Cliché #1: You Live and You Learn

Cliché #1: You Live and You Learn

This episode looks at what it really means to learn from the versions of yourself you used to be. It is framed around a letter to your past self, with a bonus activity to help you learn from your past. You cannot always save your past self from the lesson, but you can stop judging them for not knowing what only experience could teach them. WANT TO JOIN US ON A TRIP TO JAPAN: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DETAILS & DEPOSIT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://onelifeadventures.com/be-social-japan-11-day-tour/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTERNATIONAL GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://ig.me/j/Abbn6DutBv59NeN3/] My Socials⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@dayna.becliche?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8GuI0f22gPrvhxk9GgWBZXx9Jz48qIUTHCcFLT0kwOu840ezr8cILtE34pEV1oRxI6CUExBKvDgfFRBxGGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=dae1f023b6540131de45ec1aef17f4c906c9b3bfd1739ab6893f5bf271aabb01&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7450690873869976584&share_link_id=0A232555-EAD1-485B-AA37-499BFCC81E94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383622&tt_from=copy&u_code=ehmg4h4kd1g1cd&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7450690873869976584&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Adelaide Events IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/besocial.adl/] & TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@besocial.adl?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ymo8ZVC%2B%2BCDT%2FQRWGdeBmdqQxiDLB1tNAMVvmbMkfvjnI%2BTqP1%2BaaVVFSM%2FYjmk%2BM6xMkZCfpNFySWFKGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=7cc35cf26d458041305a0e0543a35934b222a102603d6f1f2fe6cc87f1e31798&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7484549702059574292&share_link_id=7ADBB00D-FA23-402C-B7E3-7BC5F20CBF94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383566&tt_from=copy&u_code=ejc5c3l5cl7827&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7484549702059574292&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Personal Page IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠itsdaynajayne [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.becliche/]

The 7 Clichés That Changed My Life… and Can Change Yours

In this special 200th episode, I’m sharing seven clichés I used to overlook, but that have deeply shaped my life, decisions, and personal growth. From travel and relationships to intuition, trust, and transformation, these simple phrases have carried more truth than I once realised. This episode is an invitation to look at them differently, and maybe see your own life through a new lens. WANT TO JOIN US ON A TRIP TO JAPAN: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DETAILS & DEPOSIT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://onelifeadventures.com/be-social-japan-11-day-tour/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTERNATIONAL GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://ig.me/j/Abbn6DutBv59NeN3/] My Socials⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@dayna.becliche?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8GuI0f22gPrvhxk9GgWBZXx9Jz48qIUTHCcFLT0kwOu840ezr8cILtE34pEV1oRxI6CUExBKvDgfFRBxGGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=dae1f023b6540131de45ec1aef17f4c906c9b3bfd1739ab6893f5bf271aabb01&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7450690873869976584&share_link_id=0A232555-EAD1-485B-AA37-499BFCC81E94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383622&tt_from=copy&u_code=ehmg4h4kd1g1cd&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7450690873869976584&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Adelaide Events IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/besocial.adl/] & TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@besocial.adl?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ymo8ZVC%2B%2BCDT%2FQRWGdeBmdqQxiDLB1tNAMVvmbMkfvjnI%2BTqP1%2BaaVVFSM%2FYjmk%2BM6xMkZCfpNFySWFKGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=7cc35cf26d458041305a0e0543a35934b222a102603d6f1f2fe6cc87f1e31798&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7484549702059574292&share_link_id=7ADBB00D-FA23-402C-B7E3-7BC5F20CBF94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383566&tt_from=copy&u_code=ejc5c3l5cl7827&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7484549702059574292&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Podcast Page IG: ⁠⁠⁠dayna.becliche [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.becliche/]

You’re Allowed to Be a Beginner at Your Next Chapter

Imposter syndrome isn’t always self-doubt. Sometimes it’s just the uncomfortable feeling of becoming someone new. In this episode, we talk about the weird in-between phase where your life starts changing before your identity catches up to it. The moments where you’re stepping into new rooms, opportunities, friendships, or versions of yourself… but still feel like the old you internally. We unpack: * why growth can feel unfamiliar instead of exciting * the difference between being new and being incapable * why feeling out of place doesn’t always mean you are * identity lag and becoming before you fully believe it * why confidence usually comes after the experience, not before it A reminder that every version of your future self was once a beginner too. WANT TO JOIN US ON A TRIP TO JAPAN: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DETAILS & DEPOSIT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://onelifeadventures.com/be-social-japan-11-day-tour/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTERNATIONAL GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://ig.me/j/Abbn6DutBv59NeN3/] My Socials⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@dayna.becliche?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8GuI0f22gPrvhxk9GgWBZXx9Jz48qIUTHCcFLT0kwOu840ezr8cILtE34pEV1oRxI6CUExBKvDgfFRBxGGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=dae1f023b6540131de45ec1aef17f4c906c9b3bfd1739ab6893f5bf271aabb01&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7450690873869976584&share_link_id=0A232555-EAD1-485B-AA37-499BFCC81E94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383622&tt_from=copy&u_code=ehmg4h4kd1g1cd&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7450690873869976584&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Adelaide Events IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/besocial.adl/] & TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@besocial.adl?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ymo8ZVC%2B%2BCDT%2FQRWGdeBmdqQxiDLB1tNAMVvmbMkfvjnI%2BTqP1%2BaaVVFSM%2FYjmk%2BM6xMkZCfpNFySWFKGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=7cc35cf26d458041305a0e0543a35934b222a102603d6f1f2fe6cc87f1e31798&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7484549702059574292&share_link_id=7ADBB00D-FA23-402C-B7E3-7BC5F20CBF94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383566&tt_from=copy&u_code=ejc5c3l5cl7827&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7484549702059574292&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Podcast Page IG: ⁠⁠dayna.becliche [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.becliche/]

