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How Developing Self-Awareness Transforms Defensive Reactions Into Professional Growth

14 min · 25. mai 2026
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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564103/fan_mail/new] SHOW NOTES: WorkLife Stories from School of WorkLife Episode: How Developing Self-Awareness Transforms Defensive Reactions Into Professional Growth Learning how developing self-awareness transforms defensive reactions into professional growth begins with the moment you hear feedback that isn't an attack — and feel it land like one. Matt had built an eight-year reputation on bold, conceptual design work. But on a Thursday afternoon, listening to a client deliver calm, measured, professional feedback, he felt his jaw clench and his pulse quicken. This is the story of the moment he stopped trying to justify that reaction — and started getting curious about what it was actually protecting. RESOURCES MENTIONED The Storytelling Newsletter [https://shorturl.at/UCQLj] (Free) Short, focused, and grounded in real WorkLife situations — how we communicate, lead, make decisions, and navigate challenges at work.   Story Lesson: How Developing Self-Awareness Transforms Defensive Reactions Into Professional Growth [https://school-of-worklife.myshopify.com/products/how-developing-self-awareness-transforms-defensive-reactions-into-professional-growth?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web] Learn how to recognise what your strongest reactions are really protecting — and build a working life on genuine self-knowledge rather than defended self-image. Guided Programme The Pause Before Applause [https://school-of-worklife.myshopify.com/products/the-pause-before-applause-a-simple-approach-to-self-awareness?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web] - A Simple Approach to Self-Awareness Commissioned learning resources, speaking engagements, and organisational partnerships: carmel@schoolofworklife.com [carmel@schoolofworklife.com] schoolofworklife.com The stories I write are based on real WorkLife challenges, obstacles, failures and successes. Persons and companies portrayed in the stories are not based on real people or entities. Carmel O’ Reilly Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2564103/support]

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