work he does for ei International Council for Men and Boys [https://www.menandboys.net/] and The Law Center [https://thelawcenter.net/] through their website and social media channels. You can also connect with the host, Susan Popoola, the CEO of Mosaic Fusions, a specialist in human value optimisation, via LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanpopoola]. Learn more about her work on her Mosaic Fusions website [https://www.mosaicfusions.com/susanpopoola]. And publications on Mosaic Gold Ltd [https://mosaicgold.org/].  This series of the podcast is produced by Rafiat Akinwande. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Larry DeMarco and His Work 03:42 Growing Up in Philadelphia: Challenges and Privileges 08:36 The Impact of Father Absence on Boys 10:58 Understanding Male Disadvantage and Societal Expectations 16:02 The Role of the International Council for Men and Boys 19:49 The Crisis of Male Identity and Mental Health 23:54 Expectations of Men in Society 28:09 Domestic Abuse: A Two-Sided Issue 32:54 Raising Awareness and Changing the Narrative 36:44 Intersectionality and Male Disadvantage 40:39 The Importance of Understanding Men's Emotions 46:10 Encouraging Emotional Expression in Men 46:51 A Message for Young Men Navigating Today's World 48:45 Outro #MosaicWorld #MenInTodaysWorld #GenderHarmony #Men #MaleActualisation #Success #Fulfilment #Boys #Adolescent #Manosphere #Masculinity #PositiveMasculinity #WellBeing #YoungMen #HumanValue #SusanPopoola #LarryDeMarco #InternationalCouncilForMenAndBoys #Fatherhood #GenderEquality #MensMentalHealth #Family #Advocacy #ChildCustody

Being a Man in Today's World with Keith Howells

The "Leading in a Mosaic World" podcast, hosted by Susan Popoola, explores the realities of modern life through conversations with diverse voices and experiences. This episode forms part of a special series exploring the question: “What does it mean to be a man in today’s world?” through conversations with men from different backgrounds, professions, and cultures. The series contributes to the wider mission of creating Gender Harmony in a Mosaic World, a world where men are able to fully be themselves, live fulfilled lives, and add value to others. Today’s guest is Keith Howells, a chartered engineer, entrepreneur, leadership coach, and founder of Project for Learning Lab. After a distinguished career leading complex engineering programmes at Rolls-Royce, Keith now works with organisations and leaders to improve performance through coaching, systems thinking, and human-centred leadership. A former Chair of School Governors and business mentor, he is passionate about developing people, strengthening communities, and helping others reach their potential. In this episode, Keith reflects on the experiences that have shaped his understanding of manhood, leadership, and purpose. Drawing on his upbringing, career, and work with people across different sectors, he explores the influence of family, work ethic, role models, and community in forming identity. The conversation examines how societal expectations, retirement, redundancy, and changing gender roles can affect men's sense of purpose, fulfilment, and emotional wellbeing. The discussion also explores vulnerability, privilege, mentorship, and the importance of creating safe spaces where men can have honest conversations and build meaningful connections. Keith shares practical insights on supporting younger men, navigating social media and modern pressures, embracing authenticity, and finding fulfilment through relationships, contribution, and lifelong learning. The episode concludes with reflections on leadership, empathy, and the role each of us can play in creating a more inclusive society where men are supported to thrive alongside women, families, and communities. You can connect with Keith Howells via LinkedIn [https://uk.linkedin.com/in/keith-howells-p4] and learn more about his work through Project 4 Learning Lab via the website [https://www.p4learninglab.com/] You can also connect with the host, Susan Popoola, the CEO of Mosaic Fusions, a specialist in human value optimisation, via LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanpopoola]. Learn more about her work on her Mosaic Fusions website [https://www.mosaicfusions.com/susanpopoola]. And publications on Mosaic Gold Ltd [https://mosaicgold.org/].  This series of the podcast is produced by Rafiat Akinwande. Keywords: MosaicWorld, MenInTodaysWorld, GenderHarmony, Men, MaleActualisation, Success, Fulfilment, Boys, Adolescent, Manosphere, Masculinity, PositiveMasculinity, MensWellBeing, YoungMen, HumanValue, SusanPopoola, KeithHowells, ProjectForLearningLab, Leadership, Mentorship, EmotionalWellbeing, Authenticity, Community, HumanCentredLeadership Chapters  00:00 Introduction on Keith Howells 04:10 Growing Up in Swansea: Influences and Values 07:03 The Importance of Human Connection in Organizations 08:33 Role Models and Their Impact on Identity 13:52 Intergenerational Work Ethic and Identity 19:08 Transitioning from Job to Identity: A Personal Journey 21:57 Privilege and Its Implications 25:58 Expectations and Self-Perception in Society 28:53 Navigating Expectations: A Guide for Young People 33:48 Parenting and Guiding the Next Generation 39:14 Mental Health and Masculinity 43:01 The Misallocation of Strength and Confidence 47:00 The Importance of Dialogue and Reflection 50:12 Finding Contentment in Helping Others 54:04 Challenging Assumptions and Embracing Humanity

