The Tale of Perimenopause, Part Two

The Tale of the Rectal Cancer

Tina’s Story In this episode, Margaret and Nicole share Tina’s story — a journey that begins with quiet symptoms, everyday discomfort, and the kind of gut feelings most people brush aside. What starts as something small becomes a path no one expects: rectal cancer. Through Tina’s voice and lived experience, this episode reveals the truth behind a diagnosis that is often hidden or misunderstood. Listeners follow Tina through the early signs, the appointments that didn’t add up, the moment everything changed, and the emotional storm that comes with hearing the word “cancer.” She opens up about the scans, the procedures, the fear, the determination, and the strange mix of vulnerability and strength that shows up when your body becomes a battleground. But Tina’s story isn’t just medical — it’s deeply human. It’s about advocating for yourself when you feel dismissed, navigating a system that doesn’t always listen, and finding resilience in places you didn’t know existed. It’s about the people who show up, the ones who don’t, and the way life shifts in an instant. This episode is raw, compassionate, and unfiltered. It shines a light on a cancer that rarely gets talked about and honors Tina’s courage in telling the truth about what it really feels like to live through it. If you have a story you would like to share, email us at thedismissedwoman@gmail.com or send us a DM on Facebook or Instagram.

The Tale of the Missed Warning Signs

In this episode, Margaret and Nicole share two stories that hit close to home — one from a listener, and one from Margaret’s own family — about what happens when women’s symptoms are brushed aside, minimized, or dismissed altogether. The episode opens with a listener’s journey: months (or years) of unexplained symptoms, repeated appointments, and the familiar chorus of “It’s probably stress,” “You’re overreacting,” or “Your labs look fine.” Her story takes a turn only when she finally meets a provider willing to dig deeper — uncovering a serious condition that had been there all along. Then Margaret shares something personal: her mom’s experience of being dismissed by doctors despite clear signs that something was wrong. The fear, the frustration, the self‑doubt, and the eventual relief when someone finally listened. It’s a story about persistence, intuition, and the emotional toll of fighting for care in a system that too often overlooks women’s pain. Together, these stories shine a light on a pattern far too many women recognize — and they open a conversation about advocacy, intuition, and what it really takes to get answers. This episode is validating, eye‑opening, and a reminder that being believed can change everything. If you have a story you would like to share, please message us on social media or email us at thedismissedwoman@gmail.com

The Tale of Fear: Pregnancy & A Doctor Who Wouldn't Listen

Pregnancy is often portrayed as predictable and glowing—but for millions of women, it’s anything but. In this episode, Nicole and Margaret confront the reality of pregnancy complications and the systemic issues that leave many women misdiagnosed, dismissed, or unsupported. They discuss the warning signs that should never be ignored, the gaps in maternal healthcare, and the urgent need for better education and advocacy. This is a powerful, truth‑telling conversation for anyone who believes women deserve real information and real care. Thank you to Tiffany for sharing your story! If you would like to tell us your story and have us share it on our podcast, email us at thedismissedwoman@gmail.com. Or you can send us a message on any of our socials! Just search for The Dismissed Woman!

The Tale of Perimenopause, Part Two

In Part 2 of our perimenopause series, Nicole and Margaret go beyond the basics and dig into the real‑life patterns women experience during this hormonal transition. They break down how fluctuating estrogen and progesterone affect everything from histamine and inflammation to sleep, mood, and energy. They explore why symptoms seem to “stack” in certain phases of the cycle, why some days feel impossible, and how to recognize the difference between normal hormonal shifts and signs that something else might be going on. This episode is packed with clarity, compassion, and the science women deserve to understand. Send us your story and we will add it to one of our episodes: thedismissedwoman@gmail.com The Menopause Society | Homepage [https://menopause.org/]Home - National Menopause Foundation [https://nationalmenopausefoundation.org/]

The Tale of Perimenopause, Part One

Perimenopause affects millions of women, yet the symptoms are often dismissed, minimized, or misdiagnosed. In this episode, Nicole and Margaret challenge the silence surrounding this life stage and dive into the real physical and emotional changes women face. They explore how fluctuating hormones impact everything from mood to inflammation to sleep, why so many women feel blindsided, and what needs to change in the medical system. This is an episode for every woman who’s ever been told “it’s normal” when she knew something deeper was happening.We purposely left the "bloopers" in this episode so you can see, in real time, how perimenopause affects us. If you have any of these symptoms and want us to talk about them in Part 2, please email us at thedismissedwoman@gmail.com!