How To Stop Measuring Your Worth By What You Do (And How To Realise You're Doing It In The First Place)

How To Stop Measuring Your Worth By What You Do (And How To Realise You're Doing It In The First Place)

Most women don't realise they're doing it, but underneath it all their hard work and helpfulness often a question they're trying to answer: "Am I enough yet?" In this solo episode of Self-Worth School, Rosie explores why so many women tie their worth to their productivity, achievements, usefulness, and what they do for other people. She shares how this pattern often starts early in life, why it can lead to burnout, people-pleasing and never feeling quite "there", and how to start separating your worth from your output. If you've ever struggled to rest without guilt, found it hard to celebrate your wins, or felt like your confidence rises and falls with your results, this episode is for you. 💛 In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why so many women measure their worth through achievement and productivity ✨ The hidden cost of tying your value to what you do ✨ The difference between achievement and self-worth ✨ A simple but powerful reframe to help you separate your identity from your results If this episode resonates and you're ready to build confidence, self-trust and self-worth from the inside out, you can find out more about The Confidence Cult membership here.

How To Thrive In Business (And Life) With ADHD

Ever started 17 projects, forgotten where you put your phone, spent three hours researching something completely unrelated to the task you were meant to be doing, and then wondered why everyone else seems to find life easier? This episode is for you. I'm joined by Lea Turner, founder of The HoLT community, to talk about ADHD, entrepreneurship, self-worth, and the reality of trying to build a business when your brain doesn't always cooperate. Lea shares her journey from school dropout to building a hugely successful business and community, along with the lessons she's learned about consistency, confidence, outsourcing, hyperfocus, and working with her brain instead of constantly fighting it. Whether you have an ADHD diagnosis, suspect you might be neurodiverse, or simply struggle with procrastination, overwhelm, and getting yourself to do the boring stuff, there's so much in this conversation for you. 💛 In this episode, we cover: ✨ Why ADHD can make business feel harder than it looks ✨ The difference between being lazy and struggling with executive function ✨ Hyperfocus, creativity, and the strengths that often come with ADHD ✨ Why consistency doesn't always look the way you think it should ✨ Practical strategies for getting things done when motivation disappears ✨ The importance of finding more joy in your business 🔗 Connect with Lea: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leaturnerholt/ [https://www.instagram.com/leaturnerholt/] The HoLT: https://www.instagram.com/theholtcommunity/ [https://www.instagram.com/theholtcommunity/] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lea-turner/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/lea-turner/] The HoLT LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/theholt [https://www.linkedin.com/company/theholt] And if confidence, self-trust, consistency, or self-worth are things you're currently working on, you can find out more about my membership here: https://rosiemilsom.podia.com/ [https://rosiemilsom.podia.com/]

How To Speak Up And Use Your Voice (When It Matters Most)

Speaking up sounds simple… until it’s you. Until you’re worried about upsetting someone. Being judged.Looking difficult.Getting rejected.Or taking up “too much” space. In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by Jo Tarnawsky to talk about what it really means to use your voice - especially in the moments that matter most. Jo shares her experience of working as a diplomat for 25 years in the Australian government before eventually speaking publicly about workplace harassment and power dynamics after a long period of silence, fear, and self-protection. Together, we explore why so many women hold themselves back from saying what they really think, the hidden cost of staying quiet, and how courage is something we build through smaller moments - not just big dramatic ones. This episode is about self-worth, boundaries, confidence, and learning to trust that your voice deserves space too. CONNECT WITH JO Instagram: @jo_tarnawsky [https://www.instagram.com/jo_tarnawsky/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] LinkedIn: Jo Tarnawsky [https://www.linkedin.com/in/jo-t-94568417a?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Website: Jo Tarnawsky Website [https://www.jotarnawsky.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Substack: Jo’s Substack [https://substack.com/@jotarnawsky?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Jo has also shared a special discount for listeners of Self-Worth School on her Recovering from a Toxic Workplace video series and companion guide. Use code ROSIE2026 for 25% off until 30 June 2026. Preview here: Recovering from a Toxic Workplace Preview [https://www.jotarnawsky.com/resources?utm_source=chatgpt.com] IF THIS RESONATED If this episode hit, share it with someone who’s been making themselves smaller lately. And if using your voice, trusting yourself, or setting boundaries is something you struggle with - this is exactly the kind of work I support women with through coaching and inside my membership 💛 The Confidence Cult has just opened for its newest members. See more info here: https://rosiemilsom.podia.com/