Being a Man in Today's World with Steve Abbott

The "Leading in a Mosaic World" podcast, hosted by Susan Popoola, explores the realities of modern life through conversations with diverse voices and experiences. This episode forms part of a special series exploring the question: “What does it mean to be a man in today’s world?” through conversations with men from different backgrounds, professions, and cultures. The series contributes to the wider mission of creating Gender Harmony in a Mosaic World,  a world where men are able to fully be themselves, live fulfilled lives, and add value to others. Today’s guest is Steve Abbott, a business coach, mentor, and former construction industry leader with more than 30 years of experience in business growth, leadership, restructuring, and personal development. Having spent decades leading teams, transforming businesses, and mentoring professionals, Steve now combines business coaching with life coaching to help individuals and organisations achieve sustainable success and fulfilment. In this episode, Steve reflects on manhood, leadership, resilience, and personal growth. Drawing on experiences from both his personal life and professional career, he explores the influence of upbringing, family dynamics, discipline, and role models in shaping character and identity. The conversation examines the pressures facing men today, the impact of technology and social media, and the challenges of balancing responsibility, wellbeing, and authentic self-expression. The discussion also explores communication, mental health, mentorship, and the importance of building strong relationships at home and in the workplace. Steve shares practical insights on developing resilience, creating supportive environments, and finding fulfilment through purpose, growth, and meaningful experiences rather than material success. The episode concludes with reflections on leadership, collaboration, and the role men can play in creating greater understanding, connection, and harmony in society. You can connect with Steve Abbott via his website [https://www.woodford.ltd/] and LinkedIn [https://uk.linkedin.com/in/steve-abbott-28a72628?trk=public_post_follow-view-profile]. And  also connect with the host, Susan Popoola, the CEO of Mosaic Fusions, a specialist in human value optimisation, via LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanpopoola]. Learn more about her work on her Mosaic Fusions website [https://www.mosaicfusions.com/susanpopoola]. And publications on Mosaic Gold Ltd [https://mosaicgold.org/].   This series of the podcast is produced by Rafiat Akinwande. Keywords: MosaicWorld, MenInTodaysWorld, GenderHarmony, Men, MaleActualisation, Success, Fulfilment, Boys, Adolescent, Manosphere, Masculinity, PositiveMasculinity, MensWellBeing, YoungMen, HumanValue, SusanPopoola, SteveAbbott, Leadership, Resilience, Mentorship, PersonalGrowth, ConstructionLeadership Chapters 00:00 Introduction To Men In Today’s World Series 01:14 Introduction to Steve Abbott and His Journey 03:36 The Impact of Family Dynamics on Personal Growth 10:22 Evolving Expectations of Manhood 17:33 The Journey of Success and Fulfillment 29:50 Mentoring the Next Generation of Men 37:09 Understanding the Male Experience 41:09 Gender Harmony and Communication 46:44 The Importance of Community and Support 51:53 Addressing Mental Health in the Construction Industry 55:15 Outro

