Not There Yet Podcast

S2:E1 - The Discipline of Staying

In this season 2 premiere, Phillip and Stephania discuss what it means to stay, even when things get tough and don't look the way you thought they would.

Episode 7 - Navigating the Holidays

Navigating the holidays with family can be full of memories; Phillip and Steph look back on how things were before and with marriage and kids. Join in the conversation and share your favorite holiday memories!

Episode 6 - Help! I'm an Introvert Married to an Extrovert!

Opposites attract, and then they have to figure out how to live together. In this episode, Phillip and Stephania share what it’s really like when one of you thrives on people and the other needs peace and quiet. From funny stories to honest lessons, they talk about learning to understand each other’s wiring, communicate better, and make space for both connection and calm because they’re not there yet, but they’re learning as they go.

Episode 5 - Fighting for Friendship in Marriage

Marriage isn’t just about love; it’s about friendship. In this episode, Phillip and Stephania talk about what it looks like to fight for friendship when life gets busy, stress creeps in, or connection feels distant. From laughter to honest moments, this is a real conversation about keeping your marriage grounded in friendship, even when you’re not there yet.

Episode 4 - Marriage: Should it be 50/50?

Phillip and Stephania discuss the concept of equality vs. equity in marriage. Does marriage always have to be an even 50/50 split?