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Attraction Isn’t Always Truth—Sometimes It’s Trauma in a Hoodie

10 min · 14 okt 2025
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That spark you're feeling? It might not be fate, it might be a trauma response. In this powerful episode of Red Flag Radio, Angelina dives into the psychology of attraction and why we sometimes confuse deep chemistry with emotional danger. From trauma reenactment and attachment wounds to the difference between activation and alignment, this episode explores how our past experiences shape who we’re drawn to, and how to tell the difference between healthy love and familiar dysfunction. Learn how to pause, reflect, and stop mistaking intensity for intimacy. If you’ve ever said, “But we had such a connection…” only to end up anxious, confused, or heartbroken — this one’s for you. 🛑 New episodes every Tuesday.

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