Drawing Out The Heart: A Conversation with Author and Coach Vinny Tauriello

Drawing Out The Heart: A Conversation with Author and Coach Vinny Tauriello

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/fan_mail/new] Leadership can feel like carrying everyone else’s weight while having nowhere safe to set down your own. That is why we sat down with Reverend Vincent Torriello, pastor, professional coach, and founder of By Design Coaching, to talk about  coaching that is both practical and  rooted in theology. His new book Drawing Out the Heart: Theological Foundations for Sound Coaching Practice makes a clear case that coaching is not a trendy add-on, but a way of helping leaders grow through wise questions and genuine listening.  We dig into what coaching is and what it is not. Coaching is not preaching, teaching, mentoring, consulting, or counseling, even though it can complement all of them. Instead of “downloading” answers, coaching draws out what God has already formed in a person made in His image and, for believers, what the Holy Spirit is already stirring. We talk about Proverbs 20:5 and why that picture of “deep waters” captures the heart of the coaching relationship, especially for pastors and ministry leaders who are expected to be strong but are rarely developed after ordination.  One of the most striking parts of the conversation is the biblical pattern of God asking questions and listening intently. From Genesis to the Gospels, God’s questions create clarity, ownership, and movement, and Vinny argues that this posture shapes sound coaching practice. We also explore why leaders need a confidential thinking partner, why a coach focuses on the person rather than merely fixing problems, and how coaching skills can strengthen discipleship, staff leadership, and church culture. If you care about pastoral health, leadership development, and practical ministry wisdom, listen through and then share it with a leader who needs it. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what is one area where you wish someone would help you think instead of telling you what to do? For more information on Vinny's coaching, visit: www.bydesigncoaching.net To purchase Vinny's new book, visit: Drawing out the Heart: Theological Foundations for Sound Coaching Practice: Tauriello, Vincent: 9798253700198: Amazon.com: Books [https://www.amazon.com/Drawing-out-Heart-Theological-Foundations/dp/B0GXBDTBZM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2OHHHJK2XL75W&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.12zr8hp43tkZtOhsV1y2WQl8PIV_aVh-shjwkhbRINWdW0-uz1cuZTh0I6yl7MQHOMI9fl99Qr2aW3tqsYQvyeERBaVQrD67aQ52w4hnYFlusoQMCF4FiRSeCFT6dUrgriDSf0YNnwedJKG6fpLx5KumKfFFdT-NgxnhCBjl5wr5f9l-MEUlcylZf-EM6ULkuMnMGEfcpgFXjtMwI16NzatI7lWE_KqngCdDXOB6_dk.Gc0zIhArjhnPLLe9n4fkYMzCRb8rW0SwfwRus2vjB7c&dib_tag=se&keywords=drawing+out+the+heart&qid=1779480575&sprefix=draeing+out+the+hea%2Caps%2C161&sr=8-1] For information on Victa Leadership, visit www.victaleadership.com Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/support]

Let's Talk About Predestination! (Westminster Confession of Faith Chap. 3) Part 2

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/fan_mail/new] Predestination can feel like the doctrine that turns God into a math problem or a monster, depending on who’s talking. We refuse both options. Walking carefully through Westminster Confession of Faith Chapter 3, we wrestle with God’s eternal decree, why Scripture speaks so plainly about election and reprobation, and why the confession insists this “high mystery” must be handled with special prudence and care. We define terms, then tackle the big objections: Is this unfair? Does it make God the author of sin? What do we do with passages like Romans 9 alongside 1 Timothy 2:4 and 2 Peter 3:9? Along the way we lean on the wider biblical witness, explain why Reformed theology rejects “equal ultimacy,” and clarify preterition: God effectually saves the elect, while those who are condemned are judged for their sins, not for lacking a label. We also bring in R.C. Sproul’s framework on justice and mercy to show why mercy, by definition, is never owed and why that matters for how we talk about grace. This isn’t abstract theology for armchair debate. We keep asking what the doctrine is for: assurance of salvation, humility before God, courage to preach the gospel to all, and consolation for believers who want to rest in Christ’s promise that no one will snatch His sheep from His hand. If you’ve struggled with Calvinism, free will, the problem of evil, or the fear that predestination destroys evangelism, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves hard questions, and leave a review with your toughest objection or your most honest question. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/support]

Let's Talk About Predestination! (Westminster Confession of Faith Chap. 3) Part 1

