3108: On Compassion Towards Our Children by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on Compassionate Parenting

3108: On Compassion Towards Our Children by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on Compassionate Parenting

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3108: Leo Babauta argues that the discipline most of us grew up with teaches children the opposite of compassion, and that modeling kindness at home is how the next generation learns it. He shares what drew him to non-coercive parenting and to the practice of finding a common preference, so that neither parent nor child has to lose. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/on-compassion-towards-our-children/ [https://zenhabits.net/on-compassion-towards-our-children/] Quotes to ponder: "What the friend needs is compassion, a gentle hug, a receptive ear, someone who understands and feels his pain and wants to end his suffering." "And yet when our children are upset, we often do the opposite: we do not listen or seek to understand or feel their pain or seek to end their suffering." "You do that by considering alternatives until you find an option that both parties are happy with." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3107: Why Can't He Just Cooperate? How To Handle Your Non-Compliant Child by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3107: Adina Soclof answers a mother whose son is the one child who will not clean up, and lays out eight calm responses that turn a power struggle into cooperation. She explains why non-compliant children are usually signaling a need to feel valued and in control, and how giving them the benefit of the doubt builds healthier relationships at home. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/why-cant-he-just-cooperate-how-to-handle-your-non-compliant-child/ [https://parentingsimply.com/why-cant-he-just-cooperate-how-to-handle-your-non-compliant-child/] Quotes to ponder: "You will always have that one child who likes to rock the boat." "It is always valuable to judge children favorably and reflect children's difficult feelings." "It is ironic but non-compliant children need more compassion, more patience and extra dose of sensitivity." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3106: [Part 2] Connect by Cultivating Chosen Family by Kristine Klussman on Meaningful Friendships

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3106: Kristine Klussman shares how to find and cultivate your chosen family, from setting a clear intention to including them in holidays and special occasions. It is heartfelt relationship advice for building the healthy relationships and sense of belonging that family by choice provides. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/connect-by-cultivating-chosen-family/ [https://www.kristineklussman.com/connect-by-cultivating-chosen-family/] Quotes to ponder: "Begin by opening your eyes, and cluing in to the people who give you the greatest sense of belonging." "There is no more sacred inner chamber to be invited into than births, deaths, and intimate family holidays." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3105: [Part 1] Connect by Cultivating Chosen Family by Kristine Klussman on Family Relationships

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3105: Kristine Klussman explains why biological family can be a source of pain and fixed roles, and how cultivating a chosen family of deeply trusted people offers the support we yearn for. Her relationship advice shows how healthy relationships built by choice can strengthen your well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/connect-by-cultivating-chosen-family/ [https://www.kristineklussman.com/connect-by-cultivating-chosen-family/] Quotes to ponder: "When we feel that our social support is lacking, we wither and suffer; when we feel supported by people close to us, we thrive." "Chosen family are the beloved people in your life with whom you share a deep trust, loyalty and mutual commitment." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

3104: Falling Out of Love and Addictive Behaviors AND Stress Coping Strategies For Your Relationship by Dr. Laura Dabney on Marriage Tips

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join [https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join] Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com [https://oldpodcast.com/]. Episode 3104: Dr. Laura Dabney reveals why the phrase "I love him, but I'm not in love" is often an excuse to avoid the work every marriage requires, and how real intimacy grows when couples put in that work. She also shares four common relationship traps that create stress and offers relationship advice for finding real resolutions with your partner. Read along with the original articles here: https://www.drldabney.com/article/not-in-love-anymore/ [https://www.drldabney.com/article/not-in-love-anymore/] and https://www.drldabney.com/article/stress-coping-strategies/ [https://www.drldabney.com/article/stress-coping-strategies/] Quotes to ponder: "Laying the groundwork for intimacy and love to grow takes a lot of work." "A marriage is not going to develop unless you put in some work." "Remember, you and your partner are not the same person you were five years ago, five days ago, or even five minutes ago." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and family, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]