The Jewish Matchmaker

The One Red Flag People Ignore When Dating

26 min · 21 jun 2026
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People say love is blind... and that's the problem. In this episode, Lori Palatnik and Aleeza Ben Shalom unpack why “love conquers all” is one of the most dangerous dating myths, what happens when attraction overrides clarity, and how ignoring one value mismatch can cost years of your life. From dealbreakers to objective dating criteria, this conversation gets into the uncomfortable truth about attraction, self-worth, and the decisions that quietly shape the rest of your life. Aleeza: - IG https://www.instagram.com/aleezabenshalom/ - FB https://www.facebook.com/aleezabenshalom - YT https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom - https://marriagemindedmentor.com/ Lori Palatnik - IG @loripalatnik - FB https://www.facebook.com/lori.palatnik.9/ - https://momentumunlimited.org/

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The One Red Flag People Ignore When Dating

People say love is blind... and that's the problem. In this episode, Lori Palatnik and Aleeza Ben Shalom unpack why “love conquers all” is one of the most dangerous dating myths, what happens when attraction overrides clarity, and how ignoring one value mismatch can cost years of your life. From dealbreakers to objective dating criteria, this conversation gets into the uncomfortable truth about attraction, self-worth, and the decisions that quietly shape the rest of your life. Aleeza: - IG https://www.instagram.com/aleezabenshalom/ - FB https://www.facebook.com/aleezabenshalom - YT https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom - https://marriagemindedmentor.com/ Lori Palatnik - IG @loripalatnik - FB https://www.facebook.com/lori.palatnik.9/ - https://momentumunlimited.org/

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