Our Heavenly Father Knows Best

Our Heavenly Father Knows Best

READ: ESTHER 4:5-17; ROMANS 8:18-39 [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ESTHER%204%3A5-17%3B%20ROMANS%208%3A18-39&version=NLT] You may have heard of the old TV show Father Knows Best. This 1950s American sitcom was about a father and his family. You may or may not enjoy old black and white sitcoms, but the title might stir up some questions. It would be naïve to say that earthly parents always know best—they’re flawed people. But it is true that our heavenly Father knows best. Yet, it doesn’t always feel that way. Many times, I’ve asked God why He didn’t give me the things I prayed for. I lamented to Him when opportunities slipped from my grasp. And I cried after I had doors of opportunity slammed in my face. One Sunday, in the midst of lamenting over a lost relationship, I heard a sermon about the book of Esther. The pastor spoke about how, even though God isn’t mentioned by name in this Old Testament book, His handiwork is evident throughout the story. Reading it now, we can see God working through the good and the bad to deliver His people. The problem is, Esther didn’t get a lovely printed, leather-bound version of her story. She lived it. She was placed in the middle of the threat of her people’s extinction and told to act at the risk of her own life. Maybe looking back, she could see how God worked through the good and the bad for His purposes, but maybe not. The sermon on Esther comforted me. It reminded me that God does have a plan and He is working on it, even if He doesn’t give me all the details. In times of disappointment, I often fall back on the fact that God loves me and wants to show me His love. I know that God’s silence does not equal His absence. Jesus is with me no matter what, and He is working out His good purposes through it all. • Naomi Zylstra • Can you think of a time you prayed for something you didn’t receive? How did that feel? • In times of disappointment and heartache, God does not stand far off. He is so very near, longing to wrap us in His arms and remind us that He sees, and He cares. That’s why He invites us to honestly lament—to tell Him all about our pain and what we want Him to do about it. As we lament, we can remember that Jesus weeps with us and that He is working, not only for His glory, but also for our good. Consider taking some time to pour out your lament to Him today. And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. Romans 8:28 (NLT)

A Bad Plan

READ: GENESIS 3:1-11; 1 JOHN 1:9–2:2 [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=GENESIS%203%3A1-11%3B%201%20JOHN%201%3A9%E2%80%932%3A2&version=CSB] “Well, that was a bad decision.” “I can’t believe we did that.” “So, now what? You know He’ll find out.” “Hmmm. I have an idea. See all those bushes and trees over there? Let’s hide.” “Good plan.” Perhaps this is how the conversation went between Adam and Eve. Genesis 3 doesn’t tell us their exact dialogue, but in their story, we witness one of the worst strategies ever created. After eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, Adam and Eve felt ashamed and guilty, a common response to wrongdoing. Then, they decided to hide from God. True story. These two humans were trying to hide from the all-knowing Creator of the universe. Gently and clearly, God drew them out from their hiding places, clothed them, and barred them from the Garden of Eden. It was a humbling moment for Adam and Eve. As much as we might want to mock them, isn’t our natural response to hide when we do wrong? It’s embarrassing to admit the truth of our sin. Wouldn’t we all rather hide until it all blows over? But God has other plans, and He has gone to great lengths to make it possible for us to receive mercy and grace. How far? God the Father sent His very own Son as a payment for our sins. While we have committed sin in the darkness and hidden afterwards, Jesus Christ was willing to die during the middle of the day, in front of witnesses, so all could see His sacrifice. And then, three days later He rose again. Our sin is not the end of the story. We’re not meant to live in the dark shadows of shame. We all sin, every day, but Christ’s death pays the price for our sin, allowing us to live unashamed in the light. • Mike Hurley • How was God merciful in His response to Adam and Eve’s sin? • What should our response be when we sin? Why are we free to go to Jesus after we’ve messed up? (Hebrews 4:14-16) My little children, I am writing you these things so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ the righteous one. He himself is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours, but also for those of the whole world. 1 John 2:1-2 (CSB)

Bringers of Good News

READ: ISAIAH 52:7-10; JOHN 3:16-17; ROMANS 10:5-15 [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ISAIAH%2052%3A7-10%3B%20JOHN%203%3A16-17%3B%20ROMANS%2010%3A5-15&version=NLT] In the United Arab Emirates, immigrants are not allowed to proselytize (attempt to convert) anyone from the local population. This makes it hard to share the good news that Jesus loves us so much that He died and rose again to make the way for us to be with Him forever. But that did not stop my parents. My parents were Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs) in Dubai. They are also Christians. They understood the limits that the local laws put on sharing the gospel with others. Thus, they decided to focus on sharing Jesus with a group of people that they felt they could reach out to better: OFW homeschooling parents like them. After connecting with a local church in Dubai, my mom began looking for a homeschool co-op to meet new people outside of church. She discovered that no co-op existed in our area, but she recognized a need for one. That was how the Discovery Gardens Homeschool Co-op was founded. It was composed mostly of Filipino expat families who were not Christians. With one other Christian family, we taught every child who attended about the truth of who Jesus is. That planted seeds in their hearts, and God made those seeds grow. The results were outstanding. Three of the families we taught in that one month eventually put their trust in Jesus Christ. That same year, I witnessed one of my friends be baptized in the Persian Gulf. During our time in Dubai, I learned something very important. I learned to make the most of the time God gives me (Ephesians 5:16). I never knew when it would end. We stayed in Dubai for only two years. For us to see such an impact in our short time there, I just know it’s one of the many proofs that nothing is impossible for God (Luke 1:37). • John Caleb M. Talusan • Jesus loves us so much that He died and rose again to make the way for us to be with Him forever. And He wants all people to come to Him (1 Timothy 2:4)! As Christians, He has invited us to do His kingdom work with Him. And a huge part of that work is telling others the good news, relying on the Holy Spirit’s power and wisdom. What an amazing honor! Consider spending some time in prayer, thanking Jesus for His death and resurrection and asking Him who He may be inviting you to share the gospel with. (For more about the gospel, check out our "Know Jesus" page.) • Can you remember a time when somebody shared the gospel with you? What was that like? For I am not ashamed of this Good News about Christ. It is the power of God at work, saving everyone who believes—the Jew first and also the Gentile. Romans 1:16 (NLT)

