3117: Is Holding a Grudge a Rational Thing To Do? by Keith Wilson of Keith Wilson Counseling on Conflict Resolution

3117: Is Holding a Grudge a Rational Thing To Do? by Keith Wilson of Keith Wilson Counseling on Conflict Resolution

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3117: Keith Wilson revisits his own advice that grudges should be abolished after reading a philosopher's argument that holding one can be perfectly rational. He walks through what anger is actually signaling, why it is a legitimate response to injustice, and where it starts to cost the person carrying it. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/is-holding-a-grudge-a-rational-thing-to-do-62f1609b75c6 [https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/is-holding-a-grudge-a-rational-thing-to-do-62f1609b75c6] Quotes to ponder: "Grudges begin in anger and retain many of the characteristics of that hot emotion." "Feeling angry is a useful indication that you're the victim of an injustice." "She says holding a grudge is a perfectly rational thing to do." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3116: 6 Steps to Help You Plan a Minimalist Wedding in One Week by Kat W. Jackson with NoSidebar on Wedding Planning

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3116: Kat W. Jackson shares the six steps she and her partner used to plan their entire wedding in one week on a very modest budget. From free venues and digital invitations to skipping gifts and going unplugged, she shows how cutting the extras can make the start of a marriage feel more personal rather than less. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/minimalist-wedding/ [https://nosidebar.com/minimalist-wedding/] Quotes to ponder: "I realized a traditional wedding wasn't for me and began toying with the idea of planning a minimalist wedding." "In spite of naysayers and doubters, our minimalist wedding was a smashing success!" "In order to avoid distracted and disengaged guests, make your wedding an unplugged affair." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3115: How Can A Parent Find Hope When Their Child Is Suffering? by Allison Carmen on Parenting Advice

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3115: Allison Carmen shares how her Philosophy of Maybe helped her hold on to hope in the weeks after her oldest daughter sustained a head injury. She explains why uncertainty can be a refuge rather than a threat, and how loosening our grip on one particular outcome leaves room for hope in the hardest parenting moments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.allisoncarmen.com/how-can-a-parent-find-hope-when-their-child-is-suffering/ [https://www.allisoncarmen.com/how-can-a-parent-find-hope-when-their-child-is-suffering/] Quotes to ponder: "Every parent would take all the pain and disappointment from their children in a minute as their own." "I found the courage to find the hope in the uncertainty that had proved so hard for me to handle." "My heart opens to every parent trying to do the best today for their child." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3114: Moms Without Value (Just a Mom) by Shawna Scafe of Simple on Purpose on Maternal Wellness

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3114: Shawna Scafe examines the mothers our culture applauds and the mothers it quietly dismisses, starting with that loaded little phrase, just a mom. She shares what it felt like to be called that after leaving her career, and makes the case that a mother's worth is not something anyone else gets to hand out. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/moms-without-value-just-a-mom/ [https://simpleonpurpose.ca/moms-without-value-just-a-mom/] Quotes to ponder: "It's a term that makes it socially acceptable to discreetly tear down the value of being a mother." "For modern moms there is little value put on being a stay at home mom, it's not enough." "You have to know that you are valuable as a mother no matter how mundane it may feel." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3113: What Is Your Role in Your Relationship? by Dr. Lisa Firestone of PsychAlive on Strong Partnerships

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3113: Dr. Lisa Firestone breaks down the parent-child dynamic that quietly drains love, respect, and attraction from a couple. She describes what parental and childish behavior actually looks like day to day, and offers relationship advice for meeting each other as equal adults instead of repeating the cycle. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/what-is-your-role-in-your-relationship/ [https://www.psychalive.org/what-is-your-role-in-your-relationship/] Quotes to ponder: "Very often, couples get into trouble when one person takes the role of a parent, and the other, the role of a child." "The goal, of course, should be equality in the relationship, with each person valuing the other's autonomy, individuality, and independence." "We need to start with compassion for ourselves." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]