Moms Off The Record

Jamie Glowacki, mom, parenting expert, and acclaimed author of "Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler" and "Oh Crap! Potty Training", joins us for an uncensored conversation on what today’s parents are getting wrong (and right) about raising kids. With more than 25 years of experience working directly with families, Jamie dives deep into popular parenting styles, discipline, emotional regulation, and why the trend of “gentle parenting” can sometimes miss the mark. We explore hot-button topics like: * Why organized sports before age six may do more harm than good * How modern culture is infantilizing children * Why connection, not perfection, is what kids crave most * The role of play in conflict resolution and building resilience * How nutrition impacts children’s behavior and emotional regulation * The problem with “kindness culture” and how to model real kindness Jamie also shares the essential parenting style framework of govern, garden, guide, helping parents navigate each stage of childhood in the most effective way. From the dangers of over-scheduling to the necessity of “brutal self-care” for moms, this episode is packed with unfiltered and uncensored practical wisdom, cultural critique, and encouragement for parents raising kids in today’s world. You can find Jamie:  * On instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jamie.glowacki/]  * On YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@ohcrapwithjamie] * On the web [https://www.jamieglowacki.com/] * and her fantastic books [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jamie-Glowacki/author/B01AVYVN7S?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=7d3d0c3c-7ce3-485a-836a-39c1ba926622]! Support the show [https://www.paypal.com/biz/profile/momsofftherecordpod#] JOIN OUR NEW, PRIVATE COMMUNITY! [https://rebellius.mn.co/plans/1539902?bundle_token=43215c32ebd74de7873c13b19a2c57e7&utm_source=manual] DONATE [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=64531f723eb4dd5b6e47eb51] (Thank you!! <3) DISCOUNT CODES & LINKS [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/affiliate-codes] Leaving us a rating and *written* review is one of the best ways to show your support. We're so grateful for your reviews! We love to see what you thought of our episodes on your instagram stories! Remember to tag us @momsofftherecordpod, so we can share your stories with our community. Don't forget to subscribe to MOTR on your favorite podcast platform, and follow us on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/momsofftherecordpod/], so you never miss a beat.

Feeling inspired after reading Jamie Glowacki’s book “Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler”, the two of us muse on our current top three core values, where these values likely stemmed from, and how, specifically, they shape our parenting decisions. As Jamie so eloquently puts it, nothing a toddler says or does should theoretically trigger an adult to have an unreasonable, extreme reaction. So, if we are having such a reaction, it’s likely due to an unresolved trigger or childhood wound. The values we place highest on a pedestal stem from what we view as being the most important aspects of functioning in the world, which will look different from person to person depending on how you were raised, your life experiences, relationships, and your temperament. Just like a Venn diagram, the two of us share some overlap with our core values and then branch off into varied territory. Illustrating how our values play out in real time with our children is where the magic lies. In this episode, we don't aim to tell you which values to hold dearly but how to consider them! & we want to hear from you! What are your top parenting values and why? Support the show [https://www.paypal.com/biz/profile/momsofftherecordpod#] JOIN OUR NEW, PRIVATE COMMUNITY! [https://rebellius.mn.co/plans/1539902?bundle_token=43215c32ebd74de7873c13b19a2c57e7&utm_source=manual] DONATE [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=64531f723eb4dd5b6e47eb51] (Thank you!! <3) DISCOUNT CODES & LINKS [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/affiliate-codes] Leaving us a rating and *written* review is one of the best ways to show your support. We're so grateful for your reviews! We love to see what you thought of our episodes on your instagram stories! Remember to tag us @momsofftherecordpod, so we can share your stories with our community. Don't forget to subscribe to MOTR on your favorite podcast platform, and follow us on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/momsofftherecordpod/], so you never miss a beat.

Alaina faced obstacle after obstacle during her first pregnancy, which happened to be a di-di, identical twin girl pregnancy, and her initiation into motherhood resulted in the first twin being born vaginally and the second via cesarean. Recovering from a c-section plus physical separation for days from her babies due to a NICU stay didn’t deter Alaina from physiologic mothering and tuning into her high nurture intuition. Alaina walks us through about her mindset, values, and support system which motivated her to break free from the mainstream narrative- especially the one perpetuated in social media- that moms of multiples must pump and rely on formula from day 1, contain their babies in containers, and separate them into their own sleeping spaces despite having spent every day together in the womb. Follow Alaina on Instagram @nurturingtwins If you’re expecting or recently birthed multiples, you must check out her course, Embracing Infancy [https://stan.store/nurturingtwins?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwMOE_RleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp15g2kYTZyf7VfTJZ5_l0ElbSF11oi6o7JjSff7pW80H-xzy1xp5DSi-uFZR_aem_yadbD1Z7qtfSNDcqLmDEQg]!  Support the show [https://www.paypal.com/biz/profile/momsofftherecordpod#] JOIN OUR NEW, PRIVATE COMMUNITY! [https://rebellius.mn.co/plans/1539902?bundle_token=43215c32ebd74de7873c13b19a2c57e7&utm_source=manual] DONATE [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=64531f723eb4dd5b6e47eb51] (Thank you!! <3) DISCOUNT CODES & LINKS [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/affiliate-codes] Leaving us a rating and *written* review is one of the best ways to show your support. We're so grateful for your reviews! We love to see what you thought of our episodes on your instagram stories! Remember to tag us @momsofftherecordpod, so we can share your stories with our community. Don't forget to subscribe to MOTR on your favorite podcast platform, and follow us on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/momsofftherecordpod/], so you never miss a beat.

