The Hardcore Therapist

The Hardcore Therapist 138- Travis Shettel- Piebald

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/fan_mail/new] Today’s guest is Travis Shettel from Piebald; a band that, for a lot of us, wasn’t just music… it was something we felt. And right now is actually a perfect time to have him on, with the recent Iodine Recordings reissue of We Are the Only Friends We Have, a record that really captured that mix of humor, vulnerability, and raw honesty that defined that era. Piebald lived in that space between connection and chaos and if you were paying attention, they were teaching you something about being human long before you had the language for it. So today we’re getting into that identity, staying authentic over time, and what it means to grow up in a scene that doesn’t let you stay the same… and how that shows up in your life now. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/support]

The Hardcore Therapist 137.5- Why You Feel More Attached After Sex — And How to Stay Aligned With Your Values

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/fan_mail/new]  Why does it feel like everything shifts after sex? In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, we break down why emotional attachment can intensify after physical intimacy—and why that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. We’re talking about what’s actually happening in your brain and body (including the role of oxytocin and dopamine), how vulnerability and context shape connection, and why uncertainty can make attachment feel even stronger. More importantly, we get into how to stay grounded in your values so you don’t lose yourself in the process. If you’ve ever found yourself: * Overthinking after intimacy * Questioning what it meant * Feeling more attached than you expected * Or trying to figure out if they feel the same This episode will help you understand what’s happening—and how to respond in a way that keeps you aligned with yourself. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/support]

The Hardcore Therapist 137- Shi (SCARBORO)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/fan_mail/new] In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist Podcast, Sarah sits down with Shi (pronounced “Shur”), guitarist, vocalist, and songwriter for the New York City punk band SCARBORO. For over a decade, SCARBORO has been part of the modern NYC hardcore and punk scene, blending melodic hardcore energy with raw, honest lyrics about mental health, resilience, activism, and the realities of adulthood within punk culture. Shi shares the story behind the band, the evolution of the New York punk scene, and how music can become a space to process identity, struggle, and personal growth. The conversation dives into the creative process, the emotional side of songwriting, and what it takes to keep creating in a scene that is constantly changing. If you’re a fan of punk rock, hardcore music, DIY culture, and honest conversations about mental health and creativity, this episode is for you. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/support]

The Hardcore Therapist 136.5- My Birthday Episode

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/fan_mail/new]  In this birthday episode,I reflects on the year I stopped blaming myself for feeling exhausted, sluggish, inflamed, and unlike myself.  I shares her personal hormone replacement therapy journey, the self-blame and frustration that pushed me to seek better medical care, and the privilege involved in accessing a concierge doctor. This episode explores the connection between hormones, mental health, sleep, shame, inflammation, and self-advocacy while also looking ahead to a new year of partnerships, speaking, education, and continued growth. This episode is not medical advice and does not replace therapy or care from a qualified healthcare provider. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/support]

The Hardcore Therapist 136- Mike Egan (Artist)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/fan_mail/new] Today's guest on The Hardcore Therapist is Mike Egan, a contemporary artist known for his bold, symbolic paintings that explore themes of death, spirituality, and the human experience. Before becoming a full-time artist, Mike worked in the funeral industry as an embalmer and funeral director, an experience that deeply shaped the imagery and perspective in his work. His art blends folk, punk, and spiritual influences to create pieces that invite us to confront mortality and reflect on what it means to be alive. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255460/support]