Episode 120: Celebrate Anyways

Episode 120: Celebrate Anyways

Celebrate Anyways | The Cancer Journey Podcast | Episode 120What does it actually mean to celebrate when you're in the middle of something this hard?Celebration and cancer don't seem like they belong together. But at the Cancer Journey Institute, celebration is a tool, not just a feeling. In Episode 120, Shariann and Alicia make the case for why it matters more on a cancer journey than anywhere else — and what it looks like in practice when you're exhausted, still processing, and not sure you've earned it yet.This conversation covers what celebration actually is, why we skip it even when things are good, and what it looks like to practice it in small, real, everyday ways — even when you're exhausted, even when the milestone doesn't feel the way you thought it would.Topics covered in this episode:• Why celebration feels out of place on a cancer journey and why that's worth questioning• Celebration as a tool at CJI, not just an emotion• Why we move on too fast and what we lose when we do• The difference between expansive and constricting emotions• Why people are often more uncomfortable with joy than with struggle• Pottery, weeding the garden, and the small joys worth savoring• How a coach notices and amplifies the celebratory moments you'd otherwise skip• Why big celebrations can feel heavy and what actually feels like recognition• Two birthdays: what it means to mark the day of rebirth after treatment• Celebration as a way of honoring your growth and becoming• What's one thing you want to celebrate today?#CancerJourney #CancerJourneyPodcast #CelebrationChapters: 0:00 Welcome and PESH check-in 1:30 Why celebration matters on a cancer journey 4:00 Celebration as a tool at CJI 7:00 Why we skip the good moments and move straight to what's next 10:30 The discomfort of expansive emotions 13:30 Pottery, weeding, and small joys worth savoring 17:00 How a coach amplifies the moments you'd otherwise miss 20:30 Why big celebrations can fall flat and what actually feels like recognition 24:00 Two birthdays: marking rebirth after treatment 27:00 Closing takeaways and PESH check-out

Episode 119: The 2am Spiral

The 2am Spiral | The Cancer Journey Podcast | Episode 119Nobody tells you that the hardest part of a cancer diagnosis isn't the diagnosis itself.It's the noise that comes after. The urgent need to understand everything, decide everything, control something. Anything. The internet spiral at 2am. The feeling that if you just push hard enough, you'll get ahead of it.In this episode, Shariann shares what that frenzy actually felt like after her own diagnosis. And why going faster made everything harder, not easier.She and Alicia talk about what slowing down really means when the stakes are this high. Not deep breaths and moving softer. The kind of slowing down that takes real courage when everything in you is wired to go.One of our coaches said it best: "This is urgent. I must slow down."If that lands for you, this episode is yours.New episodes every week. Subscribe so you don't miss one.Learn more about Cancer Journey Coaching at thecancerjourney.com [http://thecancerjourney.com/]━━━━━━━━━━━━━━TIMESTAMPS━━━━━━━━━━━━━━00:05 Introduction and PESH Check-In01:49 What Slowing Down Really Means03:35 Instant Gratification and the Pressure to Figure Things Out Fast05:10 Learning Italian and the Cancer Journey Connection06:45 Forcing Understanding vs Letting It Come08:26 When Cancer Is in the Room and Urgency Takes Over10:38 Feeling Betrayed by Your Body12:41 The Negative Ego Always Finds More to Do14:47 The Gift You Can't See16:17 Divine Timing and Pushing the Boulder17:07 What Are You Waiting For20:17 Why the Certification Takes Eight Months21:49 When a Tool Doesn't Land Right Away22:58 Slowing Down to Actually Connect24:28 Slowing Down as an Act of Care and Trust25:13 Closing PESH Check-In and Final Words━━━━━━━━━━━━━━CONNECT WITH US━━━━━━━━━━━━━━Website: thecancerjourney.com [http://thecancerjourney.com/]Instagram: @thecancerjourneyFacebook: The Cancer Journey Institute#CancerJourney #CancerJourneyPodcast #SlowingDown #CancerSupport #CancerCoach #LivingFullyNow