How To Manage Anxious Thoughts (And Get Out Of Your Head)

If you’ve ever found yourself spiralling, overthinking, replaying conversations, or jumping to worst-case scenarios - this episode is for you.In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by mental health coach Joe Roe to talk about anxious thoughts, overwhelm, and the connection between anxiety, self-worth, and confidence.Joe shares her own lived experience with chronic fatigue syndrome, anxiety, bipolar disorder, burnout, and recovery - and the practical tools that helped her better understand and manage her mind.We talk about why overthinking happens, how your brain is wired to keep you safe, and why anxious thoughts don’t mean there’s something “wrong” with you.Joe also shares her “archway” framework, practical self-regulation tools, and the importance of building awareness and self-kindness instead of fighting against yourself.If your brain’s been noisy lately, this conversation will help you feel a little less alone - and a little more equipped.☕ Joe’s “Hug in a Mug” WorkbookDownload Joe's Hug in a Mug workbook - a simple but powerful self-care resource built around small rituals and comforting actions for the mind, body, and soul.Because sometimes support doesn’t have to be huge.Sometimes it’s the little things that help bring you back to yourself.Download it here [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1aZoUsw2G1eRa7uEvBfAB7Xt67GKkJM9l/view?usp=sharing]. CONNECT WITH JOEJoe Roe is a Multi-Award‑Winning Mental Health and NLP Master Coach with over 20 years of experience helping people shift from anxiety and overwhelm to clarity, calm, and confidence. Recognised as a Top Mental Health Coach by the Coaching Foundation, Joe blends lived experience of anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder and psychosis with professional expertise to support deep, lasting change. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joeroecoaching/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joeroecoaching/IF THIS RESONATEDIf this episode hit, share it with someone who might need it - especially someone who’s been carrying a lot mentally lately.And if overthinking, self-doubt, or anxiety are stopping you from fully showing up in your life or business, this is exactly the work I support women with through coaching and my membership.Set up your free discovery call here: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching/30min [www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching/30min]And join my FREE 3-Day Challenge: Make The Moves That Make You Money here [https://e66b-hello.systeme.io/makethemoveschallenge].Running from Tue 19th to Thu 21st.

How To Be Visible & Put Yourself Out There (Even As An Introvert)

What if you don't need to become louder to let yourself be seen in your work, your ideas, and the things you actually want?What if it's actually about trusting yourself enough to stop hiding?In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by Pooja Jain - AI Consultant, keynote speaker, and founder of PowerUp AI - to talk about building visibility, confidence, and self-worth as an introvert.Pooja shares her journey from corporate life to starting her own AI consultancy in Germany, and how she had to challenge the belief that introverted people “aren’t the type” to build businesses, speak publicly, or put themselves out there.If you’ve been holding yourself back because you think you need to be more confident, more outgoing, or more “ready” first, this one will land.💛 In this episode, we cover:- The difference between introversion and lack of confidence- How introverts can use their natural strengths in business and leadership- Pooja’s perspective on imposter syndrome (and why it’s not always a bad thing)- How to start being visible in a way that actually feels doable long-term Connect with PoojaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/poojajain19d/If this resonatedIf you’ve been sitting on ideas, holding back your voice, or waiting until you feel “ready” to put yourself out there - this is your reminder that confidence is built in motion.And if this is something you struggle with, this is exactly the work I do.Through 1:1 coaching and inside my membership, I help women stop second-guessing themselves, trust their voice, and actually show up for what they want. Set up your free discovery call here for 1:1 coaching: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching/30min Or add yourself to the early interest list for my membership: subscribepage.io/the-cultIf this episode hit, share it with someone who needs it too 💛