Fiery Book Talk: Real Erotica from a Real Domme with BJ Frazier

Fiery Book Talk: Real Erotica from a Real Domme with BJ Frazier

In this dialogue, B.J. Frazier and Mistress Audry Lu Black explore the intricate relationship between writing and kink. They discuss the nuances of writing erotic literature and the tools available for effective communication in BDSM. The conversation concludes with reflections on the dynamics of domination and submission, highlighting the importance of understanding motivations and desires in both writing and relationships. The resources discussed today are the BDSM checklists and fun quizzes found at B.J. Frazier’s website https://www.bjfrazier.com [https://www.bjfrazier.com] B.J. has a special offer just for our listeners. She’s offering 25% off any book or audiobook on her site, bjfrazier.com [http://bjfrazier.com]. Just enter the Coupon Code P4P25 at checkout now through July 8. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy, Dahlia, Wisteria, and Lavender; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Hard Wood with Hellbent Hardware

In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audrey Lu Black interviews Bran Hellbent, a skilled carpenter and woodworker with a lifetime of experience. They explore the aesthetics, functionality, and craftsmanship behind BDSM tools, emphasizing the importance of quality and personalization. They explore the design process and safety considerations. Bran details the pieces he has designed to create adaptable items for kinksters with disabilities. They also touch on the impact of mainstreaming BDSM and the value of investing in well-crafted equipment. They share insights on navigating the kink community and the joy of creating and using unique BDSM instruments. Content Warning: Blood play Fetlife: @BranHellbent Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia, Poppy and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Therapy for the Sex Positive and Kink Informed with Dr. Sam and Dr. G

Therapy for the Sex-Positive and Kink-Informed In this engaging conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black sits down with Dr. Sam and Dr. G to talk about sex-positive, kink-informed therapy. They compare finding a therapist to the dynamics of dating: finding the right fit and continuing to explore the relationship. They discuss what red flags to look for, including consent and ethical boundaries. Resources: https://planetmidori.com/ [https://planetmidori.com/] RACK – (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is a prominent safety and ethical framework primarily used in the BDSM and kink communities. It posits that because no sexual activity is completely risk-free, participants must be fully informed, take personal responsibility for those risks, and negotiate continuous consent. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Poppy, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

Leather-Clad Consent with Kol

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and Kol discuss the importance of community-owned education in the BDSM and leather communities. They explore the role of consent classes, the significance of non-verbal communication, and the impact of online communities. The discussion also touches on the rich history and values of the leather community. They emphasize the need for inclusivity, community support, and the importance of navigating personal boundaries in BDSM practices. Featured toy/resource: Whiteboard and dry-erase marker FRIES Model – Freely Given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, and Specific Leather Archives Documentary https://vimeo.com/1012894808 [https://vimeo.com/1012894808] Leather Archives and Museum Article https://www.them.us/story/the-registry-chicago-leather-museum [https://www.them.us/story/the-registry-chicago-leather-museum] Leather History Timeline from The Leather Archives & Museum https://leatherarchives.org/history [https://leatherarchives.org/history] How the Leatherdykes helped change feminism https://ncsfreedom.org/2017/05/07/how-the-leatherdykes-helped-change-feminism/ [https://ncsfreedom.org/2017/05/07/how-the-leatherdykes-helped-change-feminism/] On Leather Values from the Carter/Johnson Library https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/about-leather [https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/about-leather] Leather as Radical Kinship - A Leather Title Holder’s Story on PBS NPR Connecticut https://www.ctpublic.org/news/2024-06-26/connecticut-leather-lgbtq-pride [https://www.ctpublic.org/news/2024-06-26/connecticut-leather-lgbtq-pride] Leather Underground Magazine https://www.houstonlgbthistory.org/Houston80s/Assorted%20Pubs/Club%20Scene-Los%20Angeles%20794-Niebur/ClubScene12-83.compressed.pdf [https://www.houstonlgbthistory.org/Houston80s/Assorted%20Pubs/Club%20Scene-Los%20Angeles%20794-Niebur/ClubScene12-83.compressed.pdf] Leather Values Demystified https://theflamestribune.com/article-categories/education.html [https://theflamestribune.com/article-categories/education.html] Education Portland Leather Alliance Linktree https://linktr.ee/portland_leather [https://linktr.ee/portland_leather] Consent, Negotiation, and Dungeon Etiquette for Neurodivergent folks https://fetlife.com/groups/179987 [https://fetlife.com/groups/179987] The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom https://ncsfreedom.org/ [https://ncsfreedom.org/] PLA https://www.portlandleather.org/ [https://www.portlandleather.org/] THRIVE virtual BDSM and Mental Health Conference https://thrivevirtualcon.com/ [https://thrivevirtualcon.com/] Credits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren, Sunflower, Poppy and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

From Power Lifting to Power Exchange: Training with Goddess Aroya Lessons

Mistress AudryLu Black and Goddess Aroya Lessons examine the intersections of BDSM practice, podcasting, and personal evolution. Their discussion navigates pop culture's influence on identity and relationship dynamics within power exchange. They explore the balance between training and domination and the value of being correctable in leadership. The conversation extends to positioning in dominance and the liberation of authentic self-expression, while addressing community safety practices, and their 'Build to Serve' bootcamp integrating fitness with BDSM elements. A munch is a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in kink, BDSM, fetishes, or alternative relationship lifestyles. Shoe cleaner, tactile brush for sensation play. Build to Serve Bootcamp is a space intentionally created to help submissives build structure, discipline, devotion, and a deeper understanding of service. It focuses on mindset, obedience, presentation, consistency, and practical tools that support personal growth within power exchange. Elevate and Dommenate podcast: Goddess Aroya Lessons and Orpheus Black dive into the captivating world of alternative dominance. From exploring intentional dom-sub relationships to helping newbies navigate the pro/lifestyle Dom(me) world, this podcast is your invitation to an empowering and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms. https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pxDCyLJiqWE24v9rYy2u9?si=77304216fbe44e47 [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5pxDCyLJiqWE24v9rYy2u9?si=77304216fbe44e47] Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.