Andis Solomon on Polyamory, Communication, and Turning Consent into dirty talk

Consent + DNVC with Meenadchi

Meenadchi is a somatic healing practitioner, TEDx speaker, and communications word-nerd whose work centers social change and embodied transformation. Her work supports socially conscious organisations and changemakers in developing clear and intentional communication that prioritises the intuitive wisdom of our bodies along with our ability to build bridges across difference with empathy and dignity. She is the author of Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication [https://co-conspirator.press/Decolonizing-Non-Violent-Communication] (2019) and a faculty member with the Trauma of Money. We are offering a class together called Consent + DNVC: Navigating Rupture and Repair [/consentanddnvc]. That starts April 13. Subscribe on Substack [https://consentwizardry.substack.com] for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes [https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration], recorded classes [https://consentwizardry.thinkific.com/], workbooks [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Workbooks], and merch [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Merch] from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong [https://pod.link/1708436950] with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria [https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV]. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema [https://erikalust.com] to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. [https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Plot driven feature lengths. [https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Soft stuff. [https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Advertise on the pod. [http://consentwizardry.com/advertise-on-share-the-load-podcast] Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry [https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/] and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com [https://consentwizardry.com/] Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

Consent + Creativity

I wrote a speech! Subscribe on Substack [https://consentwizardry.substack.com] for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes [https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration], recorded classes [https://consentwizardry.thinkific.com/], workbooks [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Workbooks], and merch [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Merch] from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong [https://pod.link/1708436950] with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria [https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV]. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema [https://erikalust.com] to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. [https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Plot driven feature lengths. [https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Soft stuff. [https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Advertise on the pod. [http://consentwizardry.com/advertise-on-share-the-load-podcast] Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry [https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/] and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com [https://consentwizardry.com/] Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

Andis Solomon on Polyamory, Communication, and Turning Consent into dirty talk

Andis Solomon is a film director, editor, and my partner :) Subscribe on Substack [https://consentwizardry.substack.com] for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes [https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration], recorded classes [https://consentwizardry.thinkific.com/], workbooks [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Workbooks], and merch [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Merch] from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong [https://pod.link/1708436950] with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria [https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV]. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema [https://erikalust.com] to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. [https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Plot driven feature lengths. [https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Soft stuff. [https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Advertise on the pod. [http://consentwizardry.com/advertise-on-share-the-load-podcast] Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry [https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/] and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com [https://consentwizardry.com/] Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

Mia interviews Kai Cheng Thom on What Consent Is Not

Kai Cheng Thom is a writer, performance artist, and community healer in Toronto. She is the author of the novel Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir Metonymy Press), the essay collection I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes at the End of the World(an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book), the poetry collection a place called No Homeland (an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book in 2018), and the children's picture books From the Stars in the Sky to the Fish in the Sea, illustrated by Kai Yun Ching and Wai-Yant Li, and For Laika, the Dog Who Learned the Names of the Stars, illustrated by Kai Yun Ching. Kai Cheng won the Writers' Trust of Canada's Dayne Ogilvie Prize for LGBTQ Emerging Writers in 2017. Subscribe on Substack [https://consentwizardry.substack.com] for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes [https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration], recorded classes [https://consentwizardry.thinkific.com/], workbooks [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Workbooks], and merch [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Merch] from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong [https://pod.link/1708436950] with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria [https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV]. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema [https://erikalust.com] to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. [https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Plot driven feature lengths. [https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Soft stuff. [https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Advertise on the pod. [http://consentwizardry.com/advertise-on-share-the-load-podcast] Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry [https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/] and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com [https://consentwizardry.com/] Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

Mia interviews jo + bahar on Kink, BDSM, and Creativity

bahar (they/them) is an Iranian, queer, trans, non-binary Intimacy Coordinator + bike mechanic based in NYC. Their background in theater and acting often explored themes of gender and sexuality, paving the way to their role as a Sex Educator & Consultant. They are passionate about biking, karaoke, and tinned fish. bahar is on IG @baharloo.intimacy [https://www.instagram.com/baharloo.intimacy] and jo Valdés is always doing the most, to say the least. They’re a queer, nonbinary, Afrolatinx writer, sexpert, intimacy coordinator, cultural worker, foodie, barista and sometimes DJ. They have an absolute obsession with kink, BDSM, leather, etcetera. They’ve recently been published in Condé Nast’s Them and Our Time Press. Right now, they are working on a pilot about the queer underground in NYC as well as a nerdy book about kink and neuroplasticity. jo is currently based in Flatbush, Brooklyn. They were born and bred in the Boogie Down Bronx so they rep the Yankees really hard even though they don’t know shit about baseball. They can be found at letstalkaboutsexbaby.com [https://letstalkaboutsexbaby.com] and on IG @tell_you_what. [https://www.instagram.com/tell_you_what] Subscribe on Substack [https://consentwizardry.substack.com] for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes [https://consentwizardry.com/course-registration], recorded classes [https://consentwizardry.thinkific.com/], workbooks [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Workbooks], and merch [https://consentwizardry.com/consent-boundary-classes-workshops-merchandise?category=Merch] from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong [https://pod.link/1708436950] with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria [https://www.foriawellness.com/MIAS20-DHV]. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema [https://erikalust.com] to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. [https://xconfessions.com/sign-up/20-off?tap_a=9336-3ce2d0&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=XC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Plot driven feature lengths. [https://lustcinema.com/sign-up/20-off-u62wjj2eja/?tap_a=33084-98de6a&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=LC&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Soft stuff. [https://elsecinema.com/sign-up/20-off-aff?tap_a=9335-a3db5d&tap_s=4061633-f76fb0&utm_campaign=EF&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=tapfiliate] Advertise on the pod. [http://consentwizardry.com/advertise-on-share-the-load-podcast] Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry [https://www.instagram.com/consent.wizardry/] and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com [https://consentwizardry.com/] Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.