How Do Teenagers Think About Faith, Doubt, and Church? A Conversation with Evelyn Preisinger

How Do Teenagers Think About Faith, Doubt, and Church? A Conversation with Evelyn Preisinger

In this episode of Together 4 Good, Pastor Nate sits down with his oldest daughter, Evelyn, for a snow day conversation about faith, confirmation, doubt, church, and what it means to grow into your own understanding of God. Together, they talk about the questions many people carry but do not always say out loud: What if faith does not look the way we expected? What if the Bible is meant to be wrestled with? What if loving God is less about having everything figured out and more about remembering we are part of something bigger than ourselves? What You’ll Learn: * How confirmation classes can create space for honest questions about faith * Why Bible stories can still speak when we stop flattening them into easy answers * How young people wrestle with stereotypes around Christianity * Why faith can change us in subtle but meaningful ways * What it means to remember God in everyday life Chapters: 00:00 Coming up on Together 4 Good 01:00 Meet Evelyn on a May snow day 02:14 Looking back on confirmation 04:10 Why “Tough Questions” mattered 05:20 Bible history, sacred texts, and big questions 08:05 Reading the Bible as story and metaphor 09:20 Jesus, parables, and flexible faith 11:00 Being stubborn, honest, and a pastor’s kid 13:00 Assumptions about Christianity 16:00 Rethinking prayer, Bible study, and church language 18:30 Why Scripture can be read in new ways 21:00 Jesus, hospitality, and love of neighbor 23:00 What does it mean to love God? 26:00 Faith, science, wonder, and the universe 28:30 How do we love God in everyday life? 31:00 Faith changes us slowly 33:00 Compassion, judgment, and seeing people as people 35:00 Law, gospel, mercy, and love 36:00 Closing thoughts If this conversation resonates with you, like this video, subscribe to Bethany Lutheran Church, and share it with someone who is asking honest questions about faith, church, or God. Connect with Bethany: 📍 Bethany Lutheran Church – Denver, CO 🌐 Learn more: www.bethany-denver.org [http://www.bethany-denver.org]

Sunday School Remix: What the Feeding of the 5,000 Really Teaches Us About Community and Generosity

In this Sunday School Remix I take another look at one of Jesus’ most well known miracles, the feeding of the 5,000, and explore a different angle than what many of us learned in Sunday School. Yes, Jesus multiplies bread and fish, but what if that is not the only miracle happening on that hillside?You'll hear:00:00 – Introduction to the Episode01:00 – Why This Miracle Appears in All Four Gospels02:00 – “You Give Them Something to Eat” — Why This Line Matters03:00 – The Overlooked Detail: Communities of 50–10004:00 – Was the Miracle Multiplication… or Generosity?05:00 – Sharing What We Have: How Generosity Starts06:00 – Love One Another: How This Fits Jesus’ Ministry07:00 – Thanksgiving & A Change of Heart08:00 – The Biblical Meaning of Thanksgiving09:00 – Gratitude, Neuroscience, and Healing10:00 – Why Telling Someone You’re Grateful Matters11:00 – Receiving → Giving → Reflecting God’s Love12:00 – Gratitude and Community Transformation13:00 – Give Thanks… Then Give It Back14:00 – Closing BlessingMy hope is that this story shapes your Thanksgiving week with a deeper sense of abundance, gratitude, and community.Thank you for being here. Truly.Stay in peace, friends.Sunday School Remix is a new Together 4 Good series re-examining familiar Bible stories to uncover what they really tell us about faith, humanity, and grace today. 💬 Tell us what story you want to see remixed next! 🙏 Bethany Lutheran Church ELCA | Cherry Hills Village, CO https://linktr.ee/bethanydenver📍 Listen & Subscribe

How Can Community Help People Rebuild Their Lives? A Conversation with Krista Kilgus

In this episode of Together 4 Good, Pastor Nate talks with Krista Kilgus, Executive Director of Urban Servant Corps in Denver, about service, community, and what it means to follow where the Holy Spirit is leading next.  Urban Servant Corps has spent decades forming young adults through intentional community and service, and now the organization is entering a new chapter: creating a pilot program supporting re-entry work and hosting a community of formerly incarcerated women; offering belonging, community, vocational discernment, faith formation, and purposeful living.  This conversation is about faithful change, honest discernment, and the kind of belonging that helps people heal, grow, and begin again. What You’ll Learn: * Learn the story and mission of Urban Servant Corps in Denver * Understand how intentional community shapes faith, service, and belonging * Hear why traditional service-year programs have become harder to sustain * Explore Urban Servant Corps’ new pilot program with formerly incarcerated women * Discover how churches and individuals can support this next chapter If this conversation gives you hope, we invite you to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who cares about faith, justice, community, and the work of rebuilding lives with love. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and introduction to Krista Kilgus 00:45 The founding story of Urban Servant Corps 02:20 Krista’s own service year experience 03:15 What intentional community looks like in practice 05:00 Belonging, shared meals, and life skills 06:00 Why service years matter for young adults 06:55 Why interest in service-year programs has shifted 08:00 What “faith-based” means at Urban Servant Corps 10:00 Cultural pressure, independence, and countercultural community 11:25 Why Urban Servant Corps needed to reimagine its model 13:30 Discernment, sustainability, and community needs 15:15 New partnerships with New Beginnings and other Denver organizations 16:10 A new focus on formerly incarcerated women 18:30 What reentry support could look like 19:30 Co-creating the pilot program with participants 20:30 Timeline for launching the pilot 21:10 How congregations and individuals can support Urban Servant Corps 23:20 Where God has shown up in the process 25:00 Being surprised by God’s call 26:30 Gratitude for the community’s support 27:00 Closing reflections and invitation to share Connect with Bethany: 📍 Bethany Lutheran Church – Denver, CO 🌐 Learn more: www.bethany-denver.org [http://www.bethany-denver.org] Connect with Urban Servant Corps: https://www.urbanservantcorps.org/

