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Recruiting Ep 20: How to Have a Real Conversation with a Coach

23 min · 19. mai 2026
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Most recruits have no idea how to talk to a coach. And it’s costing them. In this episode, we break down one of the most overlooked skills in the recruiting process — how to actually hold a conversation. Not just answering questions, but engaging, asking back, and showing a coach who you really are. We’re talking about the difference between a recruit who gives one-word answers and goes silent, and one who makes a coach think “I want that kid in my program.” We cover what bad recruiting conversations look like from a coach’s perspective, how to use the simple back-and-forth framework that changes everything, and the questions that impress coaches every single time. Plus — the cringe questions you need to stop asking. Whether you’re a recruit gearing up for a campus visit, a parent helping your athlete prepare, or a coach who’s seen one too many awkward phone calls — this one’s for you.

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