Nine To Five Club

The Lie We’ve All Been Sold About Success

8 min · 28 jun 2026
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We live in a world where everyone looks successful, but almost no one feels successful. And the reason is simple: We’ve confused self‑improvement with success. This is ruining people’s lives. Here’s the difference: Self‑improvement is inward.Success is outward. One changes who you are.The other changes how you’re seen. And when society cares more about the outward, the inward gets lost and confused, so let’s fix that. Self‑improvement and success often appear side‑by‑side, but they’re not the same. I first came across this idea in The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F\ [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA]ck* [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA], and it stuck with me because it exposes something most people simply ignore. Self‑improvement happens behind closed doors, through the people around you, the books you read, mentors, failures, and the lessons that reshape your values and mindset. Success, on the other hand, even though you can feel it, is measured externally, by metrics, milestones, and the scoreboard society hands you. Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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The Lie We’ve All Been Sold About Success

We live in a world where everyone looks successful, but almost no one feels successful. And the reason is simple: We’ve confused self‑improvement with success. This is ruining people’s lives. Here’s the difference: Self‑improvement is inward.Success is outward. One changes who you are.The other changes how you’re seen. And when society cares more about the outward, the inward gets lost and confused, so let’s fix that. Self‑improvement and success often appear side‑by‑side, but they’re not the same. I first came across this idea in The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F\ [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA]ck* [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA], and it stuck with me because it exposes something most people simply ignore. Self‑improvement happens behind closed doors, through the people around you, the books you read, mentors, failures, and the lessons that reshape your values and mindset. Success, on the other hand, even though you can feel it, is measured externally, by metrics, milestones, and the scoreboard society hands you. Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

28 jun 20268 min
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How to Build Multiple Income Streams

Mick [https://substack.com/profile/396948285-mick] and I went live. This conversation was about: * My story (Portugal to the UK). * Why I’ve always cared about independence. * What I learned from getting scammed young. * Why multiple income streams matter. * Cashflow is king. * Property as an asset and why mentorship matters. Join the Nine To Five Club if you work a 9-5 but know you’re meant for more. 👇🏽 If you’re working a 9–5 and you know there’s more in you, don’t wait for the perfect time. Start building with what you’ve got. My book, You’re More Than Your 9–5 [https://amzn.to/4uvTC4J], is the full framework behind this mindset. It’s for people who want to use their job as a tool, build in the background, and stop letting “fine” become their future. GET YOUR BOOK HERE [https://amzn.to/4uvTC4J] You don’t need to “quit your job” tomorrow. You need a strategy. Use the 9–5 as a tool in this period of your life. Build assets. Build skills. Build income streams. Protect your cashflow. Get around people who know what they’re doing. David Oliveira Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

15 jun 202659 min
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Multiple Income Streams: A Practical Guide to Building Wealth While Working a 9–5

What if the real goal of “multiple income streams” isn’t more money, but more options? In this conversation, David Oliveira sits down with Shalini to talk about what it actually takes to build financial freedom while still working a 9–5. They cover the mindset shift that changes everything, the difference between active income and assets, and why your environment can sabotage your ambition. You’ll hear: The moment David realised a 9–5 wouldn’t give the freedom he wanted. Property as a system (not a second job), and what “passive” really looks like in practice. Affiliate marketing and why “write once, get paid repeatedly” is so powerful. Investing basics. Long-term thinking, emotional discipline, and what David avoids (day trading, crypto, forex). Royalties and digital products. Some content disappears, and some generates income for years. Leverage done properly (people, skills, capital), without taking advantage. The “right rooms” principle. Why like-minded environments change your life faster than motivation ever will. A realistic way to think about your “freedom number” (and why comparison is a trap). Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

7 jun 20261 h 16 min
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Your life is “good enough”. That’s the problem.

Most people don’t hate their lives, and quite often, that’s actually the problem. When your life is “good enough”, you end up staying there forever. You have a job. You’re paying your bills. You’re surviving. You’re not falling apart. Some people might even say that you’re “doing well”. But are you? Inside, you might be thinking: There must be more than this. I am meant for more than this. You don’t need more motivation. You need a simple system to help you navigate these changes you want to make in your life. The 9–5 Freedom STEPS [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/p/95-freedom-steps] is built for people with a job, responsibilities, and a dream. It’s a simple but effective framework you can use to get out of the “good enough” life. If you don’t want a just “good enough” life, then learn and apply the 9–5 Freedom STEPS [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/p/95-freedom-steps]. Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

5 jun 202613 min