What are You Hiding? Ruth Rathblott on the Hidden Costs of Hiding Who You Are

What are You Hiding? Ruth Rathblott on the Hidden Costs of Hiding Who You Are

What are you hiding? In this episode of Ideas Love Community, Jacquelyn Fletcher Johnson sits down with bestselling author, speaker, and leadership expert Ruth Rathblott for a conversation that will stay with you long after it ends. For 25 years, Ruth hid her difference from the world. What began as a painful moment on a school bus at age 13 became a decades-long strategy for staying safe, fitting in, and avoiding judgment. From the outside, she built a successful career as a nonprofit CEO and respected leader. Inside, she was exhausted. In this powerful conversation, Ruth shares: * why so many successful people hide parts of themselves * the psychological drag of hiding * the four ways people hide * why unhiding is not the same thing as oversharing * how to decide who is safe to share with * why leaders must go first * what workplaces get wrong about authenticity * how hiding affects confidence, creativity, innovation, and connection > "What if the thing you're hiding is actually your greatest gift?" -Ruth Rathblott This episode is for anyone who has ever: * hidden a struggle * felt like they couldn't fully be themselves * worried about being judged * wanted to use their voice in a bigger way Hiding comes with a cost. Are you still willing to pay it?    About Ruth Rathblott Ruth is a global speaker, former nonprofit leader, and bestselling author of Singlehandedly: Learning to Unhide and Embrace Connection; and Unhide & Seek: Live Your Best Life. Do Your Best Work. Her TEDx talk When I Stopped Hiding, I Found Freedom has nearly 20,000 views. For more than 25 years, Ruth hid that she has a limb difference. From the outside, she was a successful nonprofit CEO and respected leader. But internally, she was carrying the invisible weight of hiding. When she finally chose to unhide, everything changed. Today Ruth helps leaders and organizations understand the hidden cost of hiding, and the extraordinary power that's unlocked when people feel safe enough to bring their full selves forward. ____ If this conversation resonated with you, send it to someone how might need it. Someone who might be ready to stop hiding.  Because ideas don't change the world alone.  Ideas Love Community. Ready to be HUGE? I coach extraordinary voices.  I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.  I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.  Follow me on LinkedIn [www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelynfletcherjohnson].  Sign up for my newsletter [https://jacquelynfletcherjohnson.substack.com/].  Apply for coaching [https://www.jacquelynfletcherjohnson.com/coaching].  Get on the waitlist [https://www.gateway-project.com/] for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.

The World Needs What Only You Can Say

Have you ever felt a deep longing to say something important—but held yourself back? In this heartfelt Pep Talk, Jacquelyn Fletcher Johnson explores what it means to activate the voice of your soul and why the world needs the message only you can share. Drawing from her own experiences with bullying, self-doubt, criticism, and visibility fears, Jacquelyn shares how she learned that there is room for every unique voice—and that your message isn't meant for everyone. It's meant for the people who need it most. Whether you're dreaming of writing a book, stepping onto bigger stages, launching a podcast, sharing your expertise, or finally speaking up about what matters to you, this episode is an invitation to stop waiting for permission and start using your voice. Because ideas don't change the world alone. Ideas love community. IN THIS EPISODE: • Why the longing to use your voice exists for a reason • How fear, criticism, and old stories keep us silent • Why your voice doesn't need to be perfect before you begin • How to find the audiences who resonate with your message • The difference between fitting in and finding your people • A powerful invitation to put your mission in motion Ready to be HUGE? I coach extraordinary voices.  I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.  I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.  Follow me on LinkedIn [www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelynfletcherjohnson].  Sign up for my newsletter [https://jacquelynfletcherjohnson.substack.com/].  Apply for coaching [https://www.jacquelynfletcherjohnson.com/coaching].  Get on the waitlist [https://www.gateway-project.com/] for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.