Sunday School Remix: What If Discipleship Is an Invitation?

What if discipleship is less about proving yourself and more about being invited into a new way of life? In this episode of Sunday School Remix, Pastor Nate looks at Matthew 4:18–25, where Jesus calls his first disciples and gives ordinary fishermen an extraordinary invitation: “Follow me.” This familiar Sunday school story becomes something deeper when we notice who Jesus calls, where he goes, and how he redeems the parts of us we think disqualify us. What You’ll Learn: * See discipleship as an invitation, not a spiritual task list * Understand why Jesus calling fishermen was so meaningful * Explore repentance as a turning toward a new way of life * Notice how Jesus crosses boundaries in his ministry * Remember that God can redeem the parts of your story that feel like failure Chapters: 00:00 What if discipleship is different than we thought? 00:44 Jesus begins calling the first disciples 01:36 “Follow me and I will make you fishers of people” 02:22 Discipleship is not just a spiritual checklist 03:07 Repentance as turning toward a new life 04:29 Faith as surrender and a new direction 05:15 James and John leave the family business 06:38 Tomorrow does not have to be like today 07:26 Jesus teaches, heals, and proclaims good news 08:35 The disciples learn by following Jesus 09:18 Jesus crosses every boundary 10:38 Why fishermen were unlikely disciples 11:37 What it meant to be a rabbi’s disciple 12:27 Jesus offers a new opportunity 13:23 Discipleship as a gift, not a burden 14:16 Jesus redeems what feels like failure 15:23 God works through what we think disqualifies us 16:18 The story did not end in Sunday school If this episode gives you a new way to think about faith, discipleship, or your own story, take a moment to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could use the reminder that grace often begins where we thought we were disqualified. Connect with Bethany: 📍 Bethany Lutheran Church – Denver, CO 🌐 Learn more: www.bethany-denver.org [http://www.bethany-denver.org]

Why Doesn’t Success Make Us Happy? A Conversation with Nick Stroczkowski

What happens when you finally get everything you thought you wanted, and it still feels… empty? In this conversation, Pastor Nate sits down with longtime friend and filmmaker Nick Stroczkowski to wrestle with ambition, identity, faith, and the quiet realization that fulfillment might not be waiting somewhere in the future. Together, they explore what it means to live fully in the present, rediscover the purpose of church, and find something deeper than success. What You’ll Learn: * Why achieving your biggest goals doesn’t guarantee fulfillment * How to tell the difference between healthy change and restless dissatisfaction * What church looks like at its best—and why it sometimes falls short * How spiritual practices help you slow down and notice what matters * Why authenticity matters more than perfection in faith and life If this conversation resonates with you, like, subscribe, and share it with someone who might need it. Chapters: 00:00 – Intro: When Success Doesn’t Feel Like Success02:00 – The “Empty Box” Problem05:30 – Why We Keep Chasing What’s Next08:00 – Is Change Necessary or Just Restlessness?12:00 – Don’t Mess With Happy13:30 – Rediscovering Church in a New Season18:00 – When Church Feels Real (and When It Doesn’t)21:00 – Church as Product vs. Sacred Space27:00 – What Actually Sticks After a Sermon31:00 – Is It God or Just an Idea?34:00 – The Problem with Being “A Good Person”38:00 – Ego, Identity, and Wanting to Be Seen43:00 – Vulnerability, Community, and Healing46:30 – Why Ritual Still Matters50:00 – The Power of Slowing Down53:00 – Culture vs. Spiritual Practice56:00 – Finding Balance in Real Life57:30 – Closing Thoughts Connect with Bethany: 📍 Bethany Lutheran Church – Denver, CO 🌐 Learn more: www.bethany-denver.org [http://www.bethany-denver.org] Connect with Nick Arclight Creative: https://arclightcreative.co/ [https://arclightcreative.co/]