Autistic and Queer Love Languages

Finding Gender Through Chemistry

From her autism diagnosis to exploring HRT, Soph has been on a journey throughout her 40s. In this conversation, Moth (they/them) and Soph (she/her) reflect on 3 years of HRT.  Show music: Luke McQuillan lukemcquillan.com

Interconnection and Responsibility

Do each of us exist as mere isolated individuals? And if we are part of wider systems, what are the responsibilities we might have to one another? To ourselves? Moth (they/them) and Soph (she/her) explore what responsibility looks like through a neuroqueers lens.

Trauma, Sex, and Healing

This episode may not be suitable for all listeners and contains brief non-descriptive mentions of sexual trauma as part of an explicit conversation about sexuality.  Saying that queer sex can be healing might sound like a radical claim when juxtaposed with the way sex can also be a source of wounding, but being able to claim, define, and explore our sexuality as neuroqueer people can offer a revelatory and healing balm. In this episode, Soph (she/her) and Moth (they/them) build a starting template for how sex can be a healing modality for queer autists.

Category is...Dyke as Gender

Author Tris Husband joins Soph and Moth for a discussion about the concept of dyke as a gender. The three authors dive into lesbian history with an eye for the intersections, like being trans and neurodivergence.  Resources mentioned: The Self-Constructed Dyke [https://www.patreon.com/posts/self-constructed-126344429] My Gender is Dyke [https://www.autostraddle.com/my-gender-is-dyke/] Stone Butch Blues [https://www.lesliefeinberg.net]

Autistic and Queer Love Languages

As a queer autistic person, how do you express your love to others? In this episode Soph and Moth apply a neuroqueer lens to nonverbal and verbal ways that a person might show love. Your hosts explore the problematic origin of love languages and then give them a very gay twist. Show music by Demon Grrl https://links.demongrrl.com/ [https://links.demongrrl.com/] Follow Soph [https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:frxtk2t5pu2znkziyiav6jfo] Follow Moth [https://bsky.app/profile/8bitem.bsky.social]