Episode 32: The One Where We Admit We Want More

Episode 32: The One Where We Admit We Want More

Send us a text, question, or comment [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2549808/fan_mail/new] What does your dream life look like now, and how much of it is really about the house, the pool, the people, and the feeling of peace? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, Natali, Carina, and Nicki start with a surprise birthday story after Carina secretly flies back to Phoenix to surprise Nicki at brunch. What begins as a funny, sweet recap of secret plans, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, birthday surprises, and full moon wishes turns into a deeper conversation about friendship, home, and what success feels like in midlife. They talk about surprise parties, thoughtful gifts, spontaneous friendship, pickleball, spring goals, and the tiny rituals that make life feel meaningful. Then the conversation shifts into dream homes, snowbird life, pools, luxury, and what it means to build a life that feels peaceful instead of performative. From Phoenix houses and Bear Lake dreams to indoor pools, pickleball courts, libraries, mountain views, and homes that feel like a sanctuary, they unpack why certain things symbolize safety, success, and freedom. If you’ve ever dreamed about owning a home with a pool, becoming a snowbird, creating a peaceful life in midlife, or redefining what “making it” actually means, this episode will feel funny, honest, and surprisingly reflective. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife, friendship, personal growth, dream homes, relationships, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

Episode 31: The One Where We Think Cartier Will Kick Us Out

Send us a text, question, or comment [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2549808/fan_mail/new] Why do certain fears get louder as we get older — even when we know they make no sense? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we talk about irrational fears and dream lives, Natali, Carina, and Nikki unpack the strange anxieties, insecurities, and overthinking spirals that show up in midlife. What starts as a conversation about parking garages and driving anxiety quickly turns into something deeper: fear of not belonging, fear of judgment, and the quiet ways women question their worth in spaces that feel exclusive or unfamiliar. They talk about: * Irrational fears and anxiety in adulthood * Why some fears get stronger with age * Fear of heights, driving, and losing control * Feeling intimidated in luxury stores like Cartier, Chanel, Tiffany, and Louis Vuitton * Imposter syndrome and self-worth * Why exclusivity culture can feel uncomfortable * The pressure to “deserve” beautiful things * Social media, curated lives, and comparison The conversation also explores: * Wanting fewer but more meaningful possessions * Building a peaceful home and dream life in midlife * Why trends and aesthetics can disconnect us from what we actually want * Learning to trust yourself instead of outside expectations Then the episode takes an unexpectedly emotional turn into manifestation, visualization, and future dreams. Nicki shares a daily joy practice inspired by visualization and gratitude, imagining future trips, dream homes, meaningful work, successful businesses, supportive relationships, and a slower, more intentional life. If you’ve ever questioned whether you belong in certain spaces, struggled with overthinking or anxiety, or found yourself reimagining what you truly want in this stage of life, this episode will feel deeply relatable. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife, friendship, personal growth, relationships, ambition, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

Episode 30: The One Where We Have 98 Unread Texts

Send us a text, question, or comment [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2549808/fan_mail/new] If you feel overwhelmed by texts, messages, and constant communication, or you’ve ever wondered why you avoid replying even when you care, this episode will feel very familiar. The conversation turns into a surprisingly honest look at texting anxiety, communication styles, and how different people manage relationships, work, and boundaries in a hyper-connected world. From unread messages and team communication tools to dating ideas like the “sticky eye” method and handing out photo cards, things get funny, chaotic, and unexpectedly insightful. It’s real life, real friendship, and real opinions. You’ll laugh, cringe, and totally relate.

Episode 29: The One Where We Wonder if We Have Enough Friends

Send us a text, question, or comment [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2549808/fan_mail/new] How many close friends do you actually have — and is that normal? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we talk about friendship circles, Natali, Carina, and Nicki unpack what adult friendships really look like in midlife — from inner circles to casual connections. They start by sharing how many people they each consider “close friends,” and quickly realize they define friendship very differently. From having 3 deeply intimate relationships to managing multiple “pods” of friends, the conversation explores what closeness actually means. They dive into: *  How many close friends people can realistically maintain  *  Inner circle vs outer circle friendships  *  Deep friendships vs social or convenience friendships  *  Why friendships change in your 30s and 40s  *  The difference between family relationships and chosen friendships  *  How time, energy, and life stages impact connection  They also discuss a popular social theory that suggests most people can only maintain about five truly close relationships at once — and what happens when someone new enters your life. The conversation gets deeper as they explore: *  Honesty as the foundation of strong friendships  *  Outgrowing certain relationships  *  Why shared interests (like business or lifestyle) strengthen connection  *  How friendships evolve over time — and why some naturally fade  If you’ve ever wondered how many close friends you’re “supposed” to have, questioned your inner circle, or felt your friendships shifting in midlife, this episode offers a thoughtful, honest, and relatable perspective. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about friendship, midlife, personal growth, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

Episode 28: The One Where We Take a Personality Quiz (And Call Out Each Other’s Flaws)

Send us a text, question, or comment [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2549808/fan_mail/new] What actually drives your behavior — and what are your biggest blind spots? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we take a personality quiz, Natali, Carina, and Nikki dive into the Tony Robbins “6 Human Needs” framework and uncover what motivates them, what holds them back, and what they might not see about themselves. They walk through a personality and self-discovery quiz in real time, reacting to each question, guessing each other’s answers, and debating what actually fits. They explore: *  The six human needs (certainty, variety, significance, love/connection, growth, contribution)  *  Personality traits and driving forces  *  Strengths vs Achilles heels  *  How different people define success, stability, and fulfillment  *  Emotional needs in relationships and friendships  *  Why self-awareness is harder than it seems  The conversation gets especially honest when they start calling out each other’s blind spots — from people-pleasing and overgiving to ambition, ego, and the pressure to keep growing. They also question: *  Are personality quizzes actually accurate?  *  Can a 10-question quiz really define you?  *  What happens when your results don’t match how you see yourself?  If you’ve ever taken a personality test, questioned your patterns, or wondered what really drives your decisions in midlife, this episode offers a mix of humor, self-reflection, and real conversation. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about personal growth, self-awareness, relationships, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.