Visibility Lessons from Professional Speaker Cait Donovan

What if the thing you’re searching for is already sitting beneath you? In this deeply honest and wildly energizing conversation, burnout expert, keynote speaker, and host of Fried: The Burnout Podcast, Cait Donovan joins Jacquelyn Fletcher Johnson for a conversation about visibility, burnout, fear, community, and what it really takes to share your voice in a bigger way.  Together, they unpack: -Why your ideas need space to breathe -How burnout often comes from “mismatch” -The hidden treasure chest most people are sitting on -The cure for visibility fear Cait shares powerful stories about leaving her acupuncture career, building a global thought leadership platform, navigating uncertainty as a professional keynote speaker, and discovering that the only real question is: “Is this bringing me closer to match… or closer to mismatch?” This episode is a permission slip for anyone who knows they have something important to say — but keeps waiting for the perfect moment to begin. Spoiler alert: You already have a stage. Ready to be HUGE? I coach extraordinary voices.  I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.  I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.  Follow me on LinkedIn [www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelynfletcherjohnson].  Sign up for my newsletter [https://jacquelynfletcherjohnson.substack.com/].  Apply for coaching [https://www.jacquelynfletcherjohnson.com/coaching].  Get on the waitlist [https://www.gateway-project.com/] for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.

How a Panic Attack and an Ask for Help Changed Everything

She was at a conference surrounded by experts in healing. And suddenly… She couldn’t focus. The sounds in the room swelled around her. The lights burned her eyes. And suddenly she knew she couldn't pretend she was okay anymore. So she said four words: “I’m not okay.” And everything changed. In this story, you'll hear a story by Robyn Scherr, Diplomate-certified in CranioSacral Therapy and Certified Master Practitioner and Presenter for the Healing From the Core curriculum. And a conversation with host Jacquelyn Fletcher Johnson that explores: -Panic attacks and nervous system overwhelm -Why asking for help feels so hard -Childhood experiences that shape self-reliance -The difference between looking okay and actually being okay -Healing through connection and safe relationships -The sacred power of storyIf this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and send it to someone who needs to find their voice. Because ideas don’t change the world alone. Ideas Love Community. Ready to be HUGE? I coach extraordinary voices.  I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.  I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.  Follow me on LinkedIn [www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelynfletcherjohnson].  Sign up for my newsletter [https://jacquelynfletcherjohnson.substack.com/].  Apply for coaching [https://www.jacquelynfletcherjohnson.com/coaching].  Get on the waitlist [https://www.gateway-project.com/] for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.

The Biggest Block to Your Thought Leadership

Your voice is as unique as your fingerprint, but there’s something you’re doing that’s quietly dismantling your ability to express yourself in a one-of-a-kind way. In this powerful Pep Talk, from Ideas Love Community executive coach Jacquelyn Fletcher Johnson shares a story that reveals what holds so many of us back from getting on bigger stages, writing that book you keep saying you want to write, or starting a podcast. “You are allowing other people’s vocal fingerprints to influence your own.” It shows a path to reclaiming your voice and your unique way of showing up in the world. If you’ve been comparing yourself, shrinking, or waiting until you “sound right,” this is your reset. It doesn't just end with a nice story, it wraps up with a challenge you can use to find and hone your vocal fingerprint so you can create a space for your thought leadership in a noisy world. If you're a high-achieving leader, speaker, or visionary trying to build your thought-leadership platform, this episode will help you reconnect with your authentic voice, build confidence, and stop comparing yourself to others.  If you find this episode helpful, subscribe, review it, and share it with someone who needs a pep talk.  Ready to be HUGE? I coach extraordinary voices.  I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.  I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.  Follow me on LinkedIn [www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelynfletcherjohnson].  Sign up for my newsletter [https://jacquelynfletcherjohnson.substack.com/].  Apply for coaching [https://www.jacquelynfletcherjohnson.com/coaching].  Get on the waitlist [https://www.gateway-project.com/] for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.