Even Better

READ: JOHN 14:15-31; 15:26; 16:5-15 [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=JOHN%2014%3A15-31%3B%2015%3A26%3B%2016%3A5-15&version=NLT] What could be better than God with skin on, walking the planet, in the person of Jesus Christ? On the night before Jesus went to the cross, He told us. Jesus knew that He was going to die, be raised from the dead three days later, and after a short while, ascend into heaven. But first, He told His disciples, “When the Father sends the Advocate as my representative—that is, the Holy Spirit—he will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you…It is best for you that I go away, because if I don’t, the Advocate won’t come. If I do go away, then I will send him to you” (John 14:26; 16:7). So what’s even better than Jesus in the flesh, walking around on our planet? God, inside of us, His believers. Jesus is fully human, and He is God with us (Matthew 1:23). The Holy Spirit is God in us (John 14:17). Today, through the Holy Spirit, we can know God personally. While we wait for Jesus to return and restore creation, His body is us. He is the head, and we—His church—are all members of His body (1 Corinthians 12). As the body of Christ, we are meant to follow our head and do the work He calls us to do. So where does the Holy Spirit, our Advocate, come in? The Greek word translated as Advocate in John 14–16 is Paraclete, which can also be translated as Comforter, Helper, or Counselor. God knew that we couldn’t follow Him on our own. Until Jesus’s return, we would continue to mess up, and we’d need the Holy Spirit’s kind correction. He knew that we would need Him as our Helper, our Counselor, our Advocate, and our Comforter too. We would need God Himself, living within us. God the Father not only sent His own Son to come in the flesh to die and rise again to make the way for us to know God, but then He also sent His own Spirit to all who believe in Jesus. He is with us for the entire journey! What a wonderful God! • Kristen Merrill • If you’ve put your trust in Jesus, then you have His Spirit indwelling you! What questions do you have about the Holy Spirit? The Bible is full of verses that mention the Spirit. Who are trusted Christians in your life who can help you dig into Scripture and find out more? [Jesus said,] “But in fact, it is best for you that I go away, because if I don’t, the Advocate won’t come. If I do go away, then I will send him to you.” John 16:7 (NLT)

Loving a Cheater

READ: HOSEA 1:1-11; 3:1-4; EPHESIANS 5:25-27 [https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=HOSEA%201%3A1-11%3B%203%3A1-4%3B%20EPHESIANS%205%3A25-27&version=NLT] How much does God love you? The answer is: a lot! But sometimes “a lot” can be hard to picture. To show us how faithful His love is, God gave us an analogy in the Old Testament: the story of Hosea and Gomer. Hosea was a prophet, and God told him to marry a woman named Gomer. But Gomer was unfaithful and left him, causing Hosea deep hurt. When Gomer cheated on Hosea, God explained that the hurt she caused was similar to the hurt God feels when we sin. Both the Israelite people and we as humans today have cheated on God with idols—things, ideas, and even people we worship instead of our good Creator. Throughout the book of Hosea, God spelled out His anger and hurt toward His cheating people. But then the book takes a surprising turn. God told Hosea to take back his cheating wife and love her like God loves the Israelites. Gomer had become enslaved to her lovers, so Hosea had to buy back his own wife and bring her home again. This parallels the story of Christ, who bought us at the much higher cost of His own blood on the cross. Jesus loved us so much that He took on one of the most painful deaths the Roman Empire could offer. Not only did He die to pay the price for our sin, but He also overcame death through His resurrection—He made the way to free us from our slavery to sin and ensure that we could be with Him forever. Even though we have all cheated on God with our sin—and we continue to sin every day—He still loves us. More than a husband could ever love his wife. • Naomi Zylstra • God loved us while we were enamored with the sin that enslaved us. As Christians, why is it important to remember that God continues to love us even when we are still enamored with sin? (If you want to dig deeper, read Romans 5:8; 8:38-39; 1 John 4:10, 19; Ephesians 2:1-10) • If you want to know more about what it means to be rescued and forgiven by Jesus, see our "Know Jesus [https://unlocked.org/knowjesus/]" page. • As Christians, we know that our sin is just as bad as anyone else’s. How should God’s love for us motivate us to treat others? (1 John 4:11) Remember, if someone has hurt you deeply, loving and forgiving them doesn’t necessarily mean trusting them again—it might look like setting up healthy boundaries. Who are trusted Christian adults in your life you could talk to about this? The LORD says, “Then I will heal you of your faithlessness; my love will know no bounds, for my anger will be gone forever.” Hosea 14:4 (NLT)