Missing Pieces
Sheila was born in Kansas in 1962 to Verma and Frank, growing up in a complex but ultimately stable family environment. Her mother, Verma, endured a difficult early life, including the disappearance of her father and a failed first marriage to a man named Dwayne. After her second husband, Frank—Sheila's biological father—struggled with alcoholism and infidelity, Verma divorced him and married a man named Don Smith. Don proved to be a dedicated stepfather who retired from the military to marry Verma, built a highly successful construction business, and provided the family with financial security in Mississippi. Sheila thrived in this environment; she was highly intelligent, ambitious, and sociable, eventually securing a job as a secretary at a law firm after high school. While she enjoyed her independent career and the fashionable lifestyle it afforded her, she was torn between pursuing a college education and her deep desire to find a husband and start a family.Allen, born in Oregon in 1955, had a drastically different and deeply chaotic upbringing. His parents, Sheldon and Karen, married secretly as teenagers but separated shortly after due to Sheldon prioritizing college and Karen's severe negligence. Karen blamed Allen for ruining her life, and as a child, Allen was constantly bounced between his grandparents, his aunt, and his parents' various new spouses. As a result of this unstable environment, Allen grew up to be a highly intelligent but manipulative individual with a severe temper, a habit of stealing, and a tendency to compulsively lie about his achievements, such as falsely claiming he studied at Stanford University.Before meeting Sheila, Allen had already been married twice, though he meticulously hid his dark past from his new acquaintances. His first marriage to a woman named Ellen lasted five years and was marked by severe physical abuse and extreme, controlling behavior. Shockingly, Allen forced Ellen to give up their first child for adoption and pressured her to terminate a second pregnancy because he simply did not want to be a father. He completely erased Ellen from his life story, later marrying his second wife, Mary, largely because a respectable family image appealed to his business partners. This second marriage also ended after Mary was forced to change her address and phone number to flee his controlling nature, abuse, and troubling infidelity.The two crossed paths in the fall of 1982 when a 27-year-old Allen visited the law firm where a 21-year-old Sheila worked to finalize his divorce from Mary. Allen, who owned a successful electronics store, immediately charmed Sheila with expensive dates and his charismatic, sharp business persona. He manipulated Sheila and her family by playing the victim, claiming his ex-wife was merely trying to steal his money. Sheila's family was completely captivated by him, viewing him as the absolute perfect son-in-law. Sheila's parents were so convinced by his charming facade that they invested their life savings into his new franchise business. Completely blind to his history of domestic abuse, his hidden first marriage, and his pathological lies, Sheila eagerly accepted his proposal and prepared to start a new life with him. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/missing-pieces--6886558/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/missing-pieces--6886558/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].
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