The two of us philosophize about the distinctions between education versus learning and why even the most prestigious schools are failing today's children. As moms on the homeschooling track, we reveal how we are reclaiming the lost art of lifelong learning and why we are not subscribing to the school system's broken idea of "education" i.e. memorization, regurgitation and rigid metrics.  We relish in the endless opportunities to shape our children's worldview and share which values are most important for us to cultivate in our children as they transition into older toddlerhood and ultimately young childhood. Takeaways from our discussion: * Nurturing a child's interests can cultivate a lifelong love of learning. * Homeschooling doesn't have to be rigid; it can be play-based. * Values instilled at home shape a child's worldview. * Community plays a vital role in a child's developing group dynamics skills. * Food choices impact a child's health and awareness. * Creative play is essential for learning and development. * Observation and awe are key in developing mindfulness. * Breaking free from traditional education can empower children. * Language development is fostered through real-world communication. * Patience and presence are crucial in nurturing a child's growth. PS- Our MOTR merch [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/merch]has dropped! Wear your motherhood values & be sure to tag us when you do! @MomsOffTheRecordPod  Support the show [https://www.paypal.com/biz/profile/momsofftherecordpod#] JOIN OUR NEW, PRIVATE COMMUNITY! [https://rebellius.mn.co/plans/1539902?bundle_token=43215c32ebd74de7873c13b19a2c57e7&utm_source=manual] DONATE [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=64531f723eb4dd5b6e47eb51] (Thank you!! <3) DISCOUNT CODES & LINKS [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/affiliate-codes] Leaving us a rating and *written* review is one of the best ways to show your support. We're so grateful for your reviews! We love to see what you thought of our episodes on your instagram stories! Remember to tag us @momsofftherecordpod, so we can share your stories with our community. Don't forget to subscribe to MOTR on your favorite podcast platform, and follow us on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/momsofftherecordpod/], so you never miss a beat.

The #BackOffBobbie campaign lives on, because someone has to say what Operation Stork Speed refused to: the real risk in formula isn’t just seed oils or trace heavy metals (the red herrings distracting the #MAHA moms). It’s cronobacter, a rare but deadly bacteria that continues to fly under the radar while mommy influencers parade USDA organic labels and metal-free test results like gold stars. This week, we’re joined by Natasha Vargas-Cooper of Radical Moms Union to expose the uncomfortable truths formula companies don’t want mothers to know. We talk about the fox guarding the hen house of formula testing, the 626 NEC lawsuits filed against major manufacturer Abbott, RFK Jr.'s murky ties to the formula industry, and how social media marketing has become the newest weapon against maternal instinct. This conversation isn’t about shame. It’s about power: power in knowledge, power in truth, and power in numbers. It’s time to reclaim motherhood from corporate capture. Get involved with RMU if mobilizing mothers to advocate for change makes you excited! 🎙️ Get Involved with Radical Moms Union: *  Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/radicalmomsunion] *  Website [https://www.radicalmomsunion.org/] *  Substack [https://radicalmomsunion.substack.com] Timestamps: * 00:00 Introduction to the Dark Side of Influencer Marketing * 03:10 The Dark Alliance: Bobby Kennedy and Formula Industry * 06:57 Heavy Metals and the Formula Industry * 12:39 The Role of Seed Oils in Infant Formula * 18:23  Understanding Chronobacter and Its Risks * 24:04 NEC: The Hidden Dangers of Formula Feeding * 29:53 Legal Battles and Corporate Accountability * 32:29 The Role of Corporations in Infant Nutrition * 34:45 Personal Stories and the Impact of Formula * 38:51 The Influence of Social Media on Maternal Choices * 43:42 The Need for Safer Formula and Regulatory Changes * 49:49 Corporate Interests and the Future of Infant Nutrition * 53:14 Reclaiming Motherhood * 56:02 The Formula Industry's Influence * 58:54 Building Power Among Mothers * 01:01:21 Strategies for Activism * 01:05:26 The Radical Moms Union Support the show [https://www.paypal.com/biz/profile/momsofftherecordpod#] JOIN OUR NEW, PRIVATE COMMUNITY! [https://rebellius.mn.co/plans/1539902?bundle_token=43215c32ebd74de7873c13b19a2c57e7&utm_source=manual] DONATE [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/checkout/donate?donatePageId=64531f723eb4dd5b6e47eb51] (Thank you!! <3) DISCOUNT CODES & LINKS [https://momsofftherecordpod.com/affiliate-codes] Leaving us a rating and *written* review is one of the best ways to show your support. We're so grateful for your reviews! We love to see what you thought of our episodes on your instagram stories! Remember to tag us @momsofftherecordpod, so we can share your stories with our community. Don't forget to subscribe to MOTR on your favorite podcast platform, and follow us on instagram [https://www.instagram.com/momsofftherecordpod/], so you never miss a beat.