The ROCKSTAR Mom

Ep 34 | Why Learning to “Mother Yourself” Is The Most Important Way to Flourish in Motherhood and Life

43 min · 20 mei 2026
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Perfectionism doesn’t disappear when you become a mom, it mutates. The pressure gets louder, the stakes feel higher, and suddenly your old “push through it” strategies leave you anxious, guilty, and exhausted.  This week Megan is joined by Sarah Lowell Harmon, a licensed mental health counselor, mindfulness teacher, and founder of the School of Mom, to talk about what actually helps: mindful mothering that starts with mothering ourselves.  Sarah shares the personal story that shaped her work, including a family mental health crisis, estrangement, and the deep “missing support” many women feel when they enter motherhood.  We get practical with tools grounded in mindfulness, self-compassion research, parts work, and nervous system regulation. Sarah explains how inner voices like anxiety and the inner critic can be protective parts rather than problems to silence, and why emotions like anger often carry boundary wisdom.  You’ll leave with a simple reset you can use in real time, including the MOM Pause and the three self-compassion steps that start with the words, “This is hard.”  Check out more about Sarah Harmon and her work below :  https://www.instagram.com/the.schoolofmom/ [https://www.instagram.com/the.schoolofmom/] https://theschoolofmom.com/ [https://theschoolofmom.com/] https://theschoolofmom.com/start [https://theschoolofmom.com/start] We’d love to hear your feedback! Send us a text [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540865/fan_mail/new] ---- ➡️ Are you ready to get into action? Sign up for your Free Rockstar Mom Breakthrough call --> www.megancaldwellpdx.com [https://www.megancaldwellpdx.com] ➡️ Download your free 7-minute Rockstar Mom Morning Reset  [https://www.megancaldwellpdx.com/rockstar-mom-morning-reset] ➡️ Connect with us on Instagram --> @megancaldwellpdx [https://www.instagram.com/megancaldwellpdx] ➡️ AND Please subscribe to the podcast now to join our ROCKSTAR community and begin your journey towards living a life with more clarity, energy, peace of mind and FUN!   ➡️ Did you REALLY love this episode.  We'd love it if you took 2 minutes to rate this show and leave a 5 star review.  That's how even more moms are able to find us. 🙏

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