Why The Bear Wins: Understanding Safety and Uncertainty for Women

Why The Bear Wins: Understanding Safety and Uncertainty for Women

Episode 73 – Why the Bear Wins: Understanding Safety and Uncertainty for Women I Am Self-ish Podcast In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright explores the viral question that sparked countless conversations: Would you rather encounter a bear or a man while alone in the woods? At first glance, the question seems simple. The reactions it generated reveal something much deeper. Will unpacks why so many women chose the bear and what that response says about safety, trust, and the realities women navigate every day. The conversation is not about labeling all men as dangerous. It is about understanding the mental calculations, precautions, and awareness many women carry with them whenever they move through the world. The episode explores the difference between predictable danger and uncertainty. A bear behaves like a bear. Human behavior, on the other hand, can be far less predictable. That uncertainty shapes decisions, routines, and the level of vigilance many women feel they must maintain simply to stay safe. Will also examines the cultural factors that contribute to this reality, including the ways silence, dismissal, and inaction can unintentionally reinforce environments where women feel unheard or unsupported. He challenges listeners, especially men, to move beyond defensiveness and toward curiosity, empathy, and understanding. This conversation is not about blame. It is about awareness. By listening without immediately trying to explain, defend, or debate, we create space for a deeper understanding of experiences that may be very different from our own. Real change begins when people feel seen, heard, and believed. At its core, this episode is an invitation to reflect on safety, accountability, and the role each of us plays in creating a world where more people feel free to move through it without fear. Produced and Edited by Will Wright Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method 📧 will@iamself-ish.com [will@iamself-ish.com] 🌐 iamself-ish.com 📸 Instagram: @selfish.will 💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will Be bold. Be SELF-ISH. Less stress, more choice.

Re-released: Lonely Was the Cost

Episode 72 – Re-released: Lonely Was the Cost I Am Self-ish Podcast Some conversations deserve a second listen. In this re-release, Will Wright revisits a deeply personal reflection on healing, truth, and the loneliness that can come with both. As themes of self-trust, boundaries, and personal growth continue to show up in coaching conversations, this episode felt important to bring back into the spotlight. Will speaks openly about the emotional cost of growth and how standing firmly in your truth can shift relationships in ways you may not expect. Healing is not always celebrated. Sometimes it creates distance. Sometimes it changes dynamics you once relied on. And sometimes the very growth you prayed for requires you to let go of people who only knew the version of you that no longer exists. Drawing from his own experiences with trauma, faith, and personal transformation, Will explores the difference between inherited beliefs and lived truth. He reflects on the tension between seeking external validation and learning to trust yourself, while emphasizing the role personal responsibility plays in lasting change. This episode is not about blaming the past. It is about owning the present. It is about recognizing that self-acceptance is not selfish and that choosing peace may require disappointing people who preferred the old version of you. Lonely was the cost. Freedom was the reward. If you are navigating a season of change, questioning old beliefs, or learning how to choose yourself without guilt, this conversation is for you. Produced and Edited by Will Wright Host | Certified Life Coach and Stress Management Coach Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method 📧 will@iamself-ish.com [will@iamself-ish.com] 🌐 iamself-ish.com 📸 Instagram: @selfish.will 💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will Be bold. Be SELF-ISH. Less stress, more choice.

When The Unexpected Shows Up

Episode 71 – When the Unexpected Shows Up I Am Self-ish Podcast In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with certified financial planner Ross Levine for an important conversation about financial security, preparation, and what it means to protect yourself when life takes an unexpected turn. Ross shares practical insights into why financial planning is about more than investing. It is about creating a strategy that supports your life through uncertainty. Whether it is job loss, illness, disability, or unexpected life changes, Ross explains why having a plan in place before something happens can make all the difference. Will and Ross explore the difference between investment advisors and comprehensive financial planners, highlighting why a written financial plan matters more than simply watching numbers in an account. The conversation also breaks down common misconceptions around insurance and why protecting your income through disability and life insurance is often overlooked until it becomes urgent. The discussion touches on how financial priorities shift during different stages of life, from young couples and growing families to retirement planning and divorce. Ross also shares insights into his work as a financial planner and the importance of helping clients make decisions rooted in clarity rather than fear. What stands out throughout the conversation is a simple but powerful idea: preparation creates peace of mind. Financial planning is not about predicting every outcome. It is about building enough protection and flexibility so the unexpected does not completely derail your future. At its core, this episode is a reminder that financial confidence begins with awareness, education, and taking action before you think you need to. About Ross Levine Ross Levine is a Financial Advisor and Certified Financial Planner® professional with Northwestern Mutual. His mission is to build lasting relationships by helping clients create a path toward financial security and long-term independence. Inspired by watching his father help families prepare for the unexpected, Ross combines practical planning with education to support clients through every stage of life. His specialties include retirement planning, insurance analysis, education planning, divorce planning, and helping young couples and families build strong financial foundations. Connect with Ross Levine Website: https://www.insightfinancial.nm.com [https://www.insightfinancial.nm.com/] Email: ross.levine@nm.comFinancial Planning Resource: https://www.letsmakeaplan.org [https://www.letsmakeaplan.org/] Financial Planning Specialties Include: ✔️ Retirement Planning ✔️ Insurance Analysis & Planning ✔️ IRA / 401(k) Rollovers ✔️ Advisory Services through Northwestern Mutual Wealth Management Company ✔️ Young Couples & Families ✔️ Education Planning ✔️ Divorce Planning ✔️ Long-Term Care Planning Connect with Ross Levine https://tinyurl.com/RossPlanningCall 🌐 Website: https://www.insightfinancial.nm.com 📧 Email: ross.levine@nm.com 📚 CFP Resource Website: https://www.letsmakeaplan.org A great resource for financial planning topics and education. Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 will@iamself-ish.com🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will Be bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Stop Guessing. Start Dressing.

