170: The Psychology of Abuse: How It Starts and How It Spreads

172: The Secret to Showing Up Fully with Rachael Jane

In this 48-minute episode, I sit with Rachael Jane, international keynote speaker, TEDx presenter, three-time best-selling author, and founder of The Awakened School, for a powerful conversation about presence, visibility, and magnetic energy. Rachael shares how her work began with her own fear of being seen, and how healing that resistance transformed her life, relationships, and business. We explore the difference between performance and true embodiment, why so many of us slip into self-consciousness or overgiving, and how our energy field communicates before we even speak. Rachael breaks down her Unshakable Presence framework, including the five primary star codes that support deeper embodiment, receptivity, expression, liberation, and authenticity. She also shares practical insight on people-pleasing, saying no with clarity, staying grounded under pressure, and reclaiming your life force so you can feel safe, centered, and fully present in any room. If you’ve ever struggled with visibility, burnout, or feeling like you have to be “on” all the time, this conversation offers a fresh and empowering perspective on how to return home to yourself. To connect with Rachael Jane Click here for her website [https://rachael-jayne.com] Click here to watch her TEDx video  [https://www.ted.com/talks/rachael_jayne_groover_how_to_be_unshakeable_when_all_eyes_are_on_you] Click here to watch her videos on Youtube  [https://www.youtube.com/@Rachael-Jayne] Click here to follow her on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/rachaeljaynegroover/] Click here to follow her on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/RachaelJayneGroover] ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

171: Navigating the Loneliness Epidemic

In this 16-minute podcast, I unpack the growing loneliness epidemic and explore why so many people feel emotionally disconnected despite being more digitally connected than ever before.We dive into the 2023 U.S. Surgeon General’s report on loneliness, the science behind connection and co-regulation, attachment theory, vulnerability, and the nervous system’s need for emotional safety and belonging. I also explore the difference between fitting in versus true belonging, the loss of community and “third spaces” in modern life, and why many people today are surrounded by others yet still feel deeply alone. I share insights from Blue Zones research and how some of the world’s longest-living communities prioritize relationships, rituals, purpose, and interdependence as part of daily life, reminding us that connection is not just emotional, but biological. This episode is both compassionate and practical, offering gentle reminders and actionable ways to begin cultivating deeper, more authentic connection in a world that often encourages hyper-independence and emotional masking. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, unseen, or emotionally isolated lately, this conversation is a reminder that you are not broken and that healing often happens in safe relationships and community. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

170: The Psychology of Abuse: How It Starts and How It Spreads

In this 11-minute episode, I explore the critical difference between situational conflict and characterological abuse and why understanding that distinction can change lives. I break down how some relationships struggle because of poor regulation and unhealthy conflict patterns, while others are rooted in power, fear, coercion, and control. I also discuss how abuse often begins in childhood through victim-blaming messages many people don’t even realize they absorbed, such as being taught that if someone hurts you, it must be because you “caused” it.  From there, we examine how these same dynamics can scale beyond the home into workplaces, communities, and even governments. This episode is both educational and empowering: how to recognize dangerous patterns, when conflict can be healed, when safety must come first, and why abuse is never the victim’s fault.If you’ve ever questioned your reality, minimized harmful behavior, or wanted to better understand how power operates in relationships and society, this episode is for you. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

169: Should Couples Go To Bed Angry?

In this 12-minute episode, I unpack the common relationship advice that “good couples never go to bed angry”and offer a more nuanced, research-informed perspective. We explore what actually happens in the brain and body during conflict, including emotional flooding, the role of the amygdala, and why the prefrontal cortex goes offline when we’re overwhelmed. I also break down stonewalling; one of the Four Horsemen identified by John Gottman, and how it can often be a nervous system response rather than intentional disconnection. This episode walks you through how to take a healthy pause during conflict without damaging the relationship; including how to communicate that pause, use a code word when words feel hard to access, and the importance of following through to rebuild trust and emotional safety. I also share practical ways to self-regulate during conflict so you can return to the conversation from a more grounded, connected place. If you’ve ever felt pressure to resolve everything immediately, or struggled with shutting down or feeling shut out, this episode will help you navigate conflict in a way that protects both you and the relationship. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/minutesongrowth] Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/minutesongrowth] TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@minutesongrowth?_t=ZM-8vN9sPbUXwr&_r=1] More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com [https://www.minutesongrowth.com] This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

168: Healing Through Connection with Blaise Kennedy

In this episode, I sit with spiritual teacher, Blaise Kennedy, to explore Developmental Architecture; a relational, body-centered approach to healing and awakening. Blaise explains how presence and co-regulation (being with another who truly listens) accelerate healing, allowing stored developmental material to be felt, released, and integrated rather than replayed as triggers.  We discuss how trauma creates adaptive strategies of disconnection, and how consistent, attuned relationships can progressively rewrite those patterns. Blaise shares practical guidance for cultivating emotional awareness when you don’t have an ideal support system: cultivate curiosity, practice returning attention to the body, and seek fields of care that model safety. He clarifies why intellectual understanding isn’t enough and offers metaphors and simple practices to begin sensing your body history;from noticing where energy is held to tracing the source of recurring reactions. Whether you’re new to embodiment work or deepening an existing practice, this episode offers a clear roadmap for moving from self-reliance to interdependence and reclaiming your presence. To learn more about Blaise's work and to connect with him, click here [https://www.blaisekennedy.com/media-podcasts/minutesongrowth]