Rainbows and Unicorns

Rainbows and Unicorns

Love is not easy. I've spent years saying that it's a mountain climb, a marathon, and a lifelong commitment to choosing something better than hate. But in this episode, I want to flip the script just a little. We live in a time when outrage, division, and negativity seem to be everywhere. Hate can feel powerful. It can even feel good in the moment. But I want to suggest that we need something different. We need more beauty, more kindness, more laughter, more encouragement, and more reminders that this is still a wonderful world. Drawing inspiration from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Louis Armstrong, and simple acts of everyday generosity, I explore why love isn't just the heavy lifting. Sometimes love is the smile, the wave, the kind word, the unexpected cup of coffee, or the courage to tell someone, "I love you." If we're going to change the world one minute at a time, we need both the strength of love and the joy of love. That's what this conversation is all about.

Make them one

In this episode, I’m talking about something I believe with my whole heart: spirituality rooted in love should offer a vision for the world, not spend all its energy raging against it. Far too much modern faith has become a constant drumbeat of blame, fear, and outrage, and I believe we’ve lost sight of the central message Jesus actually gave us. I reflect on the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus’ prayer for unity in John 17, and what it means to become people who are recognized not for how loudly we condemn others, but for how deeply we love. I also talk about the damage done when faith communities obsess over who’s wrong instead of becoming a bright and healing presence in the world around them. This conversation wrestles with ego, shame, division, and the growing disconnect many people feel from organized religion. I share why I believe the church is losing its footing and why I think the answer is not more culture war rhetoric, but a return to love as the highest spiritual practice. Most of all, this episode is an invitation. An invitation to become people who carry light, kindness, unity, and beauty into a weary world. Love is not weakness. Love is the work. And I believe it’s still powerful enough to change lives, communities, and maybe even the world itself.

Biblical Love

I want to challenge you with what I believe is the greatest mountain climb in all of life: love. Not lightweight love. Not sentimental love. I’m talking about the kind of love that asks everything from us. The kind of love Paul writes about in 1 Corinthians 13 when he says faith, hope, and love remain, but the greatest of these is love. I spend time unpacking why I believe that chapter has far more to do with how we live together as human beings and communities than it does with weddings. I talk about my own relationship with scripture, why I treasure the Bible deeply, and why I also believe the Bible can become dangerous in the hands of angry and judgmental people. I share why I think Jesus calls us beyond simply being “biblical” and toward becoming people rooted in faith, hope, and radical love. Along the way, I reflect on Paul’s transformation on the road to Damascus, the importance of being willing to let go of certainty, and why love is the true measure of spiritual maturity. I talk about spiritual refugees, disappointment, discomfort, hope, and what it means to keep loving people even when it would be easier to pull away or condemn them. More than anything, this episode is an invitation. An invitation to slow down, breathe deeply, and remember that faith, hope, and love are still worth the risk. And that no matter what else happens in this world, love remains the greatest thing we have to offer each other.

We (humans) are the light of the world

This week, I want to ask you a question that has stayed with me for years. Jesus said, “You are the light of the world.” Well then, if we are the light of the world, why is everything so dark? That question became the doorway for this entire conversation. Not a conversation about blame or shame, but a conversation about what light is actually for. I believe we have often mistaken our role in the world. We have treated light like a weapon instead of a rescue mission. We shine it in people’s faces to expose them rather than upon their path to help them find their way home. I am convinced love is the true illumination. Love is the beam. Love is the North Star. And if darkness still surrounds us, perhaps it is because we have forgotten how to love well. In this episode, I talk about the difference between prosecutors and priests. Prosecutors expose wounds. Priests help heal them. I do not believe we are here to condemn a hurting world. I believe we are here to become radiant enough that people stumbling through fear, confusion, addiction, despair, and loneliness can finally see a path forward. I also spend time unpacking what I call the pervasive and ubiquitous inclusivity of a divine entrepreneurial love. A love that refuses exclusion. A love creative enough to meet humanity in all its complexity. A love willing to walk into the woods carrying light, not to shame the lost, but to bring them home. So take a deep breath with me. Inhale love. Exhale gratitude. And then get out there and do something beautiful. Let your presence light new light in the hearts of others. Because the world does not need more people flashing lights in each other’s eyes. The world needs people willing to illuminate the path.

Beauty

On this episode, I’m inviting you to slow down with me and think about something I believe we need now more than ever, and that is the power of beauty. Not surface beauty and not decoration, but the kind of beauty that grows out of a life grounded in love. I’ve come to believe that lesser values than love easily devolve into BS, and I’m just not willing to live that way anymore. We’re living in a moment shaped by division, anger, and a whole lot of finger pointing, and I don’t think rage is going to lead us anywhere worth going. Instead, I want to challenge you to join me in what I’m calling a beauty movement. A movement away from the ugly that’s getting done to death and toward the everyday practice of choosing love again and again. That means learning to live humanely with each other even when it’s hard. It means forgiving more than feels reasonable. It means resisting the pull to divide the world into us and them. And it may even mean letting ourselves grieve the condition of our times instead of trying to shout our way out of them. I truly believe the most beautiful thing we can do is love the people we meet today. Be present. Be kind. Let beauty shape your steps and your words and your choices. So let’s get up and go do something beautiful together, because oh baby ugly is getting done to death.