Summer of Me

Finding Companionship in Unexpected Places

This week, Kendra is talking about companionship, reflecting on her personal journey from loneliness to finding solace and connection beyond romantic partners. She emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and the significance of fostering deep relationships with friends and family. Kendra talks about overcoming fears of loneliness, the necessity of facing it head-on, and the growth that comes from embracing solitude. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to Companionship 00:15 The Struggle with Loneliness 01:22 Finding Solace in Being Alone 02:38 Beyond Romantic Relationships 04:48 The Importance of Community 06:36 Redefining Companionship 10:22 Practical Tips for Overcoming Loneliness 13:45 Final Thoughts and Takeaways LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ [https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/] Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe [https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe] Produced by SocialPodcast.co [http://socialpodcast.co]

Micro-Abandonments: What They Are and How to Overcome Them

Today, Kendra is exploring the concept of microabandoning: the small, repeated decision to overlook your own needs. She explains how this can lead to full self-abandonment, causing significant emotional and physical stress. Kendra gives strategies for combating micro-abandonments, and encourages listeners to choose themselves by making small, intentional decisions to prioritize their own needs and well-being, aiming for a more fulfilling and balanced life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Welcome to the Summer of Me 00:25 Introducing the Substack Community 01:08 Understanding Micro Abandonment 04:54 Defining Micro Abandonment 05:42 Self-Silencing Behaviors 09:45 Minimizing Your Feelings 12:07 Shrinking to Keep Others Comfortable 13:31 Embracing Uniqueness and Rejecting Conformity 14:34 The Trap of Over-Functioning 16:00 Listening to Your Body's Signals 17:35 Unmet Needs and Emotional Starvation 19:39 Psychological Drivers of Self-Abandonment 21:24 Micro Choosing Yourself: Steps to Self-Rediscovery 26:33 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ [https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/] Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe [https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe] Produced by SocialPodcast.co

5 Signs You've Disappeared, and How to Find Yourself Again

Feeling lost, but you aren't sure what steps to take to find yourself again? In this episode, Kendra shares some signs of self-abandonment and her best tips for getting back on track. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-worth, and identifying your desires, even if they differ from societal norms and expectations. Kendra encourages women to recognize their worth and establish anchors to realign and live a more fulfilling life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast 00:50 Signs You've Disappeared 03:54 You Don't Know What You Want 06:44 Performing the Expected Version of Yourself 11:00 Feeling Numb or Just Fine 13:34 Outsourcing Your Self-Worth 17:31 Your Life Runs, but You Don't 19:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ [https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/] Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe [https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe] Produced by SocialPodcast.co [http://socialpodcast.co]

Divorce Hot Takes and Silver Linings

In this episode of the Summer of Me, Kendra deep dives into the unexpected and often overlooked positive parts of divorce. From the freedom to eat and buy whatever you want, to having the bed to yourself, Kendra shares her personal silver linings and encourages listeners to embrace their new chapter. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to the Silver Linings of Divorce 00:54 Underrated Freedoms 02:20 Sleeping 03:08 Home Cleanliness 04:28 Remote Control Freedom 05:13 Shopping 05:54 Decorating 06:13 Embracing Sadness 06:56 Conclusion: Embracing the Single Life LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co

Becoming Magnetic: Understand the Laws of Attraction and Master Your Self-Worth

This week, Kendra is talking all about becoming magnetic and playing the main character role in your life. She explains the law of attraction and attachment theory, particularly in the context of dating. Kendra shares practical advice, like labeling emotional triggers, redirection responses, and maintaining your self-worth. This episode emphasizes the importance of centering yourself to attract healthier relationships. Kendra discusses how cognitive bias can influence our behaviors and provides valuable insights into self-love and self-prioritization, highlighting how they can transform your life. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Introduction to Magnetic Attraction 00:09 Understanding the Law of Attraction 00:29 Applying Attraction in Dating and Relationships 01:43 Dealing with Anxiety and Attachment 03:53 The Psychology Behind Attachment 08:30 Becoming the Main Character in Your Life 17:10 Practical Tips for Staying Grounded 20:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts LINKS: Follow Kendra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrafornow/ Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SummerofMe Produced by SocialPodcast.co