Selective Ignorance: Ep. 59 | Bans, Bad Blood & Bambaataa

EP 470: Monica Lewinsky’d All On My Gown

Mandii B and Weezy return for a raw solo episode of Decisions, Decisions where they unpack the complicated conversation around Monica Lewinsky and debate accountability versus innocence, including whether she was a victim or acting with agency, and how public narratives have shaped the way women are judged. The duo dives into the lasting impact of slut-shaming, the idea of using sex as power, and broader gender dynamics that spark heated “gender wars,” from childhood experiences to how society frames trauma across men and women. They also explore controversial topics like acceptable age gaps, the pressure of defending women in public discourse, and whether high-power women are truly protected. Later, they lighten the tone with “We Listen and We Judge,” break down relationship behaviors like stonewalling, debate whether having no social media is a red flag, and get into real-life scenarios around conflict resolution, space after arguments, and boundaries at home, keeping it honest, unfiltered, and conversation-starting throughout. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf [https://www.instagram.com/weezywtf/?hl=en]& Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps [https://www.instagram.com/fullcourtpumps/?hl=en] and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions [https://www.instagram.com/_decisionsdecisions/] Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 60 | Lap Dances, Live Nation & Losers

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a wide-ranging conversation that blends music, industry politics, and social commentary. The episode opens with Mandii’s concert experience at Pretty Ricky’s “Boys For Life Tour” alongside a breakdown of the Live Nation lawsuit and Ticketmaster monopoly concerns, highlighting how corporate control impacts fans and artists alike [ 02:16]. The discussion deepens into the real-world effects of Ticketmaster’s dominance on concertgoers, including pricing, access, and industry fairness [ 24:24 ], before pivoting into festival culture and consumer awareness, with a look at scams and safety concerns surrounding events like Coachella [ 29:30 ]. The hosts then shift into music industry reflections, unpacking Lil Wayne’s perspective on his career, legacy, and the challenges artists face navigating longevity and business [ 30:29 ], before transitioning into political commentary with reactions to public figures like Caitlyn Jenner and Tina Campbell, examining how celebrity voices influence political discourse [ 41:03 ]. The conversation expands into the complexities of identity and documentation, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community, and the systemic barriers individuals face in navigating acceptance and legitimacy [ 41:39 ]. From there, the crew explores the consequences of political choices and how they directly impact personal lives and communities [ 44:40 ], followed by a deeper discussion on the intersection of faith, politics, and voter accountability, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making [ 49:00 ]. The episode takes a serious turn with a candid conversation about the ongoing crisis of violence against women, addressing societal responsibility and the need for structural change [ 56:25 ], which leads into a powerful dialogue on the importance of emotional intelligence in men as a preventative measure against harmful behavior [ 01:01:45 ]. The episode closes with reflections on cultural identity through sports rivalries, highlighting how fandom, geography, and identity intersect to shape broader societal interactions [ 01:09:41 ].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299] Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps [https://instagram.com/fullcourtpumps] Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking [instagram.com/itsaking] @jaysonrodriguez [https://instagram.com/jaysonrodriguez] @mrhiphopobama [https://instagram.com/mrhiphopobama] Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod [https://instagram.com/selectiveignorancepod] Tiktok @selective.ignorance [https://www.tiktok.com/@selective.ignorance] X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod [https://x.com/selectiveig_pod] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

EP 469: Forgiving Cheaters (feat. Brianda & Krystal)

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by their best friends Krystal and Brianda for a candid and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating dynamics, monogamy, and the blurred lines of modern relationships. The group unpacks everything from exploring options and questioning loyalty, to whether someone likes you more and how to communicate boundaries when you’re not trying to entertain multiple people. They get into real conversations about cheating, forgiveness, and the “once a cheater, always a cheater” debate, while also sparking a heated discussion around marriage, motherhood, and public figures like Cardi B and Latto. The episode also takes a deeper turn as they open up about dating during serious health challenges, including navigating relationships while going through breast cancer treatment, before circling back to celibacy, double standards, and what it really means when men claim they’re abstaining. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf [https://www.instagram.com/weezywtf/?hl=en]& Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps [https://www.instagram.com/fullcourtpumps/?hl=en] and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions [https://www.instagram.com/_decisionsdecisions/] Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

You've Got Decisions: Leave of Absence

Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com [Decisionspod@gmail.com]  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf [https://www.instagram.com/weezywtf/?hl=en]& Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps [https://www.instagram.com/fullcourtpumps/?hl=en] and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions [https://www.instagram.com/_decisionsdecisions/] “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299] Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Selective Ignorance: Ep. 59 | Bans, Bad Blood & Bambaataa

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a dynamic conversation that blends sports, culture, music, and social accountability. The episode opens with nuanced takes on trending current events and cultural discourse, setting the tone for a layered discussion [ 02:14 ], before jumping into a spirited Knicks vs. Hawks debate, unpacking rivalry, fandom, and regional pride within the NBA landscape [05:07 ]. The hosts then shift into a personal concert experience, sharing anticipation, expectations, and reflections on live music culture [ 10:42 ], followed by a breakdown of a miscommunication moment that sparks a broader conversation about perception and intent in social interactions [ 18:45 ]. The discussion deepens into cultural critique as the crew examines blackface, satire, and the boundaries of comedy, questioning what constitutes humor versus harm in modern entertainment [ 27:32 ], before expanding into the consequences of cultural appropriation and how public figures navigate backlash and accountability [ 33:13 ]. Conversations around identity and racial perception take center stage [ 36:21 ], leading into a critical analysis of Kanye West’s controversies and the broader implications of celebrity behavior on cultural narratives [ 41:22 ]. The hosts also address the hypocrisy within celebrity culture and the selective outrage often seen in public discourse [ 52:16 ], reinforcing the need for consistent accountability within the community [ 59:44 ]. The episode transitions into cultural phenomena, beginning with a breakdown of the meaning behind “The Birthday” trend and its social implications [ 01:05:58 ], before diving into Tekashi69’s controversial commentary on street culture and authenticity in the music industry [ 01:10:30 ]. The conversation expands into the business realities of hip-hop, exploring the tension between street credibility and financial strategy [ 01:15:23 ], followed by a discussion on the impact of debt and financial obligations on artists’ careers [ 01:20:15 ]. The hosts close by reflecting on the significance of upcoming tours and the enduring influence of R&B superstars, examining how legacy artists continue to shape today’s music landscape [ 01:24:19 ][ 01:31:16 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299] Follow the host on Social Media Mandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps [https://instagram.com/fullcourtpumps] Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking [instagram.com/itsaking] @jaysonrodriguez [https://instagram.com/jaysonrodriguez] @mrhiphopobama [https://instagram.com/mrhiphopobama] Follow the show on Social Media Instagram @selectiveignorancepod [https://instagram.com/selectiveignorancepod] Tiktok @selective.ignorance [https://www.tiktok.com/@selective.ignorance] X/Twitter @selectiveig_pod [https://x.com/selectiveig_pod] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.