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/fan_mail/new] “God ordains whatsoever comes to pass” can sound like a wrecking ball to your sense of freedom and fairness. We sit down with Westminster Confession Chapter 3 and take the doctrine of God’s eternal decree seriously, without turning people into puppets or turning God into a distant spectator. We walk line by line through the confession’s careful claims: God’s decree is wise, holy, free, and unchangeable, and yet God is not the author of sin. From there we open the Bible and follow the thread through Proverbs 16, Ephesians 1, Acts 2:23, and Joseph’s words in Genesis 50:20. You’ll hear why Reformed theology rejects the idea that election is based on foreseen faith, why “salvation is of the Lord” is more than a slogan, and how God can use even sinful human actions for righteous ends without sharing in the guilt of those actions. We also tackle the practical fears: Does this lead to fatalism? Does it kill mission? Acts 27 gives a surprising answer, showing that God ordains the end and the means, so real choices truly matter. We close with pastoral comfort and a story of gospel ministry where predestination becomes hope for the ashamed and the weary, not a weapon for arguments. If you want deeper assurance, steadier worship, and a more biblical view of God’s sovereignty and human responsibility, listen now. Subscribe, share this with a friend who wrestles with predestination, and leave a review with the question you still want answered. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/support]

Why the Westminster Confession Still Matters: A Conversation with Dr. Chad Van Dixhoorn

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/fan_mail/new] We’re joined by Dr. Chad Van Dixhoorn, professor of church history and theology at Reformed Theological Seminary and one of today’s leading Westminster Assembly scholars. Few men in our day have devoted more careful, sustained work to the Westminster Standards, studying both their historical setting and their theological substance. In this conversation, he offers a gracious and accessible presentation of the Confession and catechisms, while also pressing the importance of confessionalism for the life and health of the church today. Together, we explore why the Westminster Confession of Faith and the Larger and Shorter Catechisms still belong in the hands of ordinary Christians. For more information on Dr. Chad Van Dixhoorn’s work, please see the following: Confessing the Faith by Chad Van Dixhoorn, available through Banner of Truth. Dr. Van Dixhoorn is Professor of Church History and Theology at Reformed Theological Seminary in Charlotte, and he is widely recognized as one of the leading experts on the Westminster Assembly. He has completed a five volume edition of The Minutes and Papers of the Westminster Assembly, 1643 to 1652, giving the church an unprecedented window into the work and debates of the divines. He is also currently working on a major monograph on the Assembly and serves as the editor of John Arrowsmith’s Plans for Holy War, as well as general editor of the Works of Samuel Rutherford. Ordained in the Orthodox Presbyterian Church, Dr. Van Dixhoorn has also served pastorally both in the United Kingdom and here in the United States. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/support]

Behind the Politics: Gospel Ministry at the Capitol — Interview with Rev. Ron Zeigler, Ministry to State (Harrisburg, PA)

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/fan_mail/new] Politics is everywhere, but it rarely feels personal. From cable news panels to social media takes, it’s easy to talk about “politicians” like they’re a single faceless group instead of neighbors made in the image of God. We sit down with Rev Ron Zeigler, a pastor serving full-time through Ministry to State at the Pennsylvania State Capitol in Harrisburg, to talk about what it looks like to bring pastoral care into one of the most pressurized workplaces in the Commonwealth. Ron shares how this Presbyterian Church in America ministry (under Mission to North America) focuses on prayer, presence, and genuine relationship with lawmakers, staffers, and even the police forces and custodial teams that keep the Capitol running. You’ll hear why legislators can feel overlooked and isolated, how caucus pressure and leadership demands shape real moral tension, and why Christians are called to intercede for civil government leaders according to 1 Timothy 2. He also tells remarkable stories from the halls and the Capitol cafe: prayer cards saved for years, moments of encouragement after difficult debates, and people from different parties and backgrounds praying together in public. Along the way we wrestle with a question many believers feel but rarely say out loud: how do we care more about the person than the person’s policy while still taking truth and conscience seriously? If you care about Christian political engagement, praying for government leaders, and a faithful public witness that doesn’t borrow the world’s contempt, this conversation offers a grounded path forward. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review, then tell us: which leader will you start praying for this week? For more info on Ron's ministry, visit: PENNSYLVANIA | Ministry to State [https://www.ministrytostate.org/pennsylvania-1] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2540863/support]