The One Try Away from Success Theory

Most things don’t fail - they just stop too soon. This episode explores the idea that what we label as “it didn’t work out” is often just an almost moment we didn’t stay long enough to see through. From missed opportunities to near wins, we unpack how close you might have actually been - and why success is often just one more attempt away.   We talk about: * Why “it didn’t work” often means “not yet” * The hidden gap between almost and breakthrough * How timing can make something feel like failure * Why your “almost wins” matter more than you think   A reminder that sometimes, nothing needs to change - except staying a little longer. WANT TO JOIN US ON A TRIP TO JAPAN: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DETAILS & DEPOSIT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://onelifeadventures.com/be-social-japan-11-day-tour/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTERNATIONAL GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://ig.me/j/Abbn6DutBv59NeN3/] My Socials⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@dayna.becliche?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8GuI0f22gPrvhxk9GgWBZXx9Jz48qIUTHCcFLT0kwOu840ezr8cILtE34pEV1oRxI6CUExBKvDgfFRBxGGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=dae1f023b6540131de45ec1aef17f4c906c9b3bfd1739ab6893f5bf271aabb01&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7450690873869976584&share_link_id=0A232555-EAD1-485B-AA37-499BFCC81E94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383622&tt_from=copy&u_code=ehmg4h4kd1g1cd&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7450690873869976584&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Adelaide Events IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/besocial.adl/] & TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@besocial.adl?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ymo8ZVC%2B%2BCDT%2FQRWGdeBmdqQxiDLB1tNAMVvmbMkfvjnI%2BTqP1%2BaaVVFSM%2FYjmk%2BM6xMkZCfpNFySWFKGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=7cc35cf26d458041305a0e0543a35934b222a102603d6f1f2fe6cc87f1e31798&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7484549702059574292&share_link_id=7ADBB00D-FA23-402C-B7E3-7BC5F20CBF94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383566&tt_from=copy&u_code=ejc5c3l5cl7827&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7484549702059574292&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Podcast Page IG: ⁠dayna.becliche [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.becliche/]

Why It Had to Not Work Out

Sometimes the things we want most don’t work out - and in the moment, it can feel like failure, rejection, or something going wrong. But over time, we start to realise that not everything that ends is a loss. In this episode, we explore why we get so attached to specific outcomes, why it feels so personal when things don’t go to plan, and how what looks like rejection can actually be redirection. Subtopics covered: * Why we attach so strongly to specific outcomes * Why things not working out feels personal * Rejection vs redirection * How endings can create new opportunities * The hidden ways life reshapes your path * How to move through disappointment WANT TO JOIN US ON A TRIP TO JAPAN: ⁠⁠⁠⁠DETAILS & DEPOSIT⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://onelifeadventures.com/be-social-japan-11-day-tour/] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTERNATIONAL GROUP CHAT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://ig.me/j/Abbn6DutBv59NeN3/] My Socials⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.tiktok.com/@dayna.becliche?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8GuI0f22gPrvhxk9GgWBZXx9Jz48qIUTHCcFLT0kwOu840ezr8cILtE34pEV1oRxI6CUExBKvDgfFRBxGGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=dae1f023b6540131de45ec1aef17f4c906c9b3bfd1739ab6893f5bf271aabb01&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAATsjTf2J1REF3lPVsYgVUy1ajZt-h8CdBSPX6iCawuFV4eddqy8FdvCnorpQ40hic&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7450690873869976584&share_link_id=0A232555-EAD1-485B-AA37-499BFCC81E94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383622&tt_from=copy&u_code=ehmg4h4kd1g1cd&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7450690873869976584&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Adelaide Events IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/besocial.adl/] & TikTok ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠besocial.adl [https://www.tiktok.com/@besocial.adl?_r=1&_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ymo8ZVC%2B%2BCDT%2FQRWGdeBmdqQxiDLB1tNAMVvmbMkfvjnI%2BTqP1%2BaaVVFSM%2FYjmk%2BM6xMkZCfpNFySWFKGgA%3D&_svg=1&checksum=7cc35cf26d458041305a0e0543a35934b222a102603d6f1f2fe6cc87f1e31798&item_author_type=1&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAA-5RYqCZEb0b48txMgWy0NA0W5eiD_31sPc5V66M-MzwaJII3pRzvMWjZQr_FhDWS&share_app_id=1233&share_author_id=7484549702059574292&share_link_id=7ADBB00D-FA23-402C-B7E3-7BC5F20CBF94&share_scene=1&sharer_language=en&social_share_type=4&source=h5_m×tamp=1757383566&tt_from=copy&u_code=ejc5c3l5cl7827&ug_btm=b8727%2Cb0&user_id=7484549702059574292&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=copy] Podcast Page IG: dayna.becliche [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.becliche/]