Damns Given with Nick Richtsmeier

Two Basic Rules for Being Online without Losing Your Mind

14 min · 17 mei 2026
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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2365925/fan_mail/new] "Trust doesn't look like attention." In fact, the things that steal our attention, grab it out of the agorithmic haze are some of the most trust-breaking things we face. Just because something is good at dragging us into its orbit, doesn't mean its building trust. In fact, often quite the opposite. A lot of people are trying to spend less time online. And brand leaders have questions of what to even do with extractive social platforms (like this one) and whether to keep playing in these sands. Well Nick has decried these platforms more than most, and yet—he's here. What's up with that? In this brief episode, Nick explains why he broke his own rules, and what it cost him to figure out a better way.  He offers two simple guidelines for founders, fractionals, coaches, and executives who need to be online but refuse to be owned by it Nick walks through what the feed actually does to your brain (and your prospect's brain) and your business clarity, why LinkedIn is more aggressive than you think, why his most viral moment (2 million views) was also his most useless one. Finally he offers the framework of a Trust-Made library of content: what it looks like, and why it works in ways the algorithm chasing and numbers boosting never will. **Chapters:** - 00:01 “I’m Breaking My Rules” - 02:38 Two Rules for Social Media - 06:15 Choosing Your Space - 08:43 Why Nick Regrets the Word “Trust” - 09:53 Building Your Library Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com [https://www.culturecraft.com] Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com [https://www.trustmadegrowth.com]  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

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My One Big Lesson On Culture - and Why It's So Easily Ignored

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2365925/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Damns Given, Nick walks through the Trust-Made Growth framework's take on culture — one of the six core factors that determine whether a venture is ready to grow or quietly working against itself. He goes back to the literal definition of the word: culture is what you put in a petri dish, the organic matter from which everything else grows. In organizational terms it's simpler and harder than any offsite can address. Culture is just what an organization does, how it works, and what it is without pressure or influence. He talks about how systems self-reinforce — why a good person in a bad team eventually becomes a bad player, because the system wins. How a leader's unspoken resistance to articulating values doesn't create a blank space, it creates a vacuum that people fill with their own interpretations, producing exactly the fractured, directionless behavior the leader didn't want. And why the only thing Trust-Made Growth is actually looking for in a culture is minimal resistance to organic growth — not kombucha fountains, not Silicon Valley theater, just healthy soil that lets things grow. The weeds tell you everything. A garden full of weeds doesn't mean you have a weed problem. It means the soil is broken. Questions about how this applies to your venture? Reach out at culturecraft.com or find the Trust-Made community at trustmadegrowth.com Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com [https://www.culturecraft.com] Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com [https://www.trustmadegrowth.com]  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

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Revenue Models: The Hidden Operating System of Your Venture

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Two Basic Rules for Being Online without Losing Your Mind

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2365925/fan_mail/new] "Trust doesn't look like attention." In fact, the things that steal our attention, grab it out of the agorithmic haze are some of the most trust-breaking things we face. Just because something is good at dragging us into its orbit, doesn't mean its building trust. In fact, often quite the opposite. A lot of people are trying to spend less time online. And brand leaders have questions of what to even do with extractive social platforms (like this one) and whether to keep playing in these sands. Well Nick has decried these platforms more than most, and yet—he's here. What's up with that? In this brief episode, Nick explains why he broke his own rules, and what it cost him to figure out a better way.  He offers two simple guidelines for founders, fractionals, coaches, and executives who need to be online but refuse to be owned by it Nick walks through what the feed actually does to your brain (and your prospect's brain) and your business clarity, why LinkedIn is more aggressive than you think, why his most viral moment (2 million views) was also his most useless one. Finally he offers the framework of a Trust-Made library of content: what it looks like, and why it works in ways the algorithm chasing and numbers boosting never will. **Chapters:** - 00:01 “I’m Breaking My Rules” - 02:38 Two Rules for Social Media - 06:15 Choosing Your Space - 08:43 Why Nick Regrets the Word “Trust” - 09:53 Building Your Library Trust-Made Growth® Leaders who want to understand how to reformat their growth strategies to address trust decay should explore more at CultureCraft.com [https://www.culturecraft.com] Independent Professionals can join the free community exploring how to return trust to our commerce and our communities at trustmadegrowth.com [https://www.trustmadegrowth.com]  Have a business topic you want us to decide if it's working or broken? Have a question about the episode? You can email us at podcast@culturecraft.com.

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A Real Life Moment of Resistance & a Heartfelt Debate w/ Janice Porter about Relationships Now

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