Being a Man in Today's World with Dennis Murray QPM

The "Leading in a Mosaic World" podcast, hosted by Susan Popoola, explores the realities of modern life through conversations with diverse voices and experiences. This episode forms part of a special series exploring the question: “What does it mean to be a man in today’s world?” through conversations with men from different backgrounds, professions, and cultures. The series contributes to the wider mission of creating Gender Harmony in a Mosaic World, a world where men are able to fully be themselves, live fulfilled lives, and add value to others.   Today’s guest is Dennis Murray QPM, Assistant Chief Constable at Thames Valley Police, who brings more than three decades of policing experience spanning frontline operations, leadership, community engagement, and organisational transformation. Awarded the Queen’s Police Medal for his outstanding service and contribution to improving diversity in policing, Dennis has dedicated his career to building trust, strengthening legitimacy, and fostering safer communities.   In this episode, Dennis reflects on his journey from growing up in Northamptonshire to becoming one of the UK's senior policing leaders. Drawing on his professional and personal experiences, he explores leadership, resilience, community trust, and the importance of positive role models in shaping the lives of boys and young men. The conversation examines how early experiences influence identity, the role of dialogue in overcoming division, and the importance of creating opportunities for young people to thrive.   The discussion also explores policing, diversity, mental wellbeing, and community partnerships, highlighting the need for empathy, listening, and meaningful engagement to build trust across society. Dennis shares practical insights on resilience, embracing challenges, celebrating progress, and supporting the next generation through mentorship, family, and community.   The episode concludes with reflections on leadership, responsibility, and the power of conversation in creating stronger communities and greater gender harmony.   You can connect with Dennis Murray via LinkedIn [https://uk.linkedin.com/in/dennis-murray-qpm-msc-npcc-lead-identification-and-trust-and-confidence-57476188?trk=public_post_feed-actor-name]. And also connect with the host, Susan Popoola, the CEO of Mosaic Fusions, a specialist in human value optimisation, via LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanpopoola]. Learn more about her work on her Mosaic Fusions website [https://www.mosaicfusions.com/susanpopoola]. And publications on Mosaic Gold Ltd [https://mosaicgold.org/].    This series of the podcast is produced by Rafiat Akinwande.   Keywords: MosaicWorld, MenInTodaysWorld, GenderHarmony, Men, MaleActualisation, Success, Fulfilment, Boys, Adolescent, Manosphere, Masculinity, PositiveMasculinity, MensWellBeing, YoungMen, HumanValue, SusanPopoola, DennisMurray, ThamesValleyPolice, Leadership, CommunityTrust, Resilience, Diversity, Mentorship, Policing     Chapters    00:00 Introduction to Dennis Murray's Journey 03:10 Growing Up in Corby: A Unique Perspective 07:19 Family Dynamics and Trust in Policing 11:23 Navigating Childhood: Then vs. Now 13:01 Empowering Young Boys: Choices and Opportunities 19:13 Resilience and Overcoming Adversity 22:13 Managing Pressure and Finding Trust 28:11 Defining Success: Personal Ambitions vs. Societal Expectations 29:40 Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs 31:24 The Journey to Leadership 32:59 The Importance of Failure and Support 33:50 Finding Balance in Life 36:46 The Impact of Loneliness and Isolation 38:31 Understanding Men's Emotional Needs 42:32 The Role of Fathers in Boys' Lives 46:29 Addressing Youth Disengagement 47:37 Community Interventions Against Knife Crime 51:35 Creating Gender Harmony Through Understanding 59:00 Outro

Being a Man in Today's World with Mark Brooks OBE

The "Leading in a Mosaic World" podcast, hosted by Susan Popoola, explores the realities of modern life through conversations with diverse voices and experiences. This episode forms part of a special series exploring the question: “What does it mean to be a man in today’s world?” through conversations with men from different backgrounds, professions, and cultures. The series contributes to the wider mission of creating Gender Harmony in a Mosaic World, a world where men are able to fully be themselves, live fulfilled lives, and add value to others. Today’s guest is Mark Brooks OBE, a leading policy advisor, campaigner, and advocate for men’s and boys’ wellbeing. Awarded an OBE in 2019 for services to gender equality, Mark serves as Director of Policy and Communications for the Centre for Policy Research on Men and Boys and holds advisory and leadership roles across organisations working in men's health, domestic abuse, education, and public policy. In this episode, Mark explores the changing experiences of boys and men, challenging stereotypes around masculinity while examining the social, educational, and economic issues affecting male wellbeing today. Drawing on decades of policy and advocacy work, he discusses the importance of positive role models, social mobility, mental health, and creating opportunities for boys and young men to thrive. The conversation also examines how class, ethnicity, education, and media narratives shape boys' experiences, highlighting the need for balanced conversations that recognise both challenges and strengths. Mark shares practical insights on mentorship, community engagement, policy reform, and the role society can play in improving outcomes for men and boys while contributing to greater gender harmony. You can connect with Mark Brooks via LinkedIn [https://uk.linkedin.com/in/mark-brooks-obe-4805376] and learn more about his work through the Centre for Policy Research on Men and Boys and the Mankind Initiative [https://mankind.org.uk/]. And also connect with the host, Susan Popoola, the CEO of Mosaic Fusions, a specialist in human value optimisation, via LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanpopoola]. Learn more about her work on her Mosaic Fusions website [https://www.mosaicfusions.com/susanpopoola]. And publications on Mosaic Gold Ltd [https://mosaicgold.org/].  This series of the podcast is produced by Rafiat Akinwande. Keywords: MosaicWorld, MenInTodaysWorld, GenderHarmony, Men, MaleActualisation, Success, Fulfilment, Boys, Adolescent, Manosphere, Masculinity, PositiveMasculinity, MensWellBeing, YoungMen, HumanValue, SusanPopoola, MarkBrooksOBE, CentreForPolicyResearchOnMenAndBoys, MankindInitiative, MensHealth, BoysEducation, MaleSuicidePrevention, DomesticAbuse, PublicPolicy Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Men's Issues 03:20 Mark's Early Life and Background 09:01 The Evolution of Boys' Experiences 20:01 Gender Assumptions and Boys 28:17 Creating a Positive Narrative for Boys 33:43 Understanding Working-Class Boys 40:46 The Crisis of Male Mental Health 44:45 Listening to Men's Experiences 45:43 The Joys of Being a Man 48:44 outro