Happy 30th Birthday Brian

Happy 30th Birthday Brian

In this deeply personal episode of Miilk It, Sofiamiia reflects on what would have been her cousin Brian's 30th birthday. More than just cousins, Brian and Sofiamiia grew up as best friends. Raised in a close-knit family where their mothers shared a special bond, the two spent much of their childhood side by side. When Brian was diagnosed with Ewing sarcoma, a rare and aggressive bone cancer, their lives changed forever. In this episode, Sofiamiia shares memories of Brian, the impact his diagnosis had on their family, and what it has been like navigating grief more than a decade after his passing. She opens up about the lasting nature of loss, the ways loved ones continue to shape us after they're gone, and the emotions that can resurface on milestone birthdays and meaningful anniversaries.

How I Quit Smoking Weed

This week, Sofiamiia gets real about quitting smoking and realizing it had become more than just a habit, it was an emotional crutch. From stress and loneliness to routines, identity, and self-soothing, she opens up about what actually surfaced when she removed the thing helping her avoid uncomfortable emotions. In this episode, Sofiamiia talks about the emotional side of THC addiction that people don’t discuss enough: the rituals, the triggers, the dopamine highs, and the grief that can come with letting go of a coping mechanism. She also shares what quitting taught her about emotional regulation, discipline, anxiety, and learning how to sit with herself without constantly reaching for a distraction. This episode is for anyone who’s ever used something, smoking, relationships, scrolling, drinking, food, validation, to avoid feeling what’s really underneath.

Mental Health & Healing

In this solo episode, Sofiamiia opens up about her personal experiences with mental health, grief, anger, depression, and the ongoing journey of learning how to cope in healthier ways. From therapy and journaling to friendships, music, movement, and everyday habits, she shares the tools that have genuinely helped her navigate difficult seasons of life. She also dives into the realities of how mental health can fluctuate over time, the impact social media has on emotional well-being, and why support systems matter more than people realize. This conversation is honest, educational, and deeply personal — created to remind listeners that they’re not alone in what they’re feeling. Whether you’re currently struggling, healing, or simply trying to better understand yourself and others, this episode is a reminder to give yourself grace and to lead with empathy.

Going Back to the U.S. After 4 Months in Mexico City

After four months in Mexico City, Sofiamiia returned to the U.S. for the first time and quickly realized how much had changed. In this episode, she reflects on reverse culture shock, noticing the difference in food and ingredients, reconnecting with family in Arizona, missing basketball culture, and the moment she realized Mexico City truly feels like home. She also shares what traveling internationally with Java has taught her and why city life feels more aligned than ever.

Signs Your Dog’s “Allergies” Might Be Something More

Sofiamiia shares her journey navigating her dog Java’s autoimmune disease, from early symptoms to diagnosis and ongoing treatment. If your dog has recurring skin issues, infections, or unexplained flare-ups, this episode will help you understand what to look for and how to advocate for better care.