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Why Kindness Starts With Saying No

39 min · 5. mai 2026
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Rachel Blogg sits down with Dido Balla, CEO of Kindness Matters, for an honest conversation about what kindness actually means and why it has nothing to do with always saying yes. Together they explore the difference between being kind and being nice, why self-kindness is the foundation, and how setting boundaries can be one of the most generous things you do for yourself and others. Dido shares the four guiding beliefs behind Kindness Matters, including the idea that every human being is born with a capacity for good, and explains how negativity bias quietly shapes the way we see the world and raise our kids. From training teachers and parents to taking kindness programs to Cameroon, the work is as practical as it is deeply human. The episode closes with a reminder about gratitude that cuts right to the core: if your heart is beating, you have already hit the jackpot. Whether you are a parent, educator, or someone who has been a little harder on themselves than they deserve, this conversation meets you right where you are. Connect with Dido: LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/dido-balla/], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/didoballa/], Website [https://www.didoballa.com/] Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-blogg-lcsw-47799434/], Youtube [https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW], Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/RachelBloggLCSW], Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw/], TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg]   ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

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