Episode 70 – Stop Guessing. Start Dressing. I Am Self-ish Podcast In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with wardrobe therapist and stylist Alma Vicencio for a conversation about confidence, identity, and the impact of dressing in a way that truly reflects who you are. Alma shares how style goes far beyond clothes and explains why the right wardrobe can reduce decision fatigue, increase confidence, and support both personal and professional growth. Through her Wardrobe Workshop Framework, she helps clients move away from guesswork and toward intentional choices that align with their lifestyle, personality, and goals. Will and Alma explore how color analysis, body type understanding, and personalized style statements can help people feel more confident in what they wear. They also discuss why so many people feel stuck in front of their closets and how shopping without strategy often creates more frustration instead of clarity. The conversation touches on the emotional side of style, including the attachment we have to clothing, the pressure to dress for who we think we should be, and the importance of honoring who we are right now. Alma explains how wardrobe confidence influences visibility, self-expression, and even the way people show up in important moments of life and work. Alma also shares details about her upcoming group program, Co-Heart, a community-centered experience designed to help participants build confidence and transform the way they approach style. At its core, this episode is about using fashion as support rather than pressure. Your wardrobe should work for your life, reflect your personality, and help you feel more like yourself, not less. About Alma Vicencio Alma Vicencio has spent more than 20 years in the fashion industry, building a career rooted in helping people feel confident in their personal style. After graduating from FIDM in 2003, she began as a fashion designer in Los Angeles before moving into personal shopping for luxury brands including Neiman Marcus, John Varvatos, and Prada. In 2020, she founded Alma Styles, combining her expertise with a passion for helping people feel confident and aligned in how they show up. Based in Brooklyn with her family, Alma works with clients internationally through personalized styling services. Connect with Alma VicencioWebsite: https://almastyles.com [https://almastyles.com]Instagram: https://instagram.com/almasaurus_stylesWardrobe Workshop Framework: https://www.almastyles.com/wwframework [https://www.almastyles.com/wwframework] Produced and Edited by Will WrightCreator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method📧 will@iamself-ish.com🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will Be bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.

Notice The Difference

Episode 69 – Notice The Difference I Am Self-ish Podcast In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, Will Wright sits down with entrepreneur and business owner Ardon Daley for a conversation about authenticity, relationships, and building a business rooted in trust. Through Ardon’s journey in the cleaning industry, the conversation becomes much bigger than cleaning. It explores freedom, purpose, and what it means to build something on your own terms. Ardon shares how becoming a husband at a young age shifted his mindset and inspired him to pursue entrepreneurship. Wanting more control over his future, he built a business focused on creating financial freedom while staying true to his values. One of the biggest themes throughout the conversation is the difference between transactional relationships and genuine connection, and why trust matters more than a quick sale. Will and Ardon also discuss the importance of educating clients and helping them understand the value behind a service. Ardon explains the difference between a quick clean and a deep reset, emphasizing how understanding the needs of a space allows for better results and long-term satisfaction. The conversation also touches on the realities of entrepreneurship, including difficult jobs, lessons learned through setbacks, and the importance of staying adaptable while continuing to grow. At its core, this episode is about noticing the difference. The difference between doing just enough and doing things with intention. Between chasing someone else’s dream and building your own. About Ardon DaleyArdon Daley is a Jamaican entrepreneur, investor, husband, and owner of DailyCleans Commercial & Residential Cleaning. His work is rooted in authenticity, education, and helping clients understand the value of high-quality service while building a business that creates freedom and opportunity. Connect with Ardon DaleyWebsite: https://dailycleansservice.com/ [https://dailycleansservice.com/]Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dailycleansservice [https://www.instagram.com/dailycleansservice]Phone: 516-462-4249 Quote from Ardon:“Chase your own dream or chase someone else’s dream.” Produced and Edited by Will Wright Creator of the I AM SELF-ISH Method 📧 will@iamself-ish.com🌐 iamself-ish.com📸 Instagram: @selfish.will💼 linkedin.com/in/selfish-will Be bold. Be SELF-ISH.Less stress. More choice.