Episode 118: Facing the Chapter That Feels Like an Ending

Facing the Chapter That Feels Like an Ending | The Cancer Journey Podcast | Episode 118Life is fragile. We say that a lot in this work. This week, we recorded from inside it.Someone in our community got news that the medical system has done all it can. We felt that with them. This episode came the next day.In this conversation, we talk about what it actually means to face mortality on a cancer journey. Why it's so hard to say the real things when the people around you need you to stay positive. What Shariann found when she went looking for somewhere safe to talk about dying and kept coming up empty. Why lived experience and trained capacity aren't the same thing, and why both matter. How Cancer Journey Coaches walk with clients through every chapter, including the ones that feel like an ending. What it means to be attached to this life and sit with the fear of losing it.This is the kind of conversation that doesn't happen enough. We hope it gives you somewhere to put some of what you've been carrying.New episodes every week. Subscribe so you don't miss one.Learn more about Cancer Journey Coaching at thecancerjourney.com━━━━━━━━━━━━━━TIMESTAMPS━━━━━━━━━━━━━━00:00 Introduction and PESH Check-In03:48 When Someone in Our Community Gets Hard News07:30 Walking With Clients Through Every Chapter10:38 Making Space for Our Own Experience12:17 Why Shariann Started the Cancer Journey Institute16:00 Looking for Somewhere to Talk About Dying20:52 How a Coach Reflects You Back to Yourself22:10 Attachment and What Goodbye Really Means23:33 Choosing How to Spend the Time You Have27:10 Closing PESH Check-In and Final Words━━━━━━━━━━━━━━CONNECT WITH US━━━━━━━━━━━━━━Website: thecancerjourney.comInstagram: @thecancerjourneyFacebook: The Cancer Journey Institute#CancerJourney #CancerJourneyPodcast #FragilityOfLife #CancerSupport #CancerCoach #LivingFullyNow

Episode 117: Confusion Is a Signal, Not a Flaw

Confusion Is a Signal, Not a Flaw | Cancer Journey Podcast | Episode 117 Confusion on a cancer journey isn't a sign that something is wrong with you. It's a signal, and learning to read it instead of fighting your way out of it can change the whole experience of being in it. In Episode 117, Shariann and Alicia explore what confusion and lack of clarity actually feel like on a cancer journey, why the instinct to do more doesn't fix what's happening underneath, and what willingness really means when you're trying to find your footing again. This is a candid, unscripted conversation that models exactly what it's talking about: two people processing in real time, finding their way back to themselves through the fog. Topics covered in this episode: * What confusion feels like and why it shows up so often on a cancer journey * The plan on top versus the emotional experience underneath * Why doing more doesn't fix what's going on at a deeper level * The difference between doing and being * Information overload and why chasing optimal health can make things worse * Willingness as the key to getting out of the pit * What it means to let something go when you don't know what that is yet * Coming back to the present: what do I need, what do I want * Why confusion means something still matters to you * The fog lifts on its own when you stop forcing it #CancerJourney #CancerJourneyPodcast #CancerSupport Chapters: 0:00 Welcome and PESH check-in1:30 What confusion feels like: messy, unstable, swirly4:00 The plan on top and the emotional experience underneath8:00 Why doing more doesn't reach what's actually struggling12:00 Information overload and chasing optimal health16:00 Willingness as the real key to getting unstuck20:00 Coming back to the present: what do I need right now23:30 Confusion as a signal that something still matters26:30 Closing takeaways and PESH check-out

Episode 116: Why the End of Treatment Feels So Complicated

Why the End of Treatment Feels So Complicated | The Cancer Journey Podcast | Episode 116The end of cancer treatment should feel like everything you've been waiting for. And sometimes it does. But a lot of the time, it feels anticlimactic, disorienting, or even empty , and almost nobody talks about that.In Episode 116, Shariann and Alicia dig into the experience of endings: what the drop after treatment feels like, why the wide open space of "what's next" can be so overwhelming, and how to move through this transition with more gentleness and intention.This conversation draws on the Cancer Journey Roadmap and the real, lived experience of what it means to finish something enormous and not know who you are on the other side.Topics covered in this episode:• Why ringing the bell can feel anticlimactic• The drop after endings and why it happens• Losing the structure, rhythm, and care team all at once• There is no going back to normal, only a new reality• The lull after treatment and what it's asking of you• The retirement analogy: why freedom can feel untethered• What happens to all the emotions suppressed during treatment• Why play and small joys matter especially in this transition• The Cancer Journey Roadmap and the pit after endings• What do you want? The biggest question after treatment ends• How a Cancer Journey coach helps you find yourself again#CancerJourney #CancerJourneyPodcast #CancerSupportChapters: 0:00 Welcome and PESH check-in 1:30 Endings at CJI: certification and fundamentals groups 3:00 The bittersweet feeling of endings on a cancer journey 5:30 Ringing the bell and why it can feel anticlimactic 8:30 Losing the structure and care team after treatment 11:30 There is no normal anymore — only the new reality 14:30 The retirement analogy: freedom that feels untethered 17:30 Play and small joys as anchors in the transition 20:30 The anger and grief that comes out after treatment ends 23:00 What do you want? The excavation that comes next 26:00 How a Cancer Journey coach holds this turning point 28:00 Closing takeaways and PESH check-out